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Man Accused of Killing His Girlfriend, Then Fleeing With Their 5-Year-Old to Mexico · Murder Files Unsealed

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  Speaker 1: You know, when we think about the sahty systems built
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  into our modern society, we almost always picture things that.
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  Speaker 2: Are a loud, right yeah, highly visible things.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly, things that are designed to be immediate, intrusive, like
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  impossible to ignore. I mean, think about a fire alarm.
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  The moment there's even a hint of smoke in a
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  commercial building, a piercing, undeniable shriek just kicks off, strobes flash.
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  You don't sit around and debate it, you know, you evacuate.
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  Speaker 2: You have to. It's designed to force compliance.
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  Speaker 1: Right And then the fire trucks arrive within minutes with
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  their own sirens blaring, air horns blasting, and everyone on
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  the street stops what they're doing to look. The threat
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  is highly visible, the response is overwhelmingly visible, and the
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  entire neighborhood knows exactly what's happening.
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  Speaker 2: Because the system works by relying on public disruption, right yeah, exactly,
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  it forces a communal awareness. Like the entire mechanism of
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  our emergency response infrastructure is predicated on this idea that
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  the emergency must be made obvious to everyone within a
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  mile radius. I mean, you can't have a private five alarm.
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  Speaker 1: Fire, but then and this is what we're looking at today.
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  You look at this entirely different mechanism in law enforcement,
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  a mechanism known as the welfare check, right, and a
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  welfare check operates on a completely inverted logic. It's not
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  a piercing alarm. It's more like a societal smoke detector
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  that's just giving off a quiet, intermittent chirp somewhere deep
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  in the walls of a house.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really good way to put it.
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  Speaker 1: Because someone somewhere, maybe a neighbor watering their lawn, or
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  a coworker noticing an empty desk for the second day
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  in a row, or a family member whose calls just
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  keep going straight to voicemail, they hear that chirp.
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  Speaker 2: And they get that visceral, gnawing feeling in their gut.
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  Speaker 1: Right, something isn't right. They can't see flames, they don't
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  smell smoke, but the baseline rhythm of normalcy has just
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  been broken.
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  Speaker 2: So they call it in, and you know, sometimes the
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  police show up, they knock on the door, and it's
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  a total misunderstanding, like a dead battery and that metaphorical
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  smoke detector. Other times, yeah, other times, law enforcement opens
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  that door and steps into a four alarm fire that
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  has been burning silently, just devastating everything inside, long before
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  the rest of the world even realized there was a spark.
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  Speaker 1: And that silent, devastating fire is exactly where we find
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  ourselves today. So welcome to you, our listener, to this
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  custom tailor deep dive.
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  Speaker 2: Glad to be here for this one.
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  Speaker 1: Our mission today is to really pull back the curtain
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  and go far beyond the tragic, high profile headlines of
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  a recent Los Angeles true crime event.
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  Speaker 2: Because there's so much more beneath the surface.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. We are going to unpack the incredibly complex, multi
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  layered machinery of international manhunts. We're going to examine the
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  deeply devastating, often invisible psychology of domestic violence, and we're
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  going to navigate the honestly, surprisingly intricate and sometimes frustrating
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  legal realities of cross border extradition. It's a massive web,
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  it really is. We are looking at a comprehensive compilation
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  of reports surrounding the West Adams tragedy, specifically focusing on
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  the pursuit of justice for Marisol Garcia Pelasios.
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  Speaker 2: And we need to establish right up front that we
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  are analyzing this material as it stands in June of
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  twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Six, right, which is crucial.
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  Speaker 2: Very this is a living, breathing, ongoing legal situation, which
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  means setting a very specific operational baseline for our discussion.
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  Because we're dealing with an active judicial process. The suspect
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  at the center of this manhunt is presumed innocent until
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  proving guilty in a court of law. We aren't here
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  to play judge, jury or executioner.
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  Speaker 1: Right, That's not what this deep dive is about.
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  Speaker 2: No, our objective is to dissect the systems, the sociology,
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  and the timeline of events as documented by official agencies.
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  We have to walk a very fine line here.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, balancing the inherent human intrigue of a massive investigative
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  puzzle with the utmost unyielding respect to the victims because
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  their lives have been permanently fractured by these events.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, keeping that respect at the forefront.
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  Speaker 1: Is paramount, because before a case becomes a assive, multi
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  agency international incident with embassys and tactical teams, it starts.
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  Speaker 2: Small, it starts hyper locally.
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  Speaker 1: Right. To understand the sheer scale of the manhunt, we
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  actually have to zoom all the way in to a
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  single quiet residential blog.
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  Speaker 2: Monday, May twenty fifth, twenty twenty six.
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  Speaker 1: LAPD patrol officers are dispatched to a residence on Southall's
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  Ace Avenue in the West Adams neighborhood of Los Angeles.
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  And this is the welfare check.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And the dispatch notes indicate that neighbors or concerned
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  parties initiated the request, which is a detail I want
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  to come back to definitely. But when those patrol officers arrive,
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  they don't find a misunderstanding inside that residence. They discover
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  the body of a thirty six year old mother named
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  Marisol Garcia Pelasios.
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  Speaker 1: Known to many in her community as Marisol Right.
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  Speaker 2: And the initial assessment by authorities immediately classifies her death
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  as violent. Now, regarding the specific forensic details, you know,
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  the exact mechanism of injury, the condition of the scene,
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  authorities have placed a strict ho on that information, pending
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  a full autopsy and the ongoing investigation.
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  Speaker 1: Which makes sense. But I want to pause on that
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  geography for a second, because a violent crime doesn't just
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  happen in a vacuum.
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  Speaker 2: No, It always has a context, right, It.
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  Speaker 1: Happens in a specific room, in a specific house, on
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  a specific street, in a specific neighborhood. And West Adams
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  is a fascinating part of Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 2: It really is.
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  Speaker 1: If you look at its history, it is architecturally incredible,
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  historically rich, and profoundly diverse. But it is also a
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  neighborhood caught in the absolute crosshairs of intense.
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  Speaker 2: Gentrification, massive shifts happening.
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  Speaker 1: There. You have long time, multi generational residents living right
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  next door to newer affluent arrivals. There is a massive
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  socioeconomic shift happening blocked by a WA and the crime
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  statistics reflect a neighborhood in transition moderate to elevated rates
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  compared to the broader city. So I'm trying to piece
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  together how that macro level neighborhood pressure interacts with the
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  micro level tension inside a single home.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it acts as an ambient pressure cooker.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what do you mean by that?
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  Speaker 2: When we look at the sociology of domestic violence, we
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  have to account for environmental stressors. Gentrification isn't just about
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  cool new coffee shops opening, and it brings severe displacement, anxiety.
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  It brings skyrocketing property taxes, rent instability, and the fracturing
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  of long standing community support networks.
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  Speaker 1: So people feel isolated even in their own neighborhoods.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly, and those external economic and social pressures push inward
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  on the walls of a household. If a relationship already
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  has underlying fissures of control, jealousy, or abuse, throwing severe
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  financial or housing anxiety into the mix acts as a
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  profound accelerant.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: The violence might happen behind closed doors, but the environment
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  outside those doors often fuels the temperature inside.
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  Speaker 1: So the neighborhood is already vibrating with this underlying transitional tension.
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  And into that tension, someone makes the call for a
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  welfare check, which brings me back to the idea of
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  the concerned neighbor.
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  Speaker 2: Right the third party.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, The fact that a third party requested this check
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  suggests to me that whatever was happening inside that house
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  on South ELSs Avenue wasn't entirely contained, like the isolation
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  must have cracked.
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  Speaker 2: That is a really crucial deduction, because isolation is the
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  primary weapon in the arsenal of an abuser to.
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  Speaker 1: Keep people from seeing the fire exactly.
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  Speaker 2: The goal is to cut the victim off from family, friends,
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  and the community, so the abuse can continue unchecked. When
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  a concerned party requests a welfare check, it signifies a
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  systemic failure of that isolation.
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  Speaker 1: Meaning things got too loud to ignore.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it means the behavioral anomalies became so stark, so undeniable,
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  that they bled out into the public sphere. Perhaps a
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  friend noticed a chilling pattern of missed.
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  Speaker 1: Calls, or maybe an employer noticed an uncharacteristic, unexplained absence.
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  Speaker 2: Or maybe a neighbor heard a physical altercation that finally
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  broke through the ambient noise of city living. Whatever the trigger,
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  it breached the walls of the.
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  Speaker 1: Home, and the moment those LAPD officers step over the
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  threshold and confirm a violent death, the entire operational paradigm
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  shifts instantly. Complete. The officers go from a standard patrol mindset,
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  maybe expecting to help someone who fell or diffuse a
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  loud argument, to realizing they were standing in a crime scene.
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  I imagine the radio traffic changes completely, the perimeter goes up,
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  the yellow tape comes out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it escalates from a local patrol response to
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  a full scale robbery homicide. Division deployment detectives arrive, forensics
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  teams are dispatched, the coroner is notified. But the most
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  terrifying pivot in those initial minutes isn't just processing the scene.
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  Speaker 1: It's the realization of who is absent from the scene
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  exactly because Marisol wasn't living alone, she was a mother.
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  As soon as the investigators start piecing together the basic
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  demographics of the household, the bottom just drops out.
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  Speaker 2: Her forty year old partner, Ruben Fragoso, is nowhere to
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  be found.
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  Speaker 1: Right, and infinitely more terrifying, their five year old daughter, Dealeza,
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  is also gone. Yeah, Suddenly, this isn't just a homicide
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  investigation looking backward at what happened. It is an active,
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  desperate race against the clock looking forward, trying to locate
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  a missing child.
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  Speaker 2: And the timeline instantly becomes law enforcement's worst enemy.
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  Speaker 1: Walk us through that timeline well.
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  Speaker 2: The initial canvas reveals that Rubin Fragoso and young Daleza
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  were last seen the day prior Sunday, May twenty fourth,
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  near the intersection of Alsace Avenue in Ferndale Street.
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  Speaker 1: But the welfare check wasn't until the twenty fifth.
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  Speaker 2: Right, the welfare check and discovery occurred on Monday, May
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  twenty fifth. That gap that built in delay between the
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  last confirmed sighting and the realization of the crime means
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  the suspect has a massive tactical.
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  Speaker 1: Advantage, which brings us to the Amber Alert. It gets
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  issued on May twenty fifth, and.
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  Speaker 2: The description goes out everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Deliza is five years old, about three feet tall,
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  forty five pounds, black hair, brown eyes, believed to be
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  in the company of her father, Ruben Fragoso, driving a
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  White Land Rover or suv. And the Amber Alert is
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  an incredible piece of infrastructure. It essentially deputizes millions of
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  citizens simultaneously. Every highway sign from Santa Barbara to the
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  Mexican border.
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  Speaker 2: Lights up, every cell phone in a three hundred mile
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  radius emits that terrifying clason sound right.
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  Speaker 1: It is an overwhelming dragnet, and it does generate a lead,
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  but it's the exact lead nobody wanted.
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  Speaker 2: They locate the suspects vehicle, but it isn't spotted driving
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  down the four or five Freeway in Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 1: Here's it.
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  Speaker 2: The white Land Rover is found abandoned in a parking
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  garage at the Sandy Sea draw point of entry.
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  Speaker 1: The border cross yes.
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  Speaker 2: And surveillance cameras capture footage of Fragoso and five year
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  old child in the immediate vicinity of the border crossing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I need to stop here and grapple with the
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  logistics of this because it feels like a massive failure
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  of the dragnet, and I don't fully understand how it happens.
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  Speaker 2: It's a common reaction, like we live in an era.
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  Speaker 1: Of unprecedented surveillance. We have license plate readers on almost
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  every major intersection in southern California.
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  Speaker 2: We have cell phone geolocation exactly.
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  Speaker 1: We have an amber alert system that pushes to millions
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  of devices and seconds. How does a suspect driving a
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  highly publicized white suv with a missing child manage to
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  navigate the grueling traffic of Los Angeles, drive all the
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  way through San Diego and successfully cross the busiest land
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  border in the Western hemisphere before anyone stops him.
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  Speaker 2: It seems impossible.
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  Speaker 1: Are you telling me that technology is just fundamentally slower
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  than a guy in a car.
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  Speaker 2: It isn't that the technology is slow. I mean an
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  Amber alert moves at the speed of light. The problem
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  is that technology cannot travel backward in time.
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  Speaker 1: Ah The timeline gap.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, this is where that gap we just discussed becomes
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  absolutely critical. Law enforcement is operating under the assumption of
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  May twenty fifth, but the suspects clock started ticking on
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  May twenty fourth.
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  Speaker 1: So let's do the logistical math on that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, The drive from the West Adams neighborhood to the
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  Sandy Sea Drow border crossing is roughly one hundred and
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  thirty miles, depending on the time of day in traffic,
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  that is a two to three hour drive. Right If
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  Fragoso Fledla Los Angeles on Sunday night or even early
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  Monday morning before the neighbors initiated the welfare check, he
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  had hours of unimpeded travel time.
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  Speaker 1: So by the time the police kicked the door in,
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  he's already in San Diego County. Exactly by the time
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  the supervisors approved the Amber alert criteria and physically pushed
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  the button to activate the highway signs, he's already parking
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  the car.
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  Speaker 2: He could have abandoned that white Land Rover in the
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  border adjacent garage, taken to Laza by the hand, and
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  walked onto the pedestrian bridge into Tijuana long before his
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  license plate ever flashed on a California freeway.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, and we have to talk about what crossing at
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  Sandy Sidro actually entails. I've done the pedestrian crossing it
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  Sandy Sijro. It is an absolute sea of humanity. You
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  are shoulder to shoulder with thousands of commuters, tourists and families.
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  Speaker 2: Over one hundred thousand people crossed that specific border every
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  single day.
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  Speaker 1: One hundred thousand.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. The pedestrian entry into Mexico, especially during peak hours,
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  is a massive flowing river of people. You don't stand out,
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  You become a single drop in an ocean.
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  Speaker 1: So a man holding a child hand crossing southward isn't
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  going to raise any red flags.
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  Speaker 2: No, it isn't going to trigger secondary screening for Mexican
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  customs unless there is already an active bilateral alert in
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  their system. The sheer volume provides a perfect temporary cloak
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  of invisibility.
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  Speaker 1: That's terrifying.
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  Speaker 2: It is by the time the abandoned suv is tagged
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  by local authorities in Sandy Cedro, the investigative map has
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  fundamentally shifted. The local LAPD homicide case has just crossed
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  sovereign lines and become an international incident.
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  Speaker 1: In authorities immediately suspect he's utilizing family ties in Mexico
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  to hide. The public records suggest variations of his name,
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  like Reuben Francosuarez, linking him to locations south of the border.
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  Speaker 2: Which kicks off a massive media frenzy.
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  Speaker 1: Right, the manhunt dominates every news cycle. But to truly
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  comprehend why this manhunt was necessary. To understand the psychology
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  of a man who would allegedly murder his partner and
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  drag his sideyrilled into hiding, we have to look back.
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  Speaker 2: We do.
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  Speaker 1: We have to examine the relationship dynamics that incubated this
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  tragedy and confront the invisible epidemic of violence that serves
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  as the backdrop for this entire case.
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  Speaker 2: This is where the narrative shifts from a procedural timeline
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  to a profound sociological tragedy. Yeah, because when investigators and
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  reporters began speaking with Marisol's inner circle, a very specific
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  profile emerged. She was overwhelmingly described by friends, neighbors, and
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  family as a fiercely devoted mother.
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  Speaker 1: Like her whole life was her daughter.
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  Speaker 2: Her entire world, her priorities, her energy. It all orbited
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  around the well being of young Daleza. To the casual observer,
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  she presented the facade of normalcy.
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  Speaker 1: But those closest to her knew there were deep, terrifying
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  cracks in that foundation.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, there are accounts from friends citing prior severe tension
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  in the relationship. They specifically pointed to escalating concerns that
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  Reuben exhibited violent tendencies, particularly when alcohol was involved.
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  Speaker 1: And while it is critical to note that these specific
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  claims are unverified in a court of law, when criminal
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  lologists and sociologists here about alcohol fueled aggression and possessive tension,
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  I mean, those aren't just minor relationship squabbles.
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  Speaker 2: No, they aren't. They are the glaring textbook indicators of
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  intimate partner violence or IPv.
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  Speaker 1: And it is vital that we zoom out from this
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  specific block in West Adams to look at the macroreality
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  of IPv because the statistics are horrifying.
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  Speaker 2: They really are. Nationwide, roughly one in four women and
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  one in seven men will experience severe physical violence at
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  the hands of an intimate partner during their lifetime.
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  Speaker 1: One in four women.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you look at Los Angeles County alone, emergency
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  dispatchers receive tens of thousands of domestic violence calls annually.
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  It is a staggering, pervasive public health crisis that largely
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  operates in the shadows.
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  Speaker 1: I want to focus on how it operates in the
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  shadows because the concept of these textbook indicators being invisible
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  to the public is fascinating and terrifying. Hey do you
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  mean well? If I could try out an analogy here,
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  partner violence seems to behave almost exactly like a geological sinkhole.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I see where you're going with this.
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  Speaker 1: If you are just a neighbor walking your dog past
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  a house, the property looks perfectly fine. The lawn is mode,
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  the roof is intact, the driveway is solid. To the
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  outside world. The structural integrity of the relationship appears completely stable.
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  But underneath the surface, completely hidden from view, there's a slow,
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  systematic erosion happening. The groundwater of coercion, jealousy, and isolation
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  is washing away the bedrock of the victim's autonomy. This
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  invisible hollowing out can go on for years. The ground
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  looks solid right up until the exact microsecond it suffers
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  a sudden, catastrophic and completely devastating collapse, and everyone standing
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  on the perimeter of the Rubbele says, my god, that
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  came out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 2: But it didn't come out of nowhere, did it?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly?
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  Speaker 2: That is an incredibly powerful and accurate framework. The erosion
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  is the abuse. It's not always a black eye. Often
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  it is the systematic dismantling of a person's support network.
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  It's taking control of the finances, it's dictating who they
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  can text, what they can wear, where they can go.
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  And you are entirely correct. It never comes out of nowhere.
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  The tragedy is that the warning signs only become legible
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  to the wider community and the aftermath of the collapse.
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  And in the field of criminology, we know that when
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  that final catastrophic collapse happens, it almost always occurs at
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  what is known as the lethal intersection.
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  Speaker 1: I've heard sociologists use that term before the lethal intersection.
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  It implies that violence of this magnitude isn't just a
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  spontaneous combustion. It's a collision of different stressors hitting a
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  breaking point simultaneously. Exactly right, are we talking about the
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  combination of things like financial panic, substance abuse, and relationship breakdown,
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  all converging at once.
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  Speaker 2: Precisely. The lethal intersection is the apex of risk. We
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  discuss the economic pressures of gentrification acting as a financial stressor.
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  Speaker 1: Right, the ambient pressure cooker.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and the accounts of alcohol involvement act as a substance,
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  but the ultimate catalyst. The absolute most dangerous element in
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  the entire domestic violence paradigm is separation.
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  Speaker 1: That feels incredibly counterintuitive to the general public. Oh totally,
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  you would think the moment a victim finally takes agency,
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  packs a bag and decides to leave, that would be
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  the moment the danger begins to subside. Leaving is supposed
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  to be the solution. Why does taking agency make them
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  a target?
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  Speaker 2: Because it fundamentally threatens the core architecture of the abuser psyche.
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  How so, domestic abuse is not about anger management. It
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  is about absolute power and coercive control. When a victim
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  attempts to leave or even signals a credible intent to separate,
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  the abuser realizes they are losing their grip on their possession.
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  Oh wow, And in the distorted psychology of an abuser,
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  if they cannot maintain control over the victim, they must
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  destroy them to reclaim their dominance. Leaving is the ultimate
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  ego death for a.
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  Speaker 1: Controlling partner, so they lash out.
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  Speaker 2: The violence escalators exponentially. It transforms from a tool of
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  compliance into a tool of absolute punishment. The abuser is
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  essentially saying, if I don't get to dictate the terms
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  of your life, I will dictate the terms of your death.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: That is a chilling reality. It means the bravest thing
• 19:15
  a victim can do is also the most statistically fatal.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Unfortunately.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Yes, So if we take that understanding of possessive psychology,
• 19:22
  this violent, desperate need to maintain control at all costs,
• 19:26
  and apply it back to Rubin Fragoso, it completely reframes
• 19:29
  the manhunt.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: It really does.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: He isn't just fleeing a crime scene. He is a
• 19:33
  man who has lost his ultimate control, and he has
• 19:36
  taken his five year old daughter with him. But his
• 19:39
  flight doesn't last forever. The net does eventually close.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: It does. It takes an agonizing amount of time, but
• 19:45
  the international coordination ultimately yields a result.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Let's track the climax of this manhunt for nearly three weeks,
• 19:53
  from May twenty fifth into the middle of June. The
• 19:56
  trail goes relatively quiet publicly behind in the scenes, there
• 20:00
  is a massive dragnet operating across jurisdictions. Finally, around June fourteenth, fifteenth,
• 20:06
  twenty twenty six, Rubin Fragoso is apprehended in Mexico.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: And this wasn't a routine traffic stop by a local
• 20:12
  police either.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: No, this was the culmination of a massive bilateral operation
• 20:17
  involving the LAPD's elite Robbery Homicide Division, the California Highway Patrol,
• 20:22
  specialized personnel from the US Embassy in Mexico, and heavily
• 20:26
  coordinated Mexican federal authorities.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Which serves as a stark reminder that while utilizing a
• 20:31
  porest border might buy a fugitive a few weeks of freedom,
• 20:34
  the modern apparatus of international law enforcement cooperation is incredibly robust.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they will find you.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Once Mexican authority secureman custody, the LAPD officially announces the arrest,
• 20:43
  which triggers the incredibly complex machinery of the extradition process.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: And the rhetoric from the leadership back in Los Angeles
• 20:50
  was completely uncompromising. District Attorney Nathan J. Hawkman issued a
• 20:55
  statement saying the killing of a mother and the abduction
• 20:59
  of a young child is the kind of violence that
• 21:01
  shocks the entire community. The defendant will face his day
• 21:05
  in courts. We also learn that a very specialized prosecutor,
• 21:10
  Kelsey McKeever Hunger from the Family of Violence Division, is
• 21:13
  assigned to the case. They are bringing in the heavy hitters.
• 21:16
  They absolutely are, And then they announced the specific charges.
• 21:20
  And I have to be honest, when I was reviewing
• 21:21
  the legal filings on this, I had to stop reading,
• 21:24
  go back and read it a second time because I
• 21:27
  was genuinely, profoundly confused by the statutory specifics.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: You aren't alone in that reaction. The charging document is
• 21:34
  where the theoretical morality of the public violently collides with
• 21:38
  the clinical, rigid reality of the penal code.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: So let's break down exactly what they charged him with.
• 21:43
  Fragoso is facing one count of murder specifically pinal code
• 21:46
  one to eighty seven in California. That makes complete sense,
• 21:49
  that aligns with the crime scene on South All'sas Avenue.
• 21:52
  But then for the act of taking his five year
• 21:54
  old daughter, fleeing a homicide scene, smuggling her across an
• 21:58
  international border, and sparking a three week international manhunt, he
• 22:03
  is charged with one misdemeanor count of child abuse. Yeah,
• 22:07
  I cannot wrap my head around that. How is that
• 22:09
  physically possible within our legal framework? A man allegedly murders
• 22:15
  a woman, throws a kindergardener into a car, becomes an
• 22:17
  international fugitive, and the state looks at what he did
• 22:20
  to the child and says, yeah, that's a misdemeanor. That
• 22:23
  sounds like a catastrophic lukehole in the law.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: It feels viscerally unjust, and it deeply offends our moral intuition.
• 22:30
  But this is where we have to separate emotional outrage
• 22:33
  from the highly strategic mechanics of prosecutorial law.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, explain the mechanics because it's baffling.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: The key to understanding this perceived discrepancy lies in the
• 22:41
  exact phrasing of the statue. This specific misdemeanor charge was
• 22:45
  filed under circumstances or conditions other than great bodily injury
• 22:49
  or death.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack the philosophy behind that phrasing. What is
• 22:52
  the fundamental difference between a misdemeanor condition and great bodily injury?
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: The law draws a very hard, stark, and arguably archaic
• 23:01
  line between psychological terror and physical trauma interesting. For a
• 23:06
  prosecutor to file a felony child abuse charge, they typically
• 23:10
  need to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the child
• 23:13
  suffered severe physical harm, broken bones, severe malnutrition, physical signs
• 23:18
  of battery, or was placed in a situation that carried
• 23:21
  a highly probable risk of immediate physical death. In this case,
• 23:26
  while Delazo's three week ordeal was undoubtedly a psychological nightmare,
• 23:30
  she was recovered physically intact by Mexican.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Authorities, thank goodness for that at least.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, But because there was no provable physical trauma meeting
• 23:38
  the threshold of great bodily injury, the statute restricts the
• 23:42
  immediate charge to a misdemeanor regarding the conditions of the
• 23:45
  child's care during this flight.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: But the law has to recognize that being kidnapped by
• 23:49
  your mother's alleged killer is a form of profound injury,
• 23:52
  right Like, how can the penal code be so blind
• 23:55
  to emotional terror?
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: It isn't entirely blind, but the penal code demands empirical proof.
• 24:02
  Emotional terror is incredibly subjective and notoriously difficult to prove
• 24:06
  definitively in a preliminary hearing compared to a forensic photograph.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Of a bruise That makes sense legally speaking.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: And remember who is driving this case, a specialized prosecutor
• 24:17
  from the Family Violence division. She is operating strategically. The
• 24:22
  prosecution's ultimate goal is securing a conviction on the penal
• 24:26
  Code one eight seven murder charge, which carries a potential
• 24:29
  sentence of twenty five years.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: To life, So they don't want to muddy the waters exactly.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: To secure a life sentence, they need an ironclad narrative
• 24:37
  built on hard forensics, blood spatter analysis from the house,
• 24:41
  digital footprints tracing the flight path, financial records, and border
• 24:45
  surveillance footage. If they swing for a felony child abuse
• 24:48
  charge based purely on psychological trauma, defense attorneys will aggressively
• 24:52
  attack it. They will bring in competing child psychologists to
• 24:56
  argue over the subjective definition of trauma, which distracts the
• 24:59
  jury exactly. They will bog the jury down in a
• 25:03
  highly technical, emotional debate that distracts from the core homicide
• 25:08
  by filing the misdemeanor, which is easily provable simply by
• 25:11
  the fact that he fled the jurisdiction with dependent collasia.
• 25:15
  The prosecution secures a hold on him while keeping all
• 25:18
  their heavy artillery focused entirely on the murder conviction.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: So it's a calculated, tactical maneuver dictated by the rigid
• 25:25
  definitions of physical versus emotional harm. It makes logical sense
• 25:29
  from a prosecutorial standpoint.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: It's the smart play legally.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: But that exact distinction the way the justice system clinically
• 25:35
  categorizes a bruised arm as a felony, but the complete
• 25:38
  destruction of a child's reality as a misdemeanor brings us
• 25:41
  directly to the profound, invisible wounds inflicted on the youngest,
• 25:44
  most vulnerable person in this entire tragedy. Because while the
• 25:48
  court docket might label her suffering as a misdemeanor, there
• 25:51
  is absolutely nothing minor about what happened to five year old.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: To Lisa, nothing at all in the grand scope of
• 25:56
  this multinational drama. She is the ultimate innocent bystander. Her
• 26:00
  entire universe collapsed violently and without warning in the span
• 26:04
  of twenty four hours.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: We have to talk about her internal experience. She is
• 26:07
  five years old, yeah, just a kindergartener. She doesn't understand
• 26:11
  international extradition treaties. Or beinal code one eighty seven. She
• 26:15
  only knows that her mother is suddenly gone, and she's
• 26:19
  being pulled on this terrifying, uncertain journey across a border
• 26:22
  into a foreign country by a man who is clearly
• 26:25
  in a state of extreme panic and desperation.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: It's unimaginable now.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: Obviously, there was an incredible way for relief when she
• 26:33
  was recovered physically saved by Mexican officials. The US embassy
• 26:36
  personnel stepped in immediately to coordinate her rapid return to
• 26:40
  extended family in the United States. Physically, she is back
• 26:43
  where she belongs, but psychologically, psychologically, the clinical literature on
• 26:47
  children forced into these scenarios paints a devastating picture. We
• 26:51
  were talking about some severe attachment disruptions, profound, deep seated fear,
• 26:57
  massive confusion, and a terrifyingly high risk of developing complex PTSD.
• 27:02
  To try and conceptualize her terror, I keep coming back
• 27:05
  to the sensation of being a passenger in a vehicle
• 27:07
  driven by someone who has completely lost their mind.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Expand on that imagery. What does that lack of agency
• 27:13
  actually feel like for a child?
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: If you are an adult in a car with a
• 27:18
  reckless driver. Yeah, it's terrifying, but you have options. You
• 27:22
  can yell at them to pull over. You can try
• 27:24
  to grab the steering wheel. You can unbuckle and prepare
• 27:27
  to bail out. You have some agency, But if you
• 27:30
  are a five year old child strapped into the back seat,
• 27:32
  you possess zero agency. Your feet literally cannot reach the floorboards,
• 27:38
  you cannot unbuckle the child's seat yourself. You are rocketing
• 27:42
  forward at a terrifying speed, completely devoid of control over
• 27:45
  your own trajectory. You don't possess the cognitive development to
• 27:49
  fully articulate the danger, but your nervous system feels it.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: It absolutely does.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: You feel the swerving, the chaotic energy, the palpable panic
• 27:56
  radiating for the person in the driver's seat. You are
• 28:00
  highly helplessly at the mercy of someone who is acting
• 28:03
  erratically and dangerously, and that stays with you. And the
• 28:06
  worst part is, even after the car finally crashes or
• 28:09
  comes to a stop and a police officer pulls you
• 28:12
  out of the back seat, your internal engine doesn't stop revving.
• 28:16
  The physical shaking continues. The neurological terror of that ride
• 28:20
  gets locked into your body.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: And that neurological terror is infinitely compounded by the identity
• 28:25
  of the driver. It isn't a random kidnapper, it is
• 28:28
  her father.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: This forces us to examine the darkest aspect of domestic homicides,
• 28:34
  the psychology of the abductor. Why does an abuser, immediately
• 28:38
  after committing a lethal act against their partner choose to
• 28:41
  take the child?
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Why do they do it?
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: As you eloquently illustrated with the car analogy, it is
• 28:45
  almost never about the child's actual safety or well being.
• 28:48
  From a sociological perspective, crimes of phylicide that the killing
• 28:51
  of one's own child or parental abduction in the wake
• 28:54
  of a homicide stem almost exclusively from a desire for
• 28:57
  possessive control or vindictive revenge.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: But revenge against two. If the mother is deceased, who
• 29:04
  is the abuser trying to punish by taking the child.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: They are seeking revenge against the mother's memory. They are
• 29:09
  seeking to punish her extended family, who they likely view
• 29:13
  as enemies who tried to intervene in the relationship. Oh wow,
• 29:17
  and they are lashing out at the legal system that
• 29:19
  is now hunting them. Remember our discussion about the abuser
• 29:22
  viewing the victim as property.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the control aspect.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: That distorted worldview extends directly to the children. Perpetrators of
• 29:30
  severe intimate partner violence rarely view their children as autonomous
• 29:34
  human beings with individual rights and emotional needs. They view
• 29:38
  the child as an extension of the relationship, a tangible
• 29:41
  asset of the household.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: So the child is just leverage exactly.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Taking the child across the border is a mechanism to
• 29:47
  maintain ultimate leverage. It is a final desperate act of
• 29:51
  asserting dominance, essentially declaring to the world, even now, with
• 29:55
  helicopters in the air and police at my door, I
• 29:58
  am still the one who decides what happens to this family.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: It is genuinely sickening to think about. It is reducing
• 30:05
  a human life, a kindergartener to the status of a
• 30:08
  pokerchip in a game of domestic terrorism.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: And that exact commodification of the child is why the
• 30:13
  psychological trauma for a survivor like Delaza is so incredibly complex.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Tell me more about that.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Consider the risk of attachment disorders. The entire foundation of
• 30:23
  human psychological development relies on forming secure attachments to primary
• 30:27
  caregivers in early childhood. How does a child successfully form healthy,
• 30:32
  trusting relationships later in life when their primary attachment figures
• 30:36
  were the architects of a catastrophic emotional rupture. They can't
• 30:40
  not without out right one parent is a violently permanently
• 30:44
  removed from her life, and the other parent is the
• 30:46
  perpetrator who then subjected her to an international abduction. The
• 30:50
  cognitive dissonance is staggering.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: So what is the societal framework for dealing with a
• 30:55
  rupture of that magnitude? When a child is pulled across
• 30:59
  an international board into a foreign jurisdiction in the wake
• 31:02
  of a murder, how do we legally in psychologically extract
• 31:06
  them and begin to repair that damage.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Well, this is where complex international policy intersects directly with
• 31:11
  emergency psychological healing. The mechanism governing this is an international
• 31:16
  treaty known as the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects
• 31:19
  of International Child Debduction.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: That's quite a mouthful, it is.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: But basically it is a multilateral treaty developed to provide
• 31:26
  an expeditious method to return a child who has been
• 31:29
  wrongfully removed by a parent from their country of habitual residents.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: But treaties are only as strong as the paper they
• 31:35
  are printed. On does the Hague Convention actually work in
• 31:39
  real time, especially when navigating the bureaucracy of a foreign
• 31:42
  judicial system.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: It is highly variable. Enforcement of the Hague Convention relies
• 31:47
  entirely on the cooperation and efficiency of the receiving countries
• 31:51
  family court system, which can be slow. In standard custody disputes,
• 31:55
  it can take months or years of litigation. However, in
• 31:58
  an anomalous case like this, where the abduction is intrinsically
• 32:02
  linked to a high profile homicide, an international amber alert,
• 32:06
  and an active fugitive warrant, the diplomatic pressure bypasses standard
• 32:11
  family court delays.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Now that makes sense.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, The US Embassy works directly with top tier Mexican
• 32:16
  federal authorities to facilitate an immediate extraction, and it is
• 32:21
  crucial to understand that the primary objective of these rapid
• 32:24
  returns isn't merely fulfilling a legal jurisdiction requirement. It is
• 32:28
  psychological triage.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: It's about stopping the immediate hemorrhaging of trauma, getting her
• 32:34
  out of the chaotic environment and into the arms of safe, stable,
• 32:37
  extended family as fast as humanly possible.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: Precisely rapid reunification is the tourniquet.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: But a tournique doesn't heal the wound, it just keeps
• 32:45
  the patient alive.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Right, the long term prognosis depends entirely on sustained, highly
• 32:51
  specialized pediatric trauma counseling. The goal isn't just a comfort
• 32:55
  a sad child.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: What's the goal? Then?
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: The clinical objective is to actively rewire the neulogical pathways
• 33:01
  of trauma, to break the generational cycle of violence, and
• 33:04
  to ensure that this three week nightmare does not become
• 33:06
  the defining architecture of her entire psychological development.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: And the mention of those international treaties, the Hague Convention,
• 33:14
  the involvement of embassy personnel forces us to pivot and
• 33:17
  examine the incredibly dense geopolitical tightrope that law enforcement had
• 33:22
  to walk in this case.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: It's a massive undertaking.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: We've touched on the border crossing, but I want to
• 33:27
  dive much deeper into the actual mechanics of international justice.
• 33:31
  What does it actually require to secure a five year
• 33:34
  old safety and arrest a murder suspect across sovereign lines?
• 33:39
  Because the reality is vastly different from what we are
• 33:42
  sold in pop culture.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: Oh, it is a completely different universe than this cinematic portrayal.
• 33:47
  The geopolitical reality tests the absolute limits of bilateral agreements.
• 33:52
  When we look at the international dimensions of the West
• 33:55
  Adders tragedy, we have to consider the intricate dynamics of
• 33:58
  Mexican American communities in Los ange Is, the long, sometimes
• 34:01
  fraught history of US Mexico law enforcement cooperation, and the
• 34:05
  highly formalized, rigid use of extradition treaties.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Let's focus on that cinematic myth because it shapes public
• 34:11
  expectations so heavily.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: It really does.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: In almost every movie or television show about a fugitive
• 34:17
  crossing the border into Mexico is treated as the ultimate
• 34:20
  finish line. The suspect makes it past the checkpoint, the
• 34:23
  dramatic music swells, the camera pans to a beautiful sunset
• 34:27
  over the desert, and the fugitive is home free.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Cue the credits right.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Meanwhile, the American cops are forced to slam their brakes
• 34:34
  at the borderline, angrily punching their steering wheels.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: And defeat classic trope.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: But in reality, in the year twenty twenty six, with
• 34:41
  a high profile murder warrant and an internationally broadcast abducted child.
• 34:46
  Does fleeing to Mexico actually offer a fugitive any real
• 34:49
  protection or does it just initiate a massive, inescapable avalanche
• 34:54
  of diplomatic paperwork before they are inevitably apprehended.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Anyway, you've hit on one of the greatest misc inceptions
• 35:00
  in modern true crime. The Hollywood trope of the home
• 35:03
  free border dash is a total anachronism.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: It's completely divorced from reality.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, completely divorced from the reality of modern major felonies.
• 35:11
  Fleeing into Mexico today, particularly when accused of severe violent
• 35:15
  crimes like murder, does not grant you immunity.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: What does it do? Then?
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: It merely grants you a temporary, highly stressful reprieve while
• 35:22
  the slow grinding gears of international bureaucracy begin to turn.
• 35:27
  But make no mistake, those gears, while notoriously slow, are
• 35:31
  incredibly powerful and almost impossible to stop once set in motion.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: So he essentially traded a high speed police chase in
• 35:39
  California for a slow moving, inescapable bureaucatic trap in Mexico.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: That's exactly what he did.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: So what exactly are those cures? The moment the laped
• 35:47
  announces that Reuben Fragoso is in Mexican custody and that
• 35:50
  the extradition process will begin. What is the actual sequence
• 35:54
  of events that has to happen to get him back
• 35:56
  to a courtroom in downtown Los Angeles.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: What follows is a metic dulously choreographed, highly formalized legal
• 36:03
  dance between two sovereign nations, and it cannot be rushed.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, where does it start?
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: It begins with formal diplomatic requests. The Los Angeles District
• 36:11
  Attorney's office has to compile a comprehensive extradition packet. This
• 36:16
  packet is sent to the US Department of Justice, which
• 36:18
  reviews it and then passes it to the US State Department.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: So it's climbing the federal ladder.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, the State Department then officially presents the request to
• 36:26
  the Mexican Secretariat of Foreign Affairs. But the absolute cornerstone
• 36:31
  of this entire diplomatic exchange, the hinge upon which the
• 36:35
  whole process swings, is a foundational legal concept called dual criminality.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Dual criminality, I've seen that term pop up in international
• 36:43
  law texts. Break down exactly what that means in the
• 36:46
  context of this specific extradition.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: Dual criminality is an international legal standard that dictates that
• 36:52
  a nation will only agree to extradite an individual if
• 36:55
  the crime they are accused of in the requesting country
• 36:58
  is also explicitly recognized as a serious criminal offense under
• 37:02
  the laws of the host country. Okay, Sovereign nations instituted
• 37:05
  this requirement historically to protect individuals from being extradited for
• 37:09
  political crimes, religious offenses, or acts that are perfectly legal
• 37:13
  in their own jurisdiction.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: That makes total sense.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: You cannot demand Mexico handover a fugitive for an act
• 37:19
  that Mexican law doesn't consider illegal. Now, in the case
• 37:23
  of Reuben Fragoso, murder and the abduction of a minor
• 37:27
  universally meet the standard of dual criminality. Both the US
• 37:31
  Penal Code and the Mexican Penal Code heavily criminalize those acts.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Okay. So if the dual criminality is obvious, murder is
• 37:38
  murder in both countries. Why is the extradition process notoriously
• 37:43
  characterized by massive delays? If both nations agree he committed
• 37:48
  a major felony, why isn't he put on a plane
• 37:50
  the next morning?
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Because sovereignty demands due process explain that Mexico, entirely within
• 37:55
  its rights as an independent nation, requires its own federal
• 37:58
  judiciary to review the United States evidence. They do not
• 38:02
  just blindly hand over individuals, especially if the individual claims
• 38:05
  Mexican citizenship or heritage, simply because an American prosecutor asks nicely.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: They have to check the work exactly.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: A Mexican federal judge must review the arrest warrants, scrutinize
• 38:14
  the affidavits, read the summary effects, and determine if the
• 38:17
  evidentiary threshold meets their own constitutional standards for surrendering an
• 38:22
  individual to a foreign power. It is an incredibly paper heavy,
• 38:26
  linguistically complex process, requiring official translations and diplomatic seals.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: It really highlights a fascinating juxtaposition in modern law enforcement.
• 38:37
  You have the blistering speed of technology violently colliding with
• 38:41
  the glacial pace of bureaucracy.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: That is the perfect way to frame it. The technological
• 38:45
  dragnet is instantaneous. The Amber alert pings every cellular device
• 38:50
  in California in a matter of seconds. The automated license
• 38:53
  plate readers and surveillance cameras at the Sandy seatrap border
• 38:57
  flag his specific vehicle within minutes.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Of his crossing, but the extradition paperwork that operates on
• 39:04
  a completely different temporal plane.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking months right.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Easily months. Sometimes, if the suspect possesses the financial resources
• 39:12
  to legally challenge the extradition through the Mexican appellate court
• 39:15
  system filing injunctions known as in peros, it can stretch
• 39:19
  into years.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: That's wild.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: However, the geopolitical reality is that cases involving extreme violence
• 39:24
  against women coupled with the international abduction of a highly
• 39:28
  vulnerable five year old child tend to be rapidly prioritized
• 39:31
  by the diplomatic core.
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  Speaker 2: They push it to the top of the pile exactly.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: These high profile tragedies service stress tests for bilateral partnerships.
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  The fact that the US embassy and Mexican federal authorities
• 39:42
  were able to coordinate the safe recovery of Deleaza so
• 39:45
  quickly is proof that when the physical safety of a
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  child is on the line, the bureaucratic wall separating nations
• 39:52
  can be made highly permeable, very quickly, so.
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  Speaker 2: The international legal drama will unfold on its own timeline.
• 39:58
  The state departments will exchange their translated packets, the Mexican
• 40:02
  federal judges will review the dual criminality standards, and the
• 40:06
  lawyers will maneuver. But while all of that high level,
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  abstract international action is happening in embassies and courtrooms, the
• 40:14
  true visceral impact of this tragedy isn't being felt in
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  Mexico City. It is being felt right back where we
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  started this entire journey, on the ground. Yeah, on that
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  quiet residential block on South Alsace Avenue, in the West
• 40:27
  Adams community that is left behind to mourn, to try
• 40:31
  and make sense of the senseless, and to demand systemic change.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, a tragedy of this magnitude does not stay contained
• 40:38
  within the walls of a single house. The emotional ripples
• 40:42
  travel violently outward, devastating the extended family, deeply traumatizing the
• 40:46
  immediate neighbors, and shaking the foundational sense of security of
• 40:50
  the wider West Adams community.
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  Speaker 2: Let's focus on those community ripples. The source documentation describes
• 40:56
  a deeply moving, immediate aftermath in West Adams. Within days
• 41:01
  of the discovery, community vigils were organized immediate neighbors, extended friends,
• 41:06
  and even total strangers who had only seen Marisol at
• 41:08
  the local grocery store gathered together. They brought mountains of flowers,
• 41:12
  lit candles, offered public prayers, and created a space for
• 41:16
  collective mourning.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful in a tragic way.
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  Speaker 2: At the time of those vigils, it was a dual purpose,
• 41:23
  gathering mourning the horrific loss of Marisol while holding on
• 41:27
  to a collective desperate hope for the safe recovery of
• 41:30
  Little Delaysa.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: But it is important to note that the community reacting
• 41:33
  to this wasn't just the physical neighborhood. It was the
• 41:36
  massive digital community as well. The true crime enthusiasts, the
• 41:40
  armchair detectives, the millions of people tracking the Amber Alert
• 41:44
  updates on their social media feeds.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: The digital engagement is a defining, unavoidable feature of modern
• 41:50
  criminal investigations.
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: The public now follows these developments with the intensity of
• 41:55
  a live sporting event, But sociologists and victim advocates provide
• 41:59
  a very stern warning about this unprecedented level of public attention.
• 42:05
  It is described as a sharp, double edged sword.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: It's hard to see the negative edge of that sword. Initially,
• 42:10
  doesn't mass public awareness help catch the perpetrator. The Amber
• 42:14
  alert requires public eyes.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: To work it absolutely does. The widespread dissemination of the
• 42:19
  suspect's vehicle description is exactly what law enforcement needs to
• 42:23
  generate actionable leads.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: It's it's necessary, It.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Raises vital awareness, and it puts immense pressure on the fugitive.
• 42:29
  That is the overwhelmingly positive edge of the sword. The
• 42:33
  negative edge, however, is the insidious creep of sensationalism. I
• 42:36
  see when a localized tragedy is transmuted into a national
• 42:40
  true crime story consumed by millions as entertainment, it risks
• 42:44
  severely stigmatizing the entire neighborhood. Suddenly, people outside of Los
• 42:49
  Angeles view West Adams not as a vibrant, historically rich,
• 42:53
  diverse community, but merely as a macabre crime scene.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: That's a really good point.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: But far worse than geographical stigma is the threat to
• 43:01
  the surviving victims. The insatiable public appetite for salacious details
• 43:06
  risks constantly re traumatizing the extended family.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: And when you think about Deleasa, that digital footprint is
• 43:12
  forever exactly she is going to grow up. She's going
• 43:15
  to be a teenager with a smartphone and her trauma.
• 43:18
  The absolute worst, most terrifying days of her entire life
• 43:21
  are permanently archived on the Internet as content for strages
• 43:24
  to analyze.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: That is the grim reality of surviving a publicized crime
• 43:28
  in the digital age. Her trauma is monetized by content
• 43:31
  creators and endlessly debated on message boards.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: So sad.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: So if we are to be responsible consumers of information,
• 43:39
  the public attention generated by this case must be actively
• 43:42
  channeled away from sensational voyeurism and firmly redirected toward actionable prevention.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: And the sociological data outlines very specific concrete prevention strategies
• 43:55
  that society must adopt in the wake of the West
• 43:57
  Adams tragedy.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Let's go through those actionablefss because, returning to the very
• 44:01
  first analogy we use today, a welfare check is a
• 44:04
  smoke detector. It alerts you that the fire is already burning.
• 44:08
  But as a society, we need to evolve past merely
• 44:11
  waiting for the smoke.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: If I can offer a new framework here, we need
• 44:15
  to treat community awareness of domestic abuse the exact same
• 44:18
  way we treat a neighborhood watch, but specifically calibrated for
• 44:22
  emotional safety.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: Oh I like that emotional safety.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Think about how highly trained we are to look for
• 44:27
  physical threats in our neighborhoods. We are conditioned to notice
• 44:31
  broken windows. We are hyper vigilant about strangers loitering near
• 44:34
  parked cars. We get instant alerts on our phones if
• 44:37
  someone steals an Amazon package off a neighbor's porch.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: We're very attuned to property exactly, but.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: We are totally blind to emotional theft. We need to
• 44:46
  be just as vigilant, if not significantly more so, in
• 44:50
  recognizing the subtle, quiet signs of isolation and coercive control
• 44:55
  happening right next door.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: What does that look like in practice?
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: If you notice your neighbor's suddenly isn't allowed to leave
• 45:01
  the house without their partner, or if they seem disproportionately
• 45:04
  terrified of their partner's reaction to a minor mistake, or
• 45:07
  if they abruptly cut off contact with their own family,
• 45:10
  that is the emotional equivalent of a shattered window. That
• 45:13
  is a break in of the soul.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: That is a brilliant and necessary reframing an emotional neighborhood watch,
• 45:20
  because the warning signs of intimate partner violence are almost
• 45:22
  always there, but there require a community that is educated
• 45:26
  enough to see them. And courageous enough to act on
• 45:28
  them safely.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Right and acting on them doesn't mean kicking down the
• 45:31
  door like a vigilante.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. It means strategically connecting vulnerable individuals to
• 45:36
  accessible professional resources. Advocacy groups repeatedly emphasize the vital importance
• 45:41
  of the National Domestic Violence Hotline. The number is one
• 45:44
  eight hundred seven nine nine seven two three three.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: It acts as a lifeline, providing safety planning and crisis intervention.
• 45:52
  But to truly establish this emotional neighborhood watch, we also
• 45:55
  have to honestly acknowledge the massive sociological barriers that prevent
• 46:00
  people from utilizing those resources.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: This is critical. Why do victims stay silent for years
• 46:05
  and why do neighbors, even when they see the broken window,
• 46:09
  hesitate to make that initial welfare check call.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: The barriers to reporting are immense and deeply entrenched.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: What's the biggest one.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: The primary barrier is terror. Fear of the abuser retaliating.
• 46:22
  As we discuss regarding the lethal intersection, attempting to expose
• 46:25
  the abuse or leave the relationship is the most statistically
• 46:28
  dangerous time for a victim. Their fear is not paranoia,
• 46:32
  it's a highly accurate risk assessment. Beyond physical fear, there
• 46:36
  is the weaponization of immigration status. In diverse transitional communities
• 46:41
  like West Adams. Abusers frequently leverage a victim's undocumented status
• 46:45
  against them, explicitly threatening to call ice and have them
• 46:49
  deported separated from their children if they dare to call
• 46:52
  the police.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: So the abuser uses the state's own systems as a
• 46:55
  tool of terror.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Exactly, and that breeds a generalized, deeply ingrained distrust of
• 47:01
  systemic authority. If you believe the police will deport you,
• 47:06
  or that the family courts will unfairly take your children,
• 47:08
  you will suffer in silence.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: This is precisely why localized, culturally competent intervention programs are vital.
• 47:16
  Generalized national campaigns aren't enough.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Programs like Los Angeles's Office of Violence Prevention are crucial
• 47:23
  because they operate on the ground. They understand the highly specific, economic, cultural,
• 47:28
  and linguistic dynamics of the community. They recognize that a monolithic,
• 47:32
  one size fits all approach to domestic violence fails marginalized communities.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: You have to meet people where they are.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: To truly help. You have to provide holistic solutions, emergency
• 47:42
  economic support so they can afford to leave. Accessible mental
• 47:45
  health treatment that doesn't require prohibitive insurance and robust legal
• 47:49
  aid responses that the community actually trusts won't turn against them.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: So as we pull back the lens and look at
• 47:55
  the entirety of this deep dive, we have traversed a profound,
• 47:59
  emotionally gruel and factually dense journey today that really have
• 48:03
  We began with a tragic, quiet discovery on a residential
• 48:07
  street in West Adams. We tracked a desperate suspect and
• 48:10
  an innocent child through a terrifying international manhood that stretched
• 48:14
  across the busiest border crossing in the Hemisphere. We unpacked
• 48:18
  the complex, highly strategic and sometimes deeply frustrating legal realities
• 48:22
  that await as the extradition process is unfold and at
• 48:26
  the absolute center of this massive geopolitical storm, we looked
• 48:30
  at the rescue of a traumatized five year old child,
• 48:33
  a girl named Deluzza, who now faces an incredibly long,
• 48:37
  challenging road to psychological healing.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: It is a harrowing narrative, undeniably, but it is a
• 48:43
  narrative that fundamentally demands our attention, not for the sake
• 48:46
  of true crime, entertainment, but for the sake of vital
• 48:48
  civic education.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: The legal call for justice for marrisol Garcia Placius is ongoing.
• 48:54
  The diplomatic mechanics of the extradition are in motion, the
• 48:57
  strategic prosecution by the Family Violence Division is preparing for trial,
• 49:01
  and the long term specialized counseling for Deleza has begun.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: All of these massive systems are currently working in tandem
• 49:08
  to attempt to repair a catastrophic tear in the social
• 49:11
  fabric that should never have been allowed to happen in
• 49:14
  the first place.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: And that brings us to our final thought, a concept
• 49:17
  for you, the listener, to actively mull over and grapple
• 49:20
  with as you turn off this deep dive and go
• 49:22
  back to your day.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've explored how rapidly advancing technology, the pervasive amber alerts,
• 49:29
  the automated license plate scanners, the border surveillance cameras makes
• 49:33
  it harder and harder for violent fugitives to successfully hide.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: The physical world is rapidly shrinking for those who run.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: But we've also seen how public awareness of domestic violence
• 49:43
  is growing, moving from shameful shadows into the digital spotlight.
• 49:47
  But as we navigate this new, highly connected, hyper surveilled reality,
• 49:52
  we are confronted with a massive ethical dilemma. How do
• 49:55
  we as a society effectively balance our intense, almost insatiable
• 49:59
  fact fascination with true crime narratives against the very real,
• 50:03
  ongoing privacy and healing needs of the survivors.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: That's the big question.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: When does our demand to know the intricate details of
• 50:10
  a case like Marisol's cross the invisible line? At what
• 50:14
  point does our awareness become a direct infringement on young
• 50:18
  Delez's fundamental right to process or trauma and heal in
• 50:21
  peace away from the relentless glare of the public eye.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: That is arguably the defining ethical question of our digital age.
• 50:28
  When it comes to the consumption of crime. How do
• 50:30
  we remain informed, vigilant, and supportive citizens without devolving into
• 50:34
  voyears consuming another family's darkest nightmare? Right? Answering that requires
• 50:39
  a profound conscious shift in how we choose to consume media, and,
• 50:43
  more importantly, how we choose to discuss these tragedies within
• 50:46
  the walls of our own communities.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: It absolutely does. It requires empathy above entertainment. Well said,
• 50:52
  we want to sincerely thank you for joining us on
• 50:54
  its extensive deep dive today. For engaging with these heavy,
• 50:57
  difficult questions and for taking the time time to truly
• 51:01
  understand the complex human realities operating behind the bold font
• 51:04
  of the headlines.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: We strongly encourage you to apply these sociological insights to
• 51:09
  your own understanding of community safety.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: Be the active eyes and ears of that emotional neighborhood
• 51:14
  watch we talked about, look for the inviviable broken windows,
• 51:18
  and if you are someone you know is in danger,
• 51:20
  please remember that highly trained confidential resources are available right now.
• 51:26
  The National Domestic Violence Hotline is one eight hundred seven
• 51:29
  nine to nine seven two three three.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Please do not wait for the situation to become loud
• 51:34
  and obvious to everyone on the street. Early intervention is
• 51:36
  the only true key to.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Prevention, exactly because we don't want to just be the
• 51:41
  passive spectator standing around the perimeter after the sinkhole finally collapses,
• 51:44
  wondering how it happened. No, we don't, and we don't
• 51:47
  want to wait until the house is fully visibly engulfed
• 51:49
  in flames to realize there was a fire inside. We
• 51:52
  have to train ourselves to listen for that quiet, intermittent
• 51:56
  chirp of the smoke detector, and we have to cultivate
• 51:58
  the courage to knock on the or before it is
• 52:01
  too late.