Latest / Kickin’ It With KeKe: Life, Love, & MINDSET / Episode #168 w/Andrew Carroll
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Welcome to Kicking In with Kiki.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Kicking it you Ki Ki kicking it the ki key.
- 0:15Speaker 1: For a little personality, switching up the storyline on God.
- 0:19Speaker 2: We making this story and books, changing lines one day
- 0:23Speaker 2: at the time.
- 0:24Speaker 1: How much problems to the side, enjoy yourself, freeze your
- 0:27Speaker 1: mind kicking it we Ki keep.
- 0:40Speaker 2: Hello and welcome back to Kicking It with Kiki. Life,
- 0:44Speaker 2: Love and Mindset, where transformation is all about being the
- 0:50Speaker 2: best version of yourself. This podcast focuses on healing, on life, love,
- 0:56Speaker 2: mindset and everything that it's painted to make you who
- 1:00Speaker 2: you know, the best version of yourself. Y'all know how
- 1:02Speaker 2: I like to do. I love to give my guests
- 1:05Speaker 2: the opportunity to introduce themselves. So I'm going to turn
- 1:08Speaker 2: it over to Andrew. Andrew, thank you for coming to
- 1:11Speaker 2: kick it with me today.
- 1:13Speaker 1: I appreciate that. I appreciate the the offer to be
- 1:16Speaker 1: on your podcast. Thank you very much for this, Kiki.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Absolutely so go ahead and tell the listeners who you
- 1:22Speaker 2: are and what you do.
- 1:23Speaker 1: Okay, Well, my name is Andrew Carroll, I am a
- 1:26Speaker 1: well I do. We're a lot of hats, but we're
- 1:28Speaker 1: going to focus on the writing hats today. So I
- 1:31Speaker 1: am a writer, particularly in the poetry, short story, blogging,
- 1:38Speaker 1: and now screenwriting lanes. And I'm also the founder and
- 1:42Speaker 1: creator of my own multimedia. I want to call it
- 1:46Speaker 1: a multimedia umbrella called open Frame Media, where I write
- 1:52Speaker 1: and post blogs about you know, what's going on in
- 1:55Speaker 1: today's world, from you know, music, to sports, to cultural
- 1:59Speaker 1: events to a little bit on the political side of things.
- 2:03Speaker 1: And also I have my own independent magazine Imprint called
- 2:08Speaker 1: We Are Indie, where I get shot outs to the
- 2:11Speaker 1: independent artists that are just out there trying to make
- 2:14Speaker 1: their voice heard and their works be seen. And I've
- 2:18Speaker 1: been writing for but I'm like ten over ten years
- 2:22Speaker 1: of being a writer. But to go back further than that,
- 2:26Speaker 1: I've always had a creative imagination since i was a child,
- 2:29Speaker 1: but in my adult years, I've been writing since twenty fifteen.
- 2:32Speaker 2: I love that congratulations, look you jumped the gun because
- 2:37Speaker 2: I had all that and talking about that's awesome. That's awesome. Though,
- 2:43Speaker 2: before we get into all things, Andrew, I always like
- 2:46Speaker 2: the lead with a mindset moment, right, because if we
- 2:50Speaker 2: don't talk about how to shift our mindset, we kind
- 2:52Speaker 2: of stay stuck in the same person that you know,
- 2:56Speaker 2: we just go through life with tunnel vision sort of
- 2:59Speaker 2: speak yeah, oh what mindsets shift changed the way you
- 3:04Speaker 2: approach life.
- 3:06Speaker 1: Man, I can do a lot of sub I can
- 3:10Speaker 1: do a lot of example, especially over the last ten years.
- 3:12Speaker 1: But I'll be really honest to you. When I unfortunately
- 3:16Speaker 1: lost my father in twenty twenty four, that to me
- 3:22Speaker 1: shifted from you know, instead of me warrying about the
- 3:26Speaker 1: outcome of whatever it is that I'm working towards, it
- 3:30Speaker 1: was then let's just enjoy the journey. Let's enjoy the
- 3:33Speaker 1: path that we're on, and like you mentioned, doesn't necessarily
- 3:36Speaker 1: have to be about tonnel vision, but we gotta now
- 3:40Speaker 1: stop every so often and smell the roses. That doesn't
- 3:43Speaker 1: mean we're quitting. It doesn't mean that we're being lazy.
- 3:46Speaker 1: But sometimes, you know, and I'm guilty of this, and
- 3:48Speaker 1: we probably all are. We have the mindset of go, go, go, go,
- 3:51Speaker 1: go achieve this, achieve that while achievements are good and dandy,
- 3:55Speaker 1: we gotta sometimes sit down and go, you know what,
- 3:58Speaker 1: let's do it reflecting. Let's do a little reflecting. Let's
- 4:01Speaker 1: see how far we've came, and let's just appreciate the
- 4:05Speaker 1: moment that we're currently in. Before we move forward to
- 4:08Speaker 1: whatever's next. So to me, when I lost a parent,
- 4:12Speaker 1: that that event alone changed my complete mindset on a
- 4:16Speaker 1: lot of things. But in terms of what we're talking about,
- 4:18Speaker 1: it was that just stopping smother the roses. Sometimes there's
- 4:21Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that, and you can keep moving forward
- 4:24Speaker 1: after you do that, and hopefully as we go along
- 4:28Speaker 1: we continue to have that mindset and and and not
- 4:31Speaker 1: let it, not let life or anything else fall by
- 4:34Speaker 1: the have us fall by the wayside.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Absolutely, so follow up question and my condolences on the
- 4:41Speaker 2: loss of your father. Had what mindset kept you grounded
- 4:48Speaker 2: in that season? Because you know, grief comes and goes,
- 4:51Speaker 2: it comes in waves. So at that moment, what what
- 4:54Speaker 2: do you believe that kept you grounded as far as
- 4:57Speaker 2: mindset is concerned, I'll be I was with you.
- 5:00Speaker 1: Writing played a major role, and what I mean my
- 5:03Speaker 1: writing when everything happened, I started to journal. Now, before this,
- 5:08Speaker 1: I never drove it in my entire life. I never
- 5:11Speaker 1: didn't have a journal, didn't have anything that I kept
- 5:14Speaker 1: like track of, like life events or anything. It was
- 5:17Speaker 1: strictly just writing in my genres. But when I started journaling,
- 5:22Speaker 1: to me, that was one of the many ways that
- 5:25Speaker 1: was therapeutic, and that could also allow me to express
- 5:29Speaker 1: the grief that I was going through at the time.
- 5:32Speaker 1: So instead of me keeping it inside of me and
- 5:35Speaker 1: keeping it quiet and then let it like festate inside
- 5:38Speaker 1: of me, I said, you know what, let's just write.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Let's just write about our thoughts. Let's write about our day,
- 5:43Speaker 1: Let's write about what we went through that day. It
- 5:45Speaker 1: was positive, negative, or you know, indifferent. Journaling to me
- 5:50Speaker 1: kept me grounded throughout that morning season. And while I
- 5:54Speaker 1: wasn't necessarily writing in my other genres because creativity wise,
- 5:58Speaker 1: it wasn't you know, in the right mind, said to me,
- 6:01Speaker 1: journaling not only kept me grinded, but it got that
- 6:04Speaker 1: creative drews is flowing again to where I can go
- 6:07Speaker 1: back to writing my poetry, go back to write my
- 6:09Speaker 1: short stories. And this was way before your I started
- 6:12Speaker 1: writing screenplays too. So for me, journaling was the one
- 6:16Speaker 1: key component that really kept my feet on the ground
- 6:20Speaker 1: and my and my meltal game somewhat in shape while
- 6:24Speaker 1: I was going through I was going through morning, the passing,
- 6:26Speaker 1: and my father.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Man, I'm so happy that you said that about journaling.
- 6:31Speaker 2: A lot of people don't give it a try until
- 6:34Speaker 2: it actually you just you can't do anything else with
- 6:37Speaker 2: your emotions except forget them out, because they will eat
- 6:40Speaker 2: you alive if you keep them all bottled inside. And
- 6:43Speaker 2: let's I know you've probably experienced it too. People just
- 6:46Speaker 2: don't know what to say in times of like you know,
- 6:48Speaker 2: when you lose people that's close to you, they just
- 6:50Speaker 2: don't know what to say. So you find yourself feeling like, dang,
- 6:54Speaker 2: the people that I thought were going to be here,
- 6:56Speaker 2: they're not. Are you isolate yourself? And so for me
- 7:00Speaker 2: when I went through a personal laws too in twenty twenty,
- 7:04Speaker 2: I've always journal but I found myself getting more detailed
- 7:09Speaker 2: in it. I wanted to kind of leave a legacy
- 7:13Speaker 2: behind so that when my kids, my other kids read it,
- 7:16Speaker 2: they can say, wow, my mom really left it all
- 7:20Speaker 2: out there.
- 7:21Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. And it's funny you mentioned that, because
- 7:25Speaker 1: when I was cleaning my dad's apartment. Funny enough, I
- 7:29Speaker 1: think I knew more about my father after his transition
- 7:35Speaker 1: to when he was alive and not to sad and
- 7:37Speaker 1: gets no live. It was my dad. Of course, he
- 7:39Speaker 1: spent a lot of time together, but he also wrote
- 7:42Speaker 1: a lot of things too. He wrote letters, he wrote journals.
- 7:45Speaker 1: So it's just like that's where the family dynamic came
- 7:48Speaker 1: into play because when I was discovering that, I discovered
- 7:51Speaker 1: that he had a lot of my a lot of
- 7:53Speaker 1: my late grandmother's items his mom and she was a
- 7:56Speaker 1: writer too, she wrote like diaries and everything. So I'm
- 7:59Speaker 1: just like, I guess this is kind of like a
- 8:02Speaker 1: like a universal sign that I was. I guess I
- 8:04Speaker 1: was meant to write, you know, because like I didn't
- 8:07Speaker 1: know for years that it ran in my family until
- 8:09Speaker 1: I started going through his stuff and clean out his apartment.
- 8:13Speaker 1: So that to me said a lot about you know,
- 8:17Speaker 1: where I was as a writer. And I and I went, well,
- 8:20Speaker 1: I guess, I guess in a sense, its calm was
- 8:23Speaker 1: like faate misense, Like I guess I was meant to write,
- 8:26Speaker 1: you know, be a creator, be a writer, you know,
- 8:31Speaker 1: and do the things I've been doing for the last
- 8:33Speaker 1: ten years and especial for the last couple of years
- 8:35Speaker 1: with with with the writing I've done. So to me,
- 8:38Speaker 1: that kind of took me by surprise because I didn't
- 8:40Speaker 1: even know my dad wrote like that, and he didn't
- 8:42Speaker 1: been telling me he was alive. So just like I
- 8:44Speaker 1: don't know if maybe he was ashamed. I don't know,
- 8:47Speaker 1: but that that definitely put a smile on my face
- 8:50Speaker 1: during that time period for sure.
- 8:52Speaker 2: Well I'm so glad. I'm so glad that you have
- 8:55Speaker 2: that experience. Uh. It puts a smile on my face
- 8:58Speaker 2: because I'm a boring writer. I've been writing so long
- 9:01Speaker 2: and I love it. And we're gonna talk about how
- 9:04Speaker 2: you got into writing. So when were you first introduced
- 9:08Speaker 2: to writing? Like when did you fall in love with words?
- 9:11Speaker 1: I should say, I think for me, I guess, you know,
- 9:14Speaker 1: going back before the adult years of writing. When I
- 9:18Speaker 1: was younger, I had a very creative, big imagination. I remember,
- 9:23Speaker 1: and I remember I remember stacking up Doctor Seus's books.
- 9:27Speaker 1: I used to be a Doctor Seus's book collector. I mean,
- 9:29Speaker 1: cat and hat, one fish too, fish, you name it.
- 9:32Speaker 1: I had it all. Like I was like a Dr
- 9:35Speaker 1: Seuss like fan of the family, right, So that started
- 9:40Speaker 1: with that. And then I used to collect a lot
- 9:41Speaker 1: of action figures. So I used to pretend, like I
- 9:44Speaker 1: used to build my own worlds and like pretend these
- 9:47Speaker 1: two figures were in that world. So that kind of
- 9:49Speaker 1: got the you know, imagination started. But then growing up
- 9:53Speaker 1: in school, I was more attentative when it came down
- 9:56Speaker 1: to the English classes, the history, the literature. The I
- 10:00Speaker 1: didn't pay attention to math and signs then and I
- 10:03Speaker 1: still don't care if about math and science now, so
- 10:05Speaker 1: that that hasn't really changed. So yeah, sorry, but math
- 10:09Speaker 1: and scigens was never my subjects. But when it came
- 10:12Speaker 1: down to English literature, speech history, I was more attendive
- 10:16Speaker 1: to those classes that kind of told a story right
- 10:20Speaker 1: there and then, and as I got older, you know,
- 10:24Speaker 1: I always used to try math ma. I always think
- 10:27Speaker 1: I'm gonna write, I wanna write, I wanna write. And
- 10:29Speaker 1: then around twenty fifteen, I was at, you know, a
- 10:33Speaker 1: pretty low point in my life, and so I went
- 10:35Speaker 1: up to a local dollar tree, picked up the notebook
- 10:38Speaker 1: and I'm just like, okay, am I going to journal this?
- 10:41Speaker 1: Or am I gonna am? I gonna do something completely
- 10:43Speaker 1: out of the blue. So then I started to write.
- 10:46Speaker 1: And next thing, you know, I'm writing poetry. Now. I've
- 10:49Speaker 1: never written a poem before that, so I wasn't familar
- 10:51Speaker 1: with the poetry in terms of the rhyme scheme and
- 10:55Speaker 1: how to like set up certain stances or anything. I
- 10:57Speaker 1: didn't know about that. But you know, five to ten poems.
- 11:00Speaker 1: I'm just like, okay, you know, I guess we got
- 11:03Speaker 1: poetry in our lives. So we kept writing, and from
- 11:05Speaker 1: twenty fifteen on towards it was nothing but poetry. And
- 11:10Speaker 1: then I want to say around twenty nineteen or twenty
- 11:13Speaker 1: twenty is when I started to write short stories. And
- 11:17Speaker 1: then from that point it was short stories on and
- 11:20Speaker 1: and then like I said, the other the blogs or stringwriting,
- 11:23Speaker 1: which we'll get into, but yeah, that was essentially my
- 11:27Speaker 1: first introduction to anything writing related was really in grade school,
- 11:31Speaker 1: middle school, high school, and so on and so forth.
- 11:35Speaker 2: So how has that transition to the transition being from
- 11:39Speaker 2: poetry to short story.
- 11:42Speaker 1: It was. It was challenging because it was the new
- 11:44Speaker 1: genre and it was now, okay, I'm writing three to
- 11:49Speaker 1: four to five eight lane stances to now creating a character,
- 11:53Speaker 1: creating a you know, a premise, creating a world. But
- 11:57Speaker 1: then I go, well, I was kind of doing this
- 11:58Speaker 1: when I was younger, of creating those worlds for my
- 12:01Speaker 1: action figures. So it's just like, all right, well, now
- 12:03Speaker 1: this is on paper. Now that's the difference. So for me,
- 12:09Speaker 1: I almost I almost was using my portrait as like
- 12:12Speaker 1: a cheat code. Because my first short story was from
- 12:16Speaker 1: one of my poems, so it was an ad one
- 12:19Speaker 1: of my poems. So I'm like, okay. So then I
- 12:21Speaker 1: took my time and saying, okay, we have something that
- 12:24Speaker 1: we can use, so now let's write you know, the characters.
- 12:27Speaker 1: And that took a while for me to figure out,
- 12:29Speaker 1: like the names and like the backgrounds and like the
- 12:31Speaker 1: personalities and everything. And then from that point, I can't
- 12:35Speaker 1: really explain what was returning by from that point everything
- 12:38Speaker 1: started to come together. It was almost like it was
- 12:41Speaker 1: a natural thing. It was like, Okay, I got a title.
- 12:43Speaker 1: Now I have a premise, I have you know what
- 12:46Speaker 1: the beginning's gonna be. I have the ending. And then
- 12:48Speaker 1: from that point, so the transition the beginning was a
- 12:51Speaker 1: little bit rough because it was a new genre. But
- 12:53Speaker 1: then after a couple of mistakes, a couple of setbacks,
- 12:56Speaker 1: I'm like, then everything starting to come together slowly. And
- 13:00Speaker 1: then from that point the imagination kicked in. I said, okay,
- 13:03Speaker 1: let's write about this short story. Let's use this example
- 13:07Speaker 1: from our life to write about this story. So a
- 13:09Speaker 1: lot of my earlier short story work was pretty much
- 13:13Speaker 1: stemmed from either my poetry or certain events that happened
- 13:17Speaker 1: in my own personal life that I used for examples.
- 13:21Speaker 2: I love it. I love that. So let's talk about
- 13:24Speaker 2: the blog of Yes. How did that start? Tell us
- 13:27Speaker 2: a little bit about.
- 13:28Speaker 1: The originally I created? This was it. It was last summer,
- 13:34Speaker 1: and I was at a point where it's like, Okay,
- 13:37Speaker 1: I got poetry, I got short stories. But once again,
- 13:39Speaker 1: knowing me, I'm just like, what can I do next?
- 13:42Speaker 1: What can I do to challenge my writing, challenge my
- 13:46Speaker 1: way of thinking, challenge my creativity, challenge the process of writing.
- 13:52Speaker 1: So I was thinking, well, maybe I should start a blog.
- 13:55Speaker 1: Like you know, we're still kind of in that blog era,
- 13:57Speaker 1: but it's more driven on social media if his Instagram,
- 14:01Speaker 1: TikTok et, cetera, on YouTube for bloggers. But then I'm like, okay,
- 14:05Speaker 1: we're still in the era where people are posting blogs
- 14:07Speaker 1: and are posting articles and are posting about what's on
- 14:11Speaker 1: their mind. Let's do that from our own end. So
- 14:14Speaker 1: last summer I created the Blog of Drew, and during
- 14:19Speaker 1: I guess, I want to say the first thirty days
- 14:22Speaker 1: I was focused on what can we write about and
- 14:25Speaker 1: considering the world that we live in today, which is chaotic,
- 14:29Speaker 1: and unpredictable. I can essentially focus on anything that's happening
- 14:33Speaker 1: in the world of sports, the word of music, the
- 14:35Speaker 1: word of music, art independent, you know, art history. I
- 14:40Speaker 1: can write about, like I said, examples of my own life.
- 14:43Speaker 1: There was a lot that I could pull from that
- 14:46Speaker 1: I can create articles from. So the first article I've
- 14:49Speaker 1: written was like an introduction, It's like why the blogger drew?
- 14:53Speaker 1: What maybe going to that? And then I started to
- 14:55Speaker 1: write things about I wrote about I wrote an article
- 14:58Speaker 1: about mental health. I wrote an article about about certain
- 15:02Speaker 1: television shows I wrote articles about. So I wrote a
- 15:05Speaker 1: lot of articles about even my even my favorite things,
- 15:09Speaker 1: like I wrote an article about cooking. Like, there's a
- 15:11Speaker 1: lot that I can pull from. So for me, it
- 15:14Speaker 1: was another way of once again expressing my thoughts and
- 15:18Speaker 1: my and my personal opinions about you know, today's you know, society.
- 15:23Speaker 1: But also I wrote about some of the things that
- 15:26Speaker 1: I'm you know, personally close to as well too, and
- 15:29Speaker 1: it just kind of just took off from that point on.
- 15:31Speaker 2: I love that I had a blog too, and that
- 15:34Speaker 2: I transitioned. I would I started using my blog to
- 15:39Speaker 2: put my short stories on. Okay, then I transitioned to
- 15:42Speaker 2: writing novels because of the audience was like, you need
- 15:45Speaker 2: to take this down. We are invested in these characters.
- 15:48Speaker 1: What happened that?
- 15:51Speaker 2: So I love how versatile blogs can be. And like
- 15:54Speaker 2: you said, it's disguise the limit, especially with the climate
- 15:57Speaker 2: that we're in and uh, you know all of the
- 15:59Speaker 2: true and in your life you have different things that
- 16:02Speaker 2: you're going on. People like that, especially if it's positive,
- 16:05Speaker 2: they really be tuned in to it.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, And and some of my bog articles
- 16:11Speaker 1: I do have a slight edge so them, especially if
- 16:15Speaker 1: I'm talking about a situation that was negative, I'm gonna
- 16:19Speaker 1: be a little bit more expressive and that article and
- 16:22Speaker 1: let them know that, hey, these are my thoughts. You
- 16:24Speaker 1: don't have to agree with them. This is not the
- 16:27Speaker 1: writing where I want everybody to be on my side.
- 16:30Speaker 1: It's like, sometimes I'm a little bit more outspoken in
- 16:32Speaker 1: certain articles because this either has personally hit home or
- 16:37Speaker 1: I've seen this happen to my own friends and family.
- 16:40Speaker 1: So I'm gonna be a little bit more aggressive when
- 16:42Speaker 1: it comes down to the voice of the article versus
- 16:45Speaker 1: something that's a little bit more fine, a little more
- 16:47Speaker 1: laid back. So I have a good combination of the
- 16:50Speaker 1: fund and laid back articles and I have a good
- 16:52Speaker 1: combination of like the more outspoken edge your ones.
- 16:56Speaker 2: Absolutely, So before we least thing open frame media and
- 17:02Speaker 2: then we are in the we're gonna move to the
- 17:03Speaker 2: reality check. Right, It's a segment where growth sounds good,
- 17:07Speaker 2: but the truth is is uncomfortable. So what's an uncomfortable
- 17:13Speaker 2: truth people need to hear about personal growth?
- 17:18Speaker 1: I think one of them is you really have to
- 17:21Speaker 1: look in the mirror and look at yourself and really
- 17:24Speaker 1: take accountability and responsibility for the things that you do,
- 17:28Speaker 1: and then figure out what needs to be done moving
- 17:30Speaker 1: forward to do less of that. It's not necessarily about
- 17:35Speaker 1: being perfect, because nobody is, but it's all but also
- 17:38Speaker 1: we need to hold ourselves accountable. And I think that's
- 17:42Speaker 1: what the issue is society is is that we're so
- 17:45Speaker 1: busy put in a finger and blaming this person, blaming
- 17:49Speaker 1: this event, But then when it comes down to us
- 17:51Speaker 1: looking ourselves in the mirror, we're not ready to see
- 17:53Speaker 1: those scars. We're not ready to see those wards, ready
- 17:56Speaker 1: to see those marks that made us who we are,
- 18:00Speaker 1: positive and negative. So I think the most uncomfortable thing
- 18:03Speaker 1: that people are avoiding is to really look themselves in
- 18:07Speaker 1: the mirror and go, this is who I am, this
- 18:10Speaker 1: is why I'm at, this is why I'm here. But
- 18:13Speaker 1: then we have to do Then we have to go, Okay,
- 18:15Speaker 1: how do we now move forward with a different approach mentally, emotionally, spiritually,
- 18:22Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. So to me, my own
- 18:25Speaker 1: version of the uncomfortable truth is holding yourself accountable and
- 18:29Speaker 1: looking yourself in that mirrorcause a lot of people can't
- 18:31Speaker 1: do that nowadays.
- 18:32Speaker 2: Absolutely, I love it. And what belief or habits do
- 18:37Speaker 2: you personally feel like keeps people stuck?
- 18:41Speaker 1: Habit wise? Hmm? I want to say there's a lot
- 18:49Speaker 1: that I think people get that makes people stuck. I
- 18:53Speaker 1: think I think the biggest thing is not necessarily following
- 18:58Speaker 1: what's going on with social media, because I'll give example
- 19:02Speaker 1: with me when it comes down to writing, I don't
- 19:05Speaker 1: necessarily follow trends. I don't follow you know, gimmicks or gurus.
- 19:09Speaker 1: It's like, okay, you know there's some things that I'll
- 19:12Speaker 1: take advice from certain writers, but I'm not going to
- 19:15Speaker 1: insially follow trends on what's being written about or talk
- 19:18Speaker 1: about because they're already doing it. So I think people nowadays.
- 19:22Speaker 1: I think people are being stuck because they're too busy
- 19:25Speaker 1: following bandwagons. They're not too they're not they don't have
- 19:28Speaker 1: the ability to create their own bandwagon, so they're trying
- 19:31Speaker 1: to hitch on other people's and then they're realizing that
- 19:35Speaker 1: they're almost losing themselves in the process. So as they're
- 19:38Speaker 1: losing themselves, they're being stuck where they're at. They're not growing,
- 19:41Speaker 1: they're not evolving, they're not moving forward as a person.
- 19:45Speaker 1: So for me, I think that's one of the things
- 19:47Speaker 1: I can go on. I can make a list of
- 19:49Speaker 1: things of white people being stuck. But for this particular moment,
- 19:54Speaker 1: I think following trends or or following to me's other
- 20:00Speaker 1: people's advice is what's making people. Uh is what makes
- 20:04Speaker 1: it's what is making people be stuck in their own
- 20:08Speaker 1: you know, in their own waye And until they figure
- 20:11Speaker 1: out a way to find their own identity, it's going
- 20:14Speaker 1: to continue to be that way unfortunately.
- 20:18Speaker 2: Right. I agree, I agree. So what is one hard
- 20:22Speaker 2: lesson that's shade who you are today?
- 20:28Speaker 1: I think one of the lessons I've learned is and
- 20:34Speaker 1: there's a lot, Like I said, I'm just thinking about
- 20:35Speaker 1: the lessons from my dad to even my mother, my grandmother, uncles, cousins,
- 20:41Speaker 1: you name it. But I think the biggest heart lesson
- 20:44Speaker 1: I've discovered was that nobody is truly going to save you.
- 20:49Speaker 1: In order for you to live the life that you
- 20:52Speaker 1: want to live and do the things that you want
- 20:54Speaker 1: to do, you have to put on your bootstraps and
- 20:57Speaker 1: go to work. And not to say I've always I've
- 21:00Speaker 1: always had to work ethic, but in certain cases I
- 21:05Speaker 1: was overthinking my strategy and overthinking my situation and that
- 21:08Speaker 1: led to kind of some you know, stubborn, hardheaded moments
- 21:12Speaker 1: that set me back or made me, you know, be
- 21:15Speaker 1: stuck for that moment. So I think the biggest lesson
- 21:18Speaker 1: for me was nobody's gonna save you. You have to you know,
- 21:22Speaker 1: your your your life and your features in your own hands.
- 21:25Speaker 1: And obviously you're gonna have support and and and and
- 21:29Speaker 1: whatnot from friends and family, but at the end of
- 21:31Speaker 1: the day, it's all on you.
- 21:32Speaker 2: They're not gonna do it, Yeah, because no one is
- 21:35Speaker 2: coming to save you. You have to save yourself.
- 21:37Speaker 1: Yeah, Exactly.
- 21:39Speaker 2: When it comes to love, what is one reality people
- 21:43Speaker 2: need to understand about love and relationship.
- 21:47Speaker 1: Love and relationships. I think the one reality that people
- 21:51Speaker 1: are being lost on that it's it's a two way street.
- 21:56Speaker 1: I think a lot of people head into relationships and
- 22:00Speaker 1: love with the one sided mindset of Okay, if this
- 22:04Speaker 1: person loves me, they're going to have to do everything
- 22:07Speaker 1: that I see and do. And while that might work
- 22:11Speaker 1: for a short period of time, eventually that person's gonna
- 22:14Speaker 1: realize that I'm stuck in a one way in a
- 22:17Speaker 1: one way relationship. So for me, it takes two to tango.
- 22:22Speaker 1: It takes two people of the dance in this type
- 22:25Speaker 1: of world. And if you don't have anybody that is
- 22:27Speaker 1: willing to also put in the work and put in
- 22:30Speaker 1: a sacrifice that you're doing, it's not gonna work, no
- 22:32Speaker 1: matter how good that no matter how good looking that
- 22:35Speaker 1: person is, no matter how you feel when you're around them,
- 22:39Speaker 1: doesn't matter. If both people are not willing to put
- 22:42Speaker 1: in the work and put in a sacrifice to make something,
- 22:46Speaker 1: to make something work for the long run, then if
- 22:50Speaker 1: you had that short term thinking, it's not gonna work
- 22:52Speaker 1: at all, no matter what.
- 22:54Speaker 2: Absolutely I agree. Well, let's moving back to Andrew. Tell
- 22:59Speaker 2: us about the frame media. How did you start it?
- 23:02Speaker 2: Why did you start it? Tell us all about it?
- 23:05Speaker 1: So how I started was okay. So going back to
- 23:08Speaker 1: last year, I did the blog and that was a
- 23:11Speaker 1: good run. And then towards the end of the year,
- 23:13Speaker 1: I don't want to say I felt burnt out, but
- 23:15Speaker 1: I might once again, how my mind works. What can
- 23:18Speaker 1: we do next? How can I evolve? How can I
- 23:20Speaker 1: grow all the good stuff? So I put the blog
- 23:23Speaker 1: on a pause. But then I was thinking, you know what,
- 23:27Speaker 1: I did have a previous concept that I created back
- 23:30Speaker 1: in twenty twenty called we are Indie Wednesdays, and what
- 23:33Speaker 1: it was was every Wednesday, I would give an independent
- 23:37Speaker 1: artists a shout out on my page, giving them some love,
- 23:40Speaker 1: plugging their work, plugging their social media links, whatever the
- 23:44Speaker 1: case may be. And that was a really popular concept
- 23:47Speaker 1: that led to me meeting a lot of writers, including Lilian.
- 23:50Speaker 1: So that concept lasted for about two years, and I
- 23:54Speaker 1: shut it down because at the time it wasn't quite
- 23:56Speaker 1: sure if wanted to continue to do it or not.
- 23:59Speaker 1: So fast forward till late last year, I was like, okay,
- 24:02Speaker 1: I got the blog. I'm like, what else can I do?
- 24:04Speaker 1: But then I'm like, well, let's bring back we are
- 24:06Speaker 1: Indie but we're gonna drop the Wednesdays and just post,
- 24:11Speaker 1: you know, post it whenever we can. So I got
- 24:13Speaker 1: the blog, I got this independent concept, but I'm just like, hmmm,
- 24:17Speaker 1: I'm like, how can I put it under one umbro
- 24:20Speaker 1: to where there its own separate entities but under the
- 24:24Speaker 1: same like um brother home. That's where open frame Media
- 24:27Speaker 1: came to play and to be interest you. I don't
- 24:30Speaker 1: know how I got the name open frame Media. I
- 24:32Speaker 1: think I was. I think I was looking at one
- 24:35Speaker 1: of my windows and the frame was open. I'm just like,
- 24:38Speaker 1: all right, open frame It just the light bulb came
- 24:42Speaker 1: in my head. I don't know beyond that, I don't
- 24:45Speaker 1: know why I named it that, but that's probably the
- 24:47Speaker 1: reason why, honestly. So I launched that earlier this year,
- 24:52Speaker 1: and like I said, I'm treating it as like a
- 24:54Speaker 1: multimedia umbrolla with two different entities. But then you know,
- 24:59Speaker 1: I had the screen writing under there. So eventually, at
- 25:02Speaker 1: some point I am going to turn into a full
- 25:04Speaker 1: fledged multimedia production company to where we have the blog,
- 25:09Speaker 1: we have that we are any concept, and then now
- 25:11Speaker 1: we have the screenplays on anything our belt to where
- 25:14Speaker 1: we're not only writing screenplays but we're eventually going to
- 25:17Speaker 1: start to look into, you know, getting into the producing
- 25:20Speaker 1: side of things, to where now open framed media is
- 25:23Speaker 1: essentially a multimedia home for all my ideas that are
- 25:27Speaker 1: running in my head or all the ideas that I
- 25:29Speaker 1: you know, that I can come up with and create.
- 25:32Speaker 2: I love it though, because we as a creative we
- 25:34Speaker 2: don't really have a lot of spaces for us. So
- 25:37Speaker 2: thank you for creating a space, a positive space for
- 25:41Speaker 2: us to have somewhere to get celebrated, give the people flowers.
- 25:46Speaker 2: That is very big for me.
- 25:49Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean as an independent artisan. You probably
- 25:51Speaker 1: noticed too, it's it's hard to get the support from
- 25:55Speaker 1: you know, the big bad marketing machines that are out
- 25:59Speaker 1: there because they look at independent artists. It's almost like
- 26:02Speaker 1: Pian's unfortunately, but we're the ones who are keeping this
- 26:05Speaker 1: thing alive. If you're a writer, if you're a painter,
- 26:08Speaker 1: if you're a musician or actor or whatever, you know,
- 26:11Speaker 1: whatever your creative lane is independent art form. To this day,
- 26:16Speaker 1: it's still thriving, it's still popular. It's still among the
- 26:20Speaker 1: most you know, sought out and almost copied art form
- 26:24Speaker 1: that's out there. And I'm glad that I created a
- 26:28Speaker 1: concept where I can give them their flowers, I can
- 26:30Speaker 1: give them love, I can give them support, because unfortunately,
- 26:34Speaker 1: they're probably not going to get it from the closest people.
- 26:37Speaker 1: They might get it, you know, from their peers, they're
- 26:39Speaker 1: probably not going to get it from a lot of
- 26:41Speaker 1: people that they thought that they were going to receive
- 26:43Speaker 1: it from. So that's why we are India exists for
- 26:46Speaker 1: that reason alone.
- 26:48Speaker 2: Yep, Well you just answered about the question that I
- 26:50Speaker 2: was about that. How did that come about? I mean
- 26:55Speaker 2: you could talk about it if you like. We are Indy.
- 26:58Speaker 2: I love the name.
- 26:59Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean back in twenty twenty, when the
- 27:02Speaker 1: pandemic was happening, you know, we were all shut down
- 27:06Speaker 1: from the world. We were all in our houses, we
- 27:08Speaker 1: were all border over our minds. One day I was
- 27:12Speaker 1: looking over all my work and I'm just like, I
- 27:15Speaker 1: have a lot of work. It was mostly you know,
- 27:17Speaker 1: poetry and short It was poetry and I want to
- 27:19Speaker 1: say one to two short stories, but still a lot
- 27:21Speaker 1: of poems I had. I'm like, have a lot of work.
- 27:23Speaker 1: But then I go, how can I put this work
- 27:28Speaker 1: out to the public so then people can finally see
- 27:31Speaker 1: what I've been writing At the time for about five years.
- 27:34Speaker 1: Because the first five years, key key, nobody, I want
- 27:38Speaker 1: to say, nobody knew that was writing, but nobody saw
- 27:41Speaker 1: from a public perspective that was writing, right, they just
- 27:44Speaker 1: knew that I was writing, but nobody from a social
- 27:48Speaker 1: media perspective solid. So I started to slowly like put
- 27:53Speaker 1: out like poetry on my page, you know, here and there,
- 27:57Speaker 1: and I would get like a ton of likes, a
- 28:00Speaker 1: follow followers, and there are mostly writers. So I started
- 28:03Speaker 1: to like look on their page what they were writing about,
- 28:06Speaker 1: kind of like you, kind of spying their page and going, Okay,
- 28:09Speaker 1: I see you. I will follow them, they will follow
- 28:11Speaker 1: me back, and that's how I was able to grow
- 28:13Speaker 1: my audience a little bit. But then I go, man,
- 28:15Speaker 1: like these there's a lot of great talent that I'm following.
- 28:20Speaker 1: Let me find out. Let me figure out a way
- 28:21Speaker 1: since they supported me, let me figure out a way
- 28:24Speaker 1: to give back to them. Right. That's where the weird
- 28:27Speaker 1: Indie Wednesdays came into mind. And what I would do
- 28:30Speaker 1: is I would like put one of their like poster
- 28:33Speaker 1: pictures on my story, and I would like put their
- 28:35Speaker 1: hand on my story, and I would kind of give
- 28:38Speaker 1: them like a brief summary of who they were, what
- 28:40Speaker 1: their genre is, what their art from was, and what
- 28:43Speaker 1: they're currently working on. So then it went from me
- 28:47Speaker 1: putting that on my stories to them put it on
- 28:50Speaker 1: my on my actual post, on my page, and that
- 28:53Speaker 1: pull up too because now you can actually see it
- 28:55Speaker 1: on my on my on my timeline, the actual post.
- 28:59Speaker 1: So I I did that for two years, and that's
- 29:02Speaker 1: where the growth of the independent you know artists you
- 29:07Speaker 1: know grew because for me, in my opinion, around that
- 29:11Speaker 1: twenty twenty twenty twenty two time period, that's when to me,
- 29:16Speaker 1: the growth of online you know creators kind of you
- 29:19Speaker 1: know came about. And as we're seeing that now through
- 29:21Speaker 1: TikTok and things of that nature. So I'm proud to
- 29:25Speaker 1: say that I was kind of like in the beginning
- 29:27Speaker 1: stages of that growth that we see now all giving
- 29:31Speaker 1: out shoutouts to independent you know artists that weren't given
- 29:34Speaker 1: the love that that they deserved.
- 29:36Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I love that I started kicking it with in
- 29:40Speaker 2: twenty twenty, so I can't get it.
- 29:43Speaker 1: See, so here you are six years later still and again,
- 29:48Speaker 1: I think twenty twenty was a pivotal year for a
- 29:50Speaker 1: lot of artists because again we were shut from the world,
- 29:53Speaker 1: so we had to come up with waves to kind
- 29:56Speaker 1: of get us out there without necessarily going outside at
- 29:59Speaker 1: that time.
- 30:00Speaker 2: Absolutely so tell the listeners how they can follow you,
- 30:04Speaker 2: where can they find your work, and all the things
- 30:07Speaker 2: how they can support absolutely well.
- 30:10Speaker 1: My Instagram handle is at Drew B. Carroll that's d
- 30:13Speaker 1: r E. That's d r E w B and then
- 30:16Speaker 1: Carol c A R R O l L. That's my
- 30:19Speaker 1: Instagram handle. And in terms of Open frame Media, I
- 30:24Speaker 1: have a natural website where you can see all the blogs,
- 30:26Speaker 1: all the we are indie issues, and you can see
- 30:29Speaker 1: updates on my screenwriting and just updates on just my
- 30:32Speaker 1: next moves in general. That's at www dot openframemedia dot org.
- 30:38Speaker 1: So that's the official website to open Framemedia. So you
- 30:41Speaker 1: can follow me on Instagram, follow them on a website, continue,
- 30:44Speaker 1: you know, see the you know, you can see my
- 30:46Speaker 1: journey and growth as a writer. And I got a
- 30:48Speaker 1: lot of exciting things I had on actually in the process.
- 30:52Speaker 1: I'm an early pre production of producer my first short
- 30:54Speaker 1: film this summer, so for one of my screenplays, so
- 30:57Speaker 1: I'm really excited to get that start. So I'm currently building,
- 31:02Speaker 1: like the cast and crew. It's going to be a
- 31:04Speaker 1: small cast and crew, but it's going to be a
- 31:06Speaker 1: pivotal one because it's the first film that I'm producing
- 31:09Speaker 1: from my own screenplays, and I do have another screenplay
- 31:13Speaker 1: idea on mine, but I'm I don't have a story
- 31:16Speaker 1: or a premise about it yet. I got a couple
- 31:18Speaker 1: of ideas in mind with it, but it involves it
- 31:22Speaker 1: involves the spelling Bee, but it's going to be somewhat
- 31:25Speaker 1: of a twitch to it. So I'm excited to get
- 31:27Speaker 1: that started at some point this year. But yeah, my
- 31:30Speaker 1: focus right now is the short film, and of course
- 31:34Speaker 1: me still turning out you know, a blog of Drew articles.
- 31:37Speaker 1: I'm working on issue number three of We Are Indie,
- 31:40Speaker 1: So I got a couple of people in mind that
- 31:42Speaker 1: I want to highlight. So that's what that's what's cooking
- 31:46Speaker 1: in the lab right now. And I'm really excited, Like
- 31:48Speaker 1: I'm probably having the most fun as a writer over
- 31:52Speaker 1: the last couple of years that I have like in
- 31:54Speaker 1: quite a long time. So I'm looking forward to people
- 31:57Speaker 1: seeing what I have next, and it's going to be exciting.
- 32:00Speaker 1: I'm really excited about it.
- 32:01Speaker 2: I was so excited for you like short films. I mean,
- 32:05Speaker 2: I love that. And so speaking of short films, like
- 32:07Speaker 2: talk about the screenwriting. So we started in poetry and
- 32:10Speaker 2: then you went to short stories and you know have
- 32:12Speaker 2: the blog. So now screenwriting. How did all of that
- 32:16Speaker 2: transition around.
- 32:19Speaker 1: The same time that I started the blog or drew
- 32:22Speaker 1: last summer. It was something about starting that that made
- 32:29Speaker 1: me go, well, I eventually at some point want to
- 32:32Speaker 1: pivot into when this like you know, full time as
- 32:35Speaker 1: like as like a career. But I'm like, how do
- 32:38Speaker 1: I go about that? You know, people now, you know,
- 32:41Speaker 1: there's a lot of people nowadays are either authors or
- 32:44Speaker 1: their songwriters or they're screenwriters. And I said, well, author,
- 32:49Speaker 1: I guess I'm an author in a different sense that
- 32:51Speaker 1: I published, but I don't necessarily publish physical books. So
- 32:53Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm already an author. And I said songwriting. Now,
- 32:57Speaker 1: I don't think the music industry is not my cup
- 32:59Speaker 1: of tito work in. So I said, what about screenwriting Again,
- 33:03Speaker 1: that's a world where you can build where I could
- 33:05Speaker 1: really use my imagination and stretch it out to the
- 33:09Speaker 1: furthest you know, possible realms I can. So then once
- 33:14Speaker 1: again I had the cheat code because I have short
- 33:18Speaker 1: stories and I have portrait that I can use as
- 33:20Speaker 1: a potential creative base to write my own screenplay. So
- 33:24Speaker 1: the first screenplay I wrote was an adaptation of one
- 33:29Speaker 1: of one of my short stories, and then from that
- 33:31Speaker 1: point I mixed in adaptations and original ideas for my screenplay.
- 33:37Speaker 1: So I have five screenplays in the can right now,
- 33:41Speaker 1: and one of the screenplays, the short film of the Producing,
- 33:44Speaker 1: is actually based on a short story that I've written
- 33:47Speaker 1: that I wrote a couple months ago, and then recent
- 33:50Speaker 1: screenplay that I wrote that I finished up. It was
- 33:53Speaker 1: an original idea, but it was based on I was
- 33:59Speaker 1: reading or to go about how somebody like went to
- 34:02Speaker 1: their high school reunion and wasn't like the reunion that
- 34:04Speaker 1: they thought it was. So that got me going, like,
- 34:07Speaker 1: how can I maybe I can write something not in
- 34:09Speaker 1: the high school run with things, but somebody going back
- 34:11Speaker 1: to their hometown and it's a bitter sat it's a
- 34:14Speaker 1: bitter shot reunion. So that's what that's screamplays about. But yeah,
- 34:19Speaker 1: that all started last summer. Just had another creative Inpiphity.
- 34:23Speaker 1: I was like, let's just let's just start writing screenplays.
- 34:25Speaker 1: And then from that point, we just you know, started
- 34:29Speaker 1: to write out ideas and now it's led to five
- 34:33Speaker 1: screenplays and like I said, I'm working on you know,
- 34:35Speaker 1: producing my first one this summer.
- 34:37Speaker 2: So that's amazing. Congratulations. I'm so excited. I cannot wait
- 34:42Speaker 2: to follow and be a part of the journey.
- 34:46Speaker 1: Yes, yes, absolutely, And like I said, I appreciate you
- 34:50Speaker 1: know being on here too, because I love talking about
- 34:53Speaker 1: my writing journey. I love talking about how I got
- 34:56Speaker 1: into all these things because even to this day, I'm
- 34:59Speaker 1: just like, Damn, I really did.
- 35:01Speaker 2: All if you have a lot, and I can tell
- 35:06Speaker 2: that you love it because of the smile on your
- 35:08Speaker 2: face when you talk about your writing so much success.
- 35:11Speaker 2: And now we're moving into the mic drop section because
- 35:14Speaker 2: we always want to leave a mic drop moment for
- 35:16Speaker 2: the listeners to take something that resonates, of course, and
- 35:20Speaker 2: apply it to their everyday life that can help them
- 35:23Speaker 2: transform their mindset, mind, body, and spirit. Yes, what is
- 35:27Speaker 2: one sentence about life? You want people to remember.
- 35:36Speaker 1: The decisions that you make today will have an impact
- 35:40Speaker 1: on your tomorrow's.
- 35:44Speaker 2: I love that. Okay, I love that.
- 35:50Speaker 1: Exactly. That's it right there.
- 35:52Speaker 3: Than if I had a mic I would drop it thanks.
- 36:07Speaker 2: Thanks.
- 36:07Speaker 1: I don't know if we could top that, right, you
- 36:11Speaker 1: top that? Damn?
- 36:15Speaker 2: What is one truth about love everyone should understand?
- 36:21Speaker 1: I think the one truth that people should know about
- 36:24Speaker 1: love is that it's a it's a forever work in progress.
- 36:34Speaker 1: And what I mean by that is not just loving
- 36:37Speaker 1: somebody in a relationship, but most importantly loving yourself. There's
- 36:42Speaker 1: gonna mean moments where you absolutely love yourself, and you're
- 36:45Speaker 1: gonna have days where you're kind of guessing yourself and
- 36:48Speaker 1: who you are as a person. But no matter what
- 36:52Speaker 1: those days bring, it's always an everlasting work in progress.
- 36:57Speaker 1: And I think that's what love is truely all about.
- 36:59Speaker 2: It.
- 36:59Speaker 1: It's ebb and flow, it's child's and tribulations, it's peaking valleys,
- 37:05Speaker 1: is even sometimes stagnant too, But at the end of
- 37:08Speaker 1: the day, it's a forever work in progress. And I
- 37:11Speaker 1: think that's what a lot of people should always, you know,
- 37:14Speaker 1: know about love every single day, no matter what. See,
- 37:18Speaker 1: we're not in an open mic stage. I will have
- 37:19Speaker 1: like drums and all that in the background right.
- 37:22Speaker 2: Now, right absolutely, Okay. What mindset believes can change someone's life?
- 37:30Speaker 1: What mindset believe that I can? Hmmm, I think I mean,
- 37:37Speaker 1: this is gonna sound cliche, but it's absolutely true. You
- 37:40Speaker 1: have to be your number one fan, yes, or anybody
- 37:44Speaker 1: before you search out for anybody else to support you.
- 37:47Speaker 1: Of its friends, family, somebody that you're dating, total strangers,
- 37:52Speaker 1: this person is industry, that person in that industry, whatever
- 37:56Speaker 1: the case may be. You have to be your number
- 37:58Speaker 1: one fan because if you're not, then really nobody else
- 38:02Speaker 1: is going to believe nor invest in you. And I
- 38:05Speaker 1: think a lot of people who are searching for that
- 38:09Speaker 1: validation from other people, they haven't sat down and validated
- 38:13Speaker 1: themselves first. They haven't got down and given them self
- 38:17Speaker 1: that self respect first. So before you go out and
- 38:21Speaker 1: search for that and other people and other groups, you
- 38:23Speaker 1: have to make sure that's within you. So to me,
- 38:26Speaker 1: being your number one fan first, being your number one
- 38:29Speaker 1: supporter first is absolutely key in life, not just as
- 38:33Speaker 1: a creator but just life as a whole. You have
- 38:36Speaker 1: your number one fan first before anybody else can.
- 38:40Speaker 2: I totally agree. I totally agree, all right, So last
- 38:43Speaker 2: question in the mind drop segment, make sure you're make
- 38:47Speaker 2: it a good one because.
- 38:50Speaker 1: No pressure when.
- 38:52Speaker 2: Life challenges you and love stretches you, what mindset keeps
- 38:58Speaker 2: you grounded?
- 39:02Speaker 1: I think the mindset of me thinking that if life
- 39:09Speaker 1: challenges me in life and love stretches me, what I
- 39:13Speaker 1: think about it is this is this is part of
- 39:16Speaker 1: the journey. This is a season. This is only a
- 39:19Speaker 1: season of many other seasons that you're gonna go through.
- 39:23Speaker 1: It's just a season. So I never want to think
- 39:26Speaker 1: that this is a forever thing if I'm going through,
- 39:29Speaker 1: like you know, some trials and tribulations, or think that
- 39:32Speaker 1: oh I'm curised or something's wrong, and be like, no
- 39:35Speaker 1: to me. The the ones who are fully confident in themselves,
- 39:41Speaker 1: the ones who are talented, the ones who are gifted,
- 39:44Speaker 1: are gonna go through the rough spots in life. But
- 39:47Speaker 1: remember it's only for a season, and it's gonna be
- 39:51Speaker 1: a season of many seasons you're gonna go through in life.
- 39:54Speaker 1: So just buckle buckle, buckle down, you know, put on
- 39:59Speaker 1: the put on the blue, get the work, and by
- 40:01Speaker 1: the time you get through this season, you're gonna look
- 40:03Speaker 1: back and go, yeah, I went through that for a reason.
- 40:07Speaker 1: And the reason is now I'm better at this, or
- 40:10Speaker 1: I'm better at that, or my mindset is where it's
- 40:12Speaker 1: at right now, all because I had to go through
- 40:15Speaker 1: that season to get to where I'm going to get
- 40:17Speaker 1: to where I'm at in life. So to me, that's
- 40:21Speaker 1: my mindset is it's just a season. It's not a
- 40:23Speaker 1: for everything.
- 40:25Speaker 2: Absolutely, you guys had the mic drop moment with Andrew
- 40:29Speaker 2: Carroll today. Thank you for coming to kick it with me.
- 40:32Speaker 2: It has been an amazing, amazing, amazing. You look in
- 40:35Speaker 2: my top five for sure.
- 40:36Speaker 1: Sure, come on, I stopped it. Really, I'm so flattered.
- 40:42Speaker 2: I am so serious when when I tell people that
- 40:44Speaker 2: they're gonna be like, no, seriously, not even joking. You
- 40:49Speaker 2: are in my top five But thank you for coming
- 40:52Speaker 2: to kick with me today. And I want to thank
- 40:54Speaker 2: you listeners for tuning in to another episode of Kicking
- 40:57Speaker 2: It with Kiki, Life, love, and mindset. Always remember that
- 41:00Speaker 2: your story has power, your voice has purpose, and your
- 41:03Speaker 2: mindset can change everything. Until next time, you can catch
- 41:07Speaker 2: me on all major streaming podcast platforms as well as YouTube.
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- 41:15Speaker 2: you go and tune in. If this episode resonated with you,
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