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Family Estrangement: Channeled messages and Q&A · The Spiritual Shitshow Podcast

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  Hello and welcome back to the Spiritual Shit Show podcast.
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  My name is Julie Nguyen, and I have some questions about the family estrangement episodes that I have recorded.
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  And this episode I am gonna be answering some questions that I have received from listeners, and I'm gonna channel.
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  Now, when I am channeling in this format, I definitely catch myself with a little bit of fear.
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  when I'm in one-on-one sessions there's no fear.
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  I can literally just connect in and let the information flow.
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  Now, for channeling for the masses feels a little bit more scarier, and I'm definitely aware of, oh my God, what is, what is my family gonna think?
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  Which, mm-hmm, that's why I'm excited to get into this, channeled messages from family estrangement'cause I want answers to these questions, too.
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  Um, but I think I just wanted to name that there's a little bit of hesitation and, and maybe I'm noticing fear of being able to tap in.
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  So I'm, I'm really challenging myself in this episode That I can connect in with the ease that I do when I'm in one-on-one sessions and again, I am very happy to connect because these are all questions that I have too.
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  We have five questions on deck, and we'll see where the information takes us.
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  But the first question that I have from a listener is,"How do I know when it's time to stop hoping someone will change and actually accept the relationship for what it is?" I'm gonna start with that question.
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  Give me a second.
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  I'm gonna Bebop up to become a channel for this question.
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  And I'm asking that this information is in support of all of us who might be experiencing complications in relationships How can we actually accept the relationship for what it is?
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  We are so glad to be here today and to be with you all answering in support for some of these questions that you have regarding family estrangement and acceptance.
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  But what we hear more importantly, especially from this channel in particular, is how to hold a different state of frequency, how to move yourself out of the sadness and the truth of what is, and to move yourself through whatever the learning lesson is.
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  What is the possibility here?
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  Why have two souls chosen to play these roles and parts out for one another?
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  And this is where we would like to point the arrows towards in this session in regards to this question is, it is not only acceptance of what is, because the acceptance can still carry the acceptance of the pain and the sorrow and the betrayal and the abandonment and the sadness and the thoughts of what was, what is, what could have been, what did I miss out on?
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  What we would like to hold space and an offering of a reframe to such a question is, why have these two souls agreed to play these roles out for one another.
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  When you can begin to see that every soul here is on their own journey, each soul has chosen the lessons that they would also like to learn, the things that they would like to clear up, understand, maybe even apologize for.
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  As I, as a soul, agree to my own soul lessons and to continuously align with what it is that I came here to experience, achieve, understand I have also agreed to play certain roles for other family members so that they too can learn whatever it is of their soul's choosing to learn.
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  Each soul is playing their part to the best of their abilities We would like to reframe acceptance and turn it into soul accountability.
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  Again, when you hold a certain level of acceptance for something that is, you are also attaching the same familiar feelings with that acceptance.
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  I accept that I have sadness.
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  I accept that I have pain around this.
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  I accept that I may never get over this.
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  These are some of the things that the channel here has expressed in her ability to try to make sense of her own pain, betrayals, abandonment.
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  What we would like to offer her and like to offer you as well is that it's not so much acceptance as it is soul accountability.
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  On a soul level, can you begin to compassionately remember what you have agreed to come to learn, to experience, to master?
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  And those who are challenging you on your path, can you see them as playing a role for you so you can remember your soul agreements that you chose to come and to experience, to live out, to learn from?
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  The channel here, we would like to remind her that she is here to understand her own power.
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  She likes to dip low and to stay in the lower frequencies.
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  When she makes note that she is not a victim, we would like to counteract that and ask her again, on a deep level, does she feel like she is a victim of life and a victim of her family and a victim of her circumstances?
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  And on a soul level, as we speak this to her now, we hear the truth is yes.
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  And so on a soul level, if she is to take personal accountability for her situation, what she is here to learn is to live from a higher state of love, power, joy- The channel here is learning how to not dip between lower frequencies and higher frequencies, to stay high, to stay high.
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  And then from there, the contracts that have been made between the souls can be complete.
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  There is no cord cutting And getting out of agreements because on a soul level you have agreed to it.
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  You came here to learn, and it's not until you learn the lesson will you get out of that agreement, get out of the lesson.
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  The only way out of the lesson is to learn the lesson Taking time to pause, to connect with soul self, to remember the source and the spark from which you have come from and who you are.
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  This is where your power resides.
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  This is the energy that moves you up and through the situations that feel very painful We are turning radical acceptance into soul accountability Next question, please.
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  Okay, so the next question is...
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  Also, I really feel called out on that one.
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  Okay.
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  How do I grieve someone who is still alive, especially when the part of me still loves them and misses who we used to be?
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  I'm, I'm laughing'cause I'm he- I'm hearing the words coming in.
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  And they're saying,"We would prefer these questions to be asked before any podcasts have come out.
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  We can directly give you the higher version of, of, uh, information before you meddle through the chaos of these other episodes that are out.
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  But alas, here we are, and we do understand that all information and all ways of processing this human experience is necessary." How do I grieve somebody that is still alive?
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  From our perspective, there is no grief.
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  Again, there is only love.
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  There is only lessons.
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  Hmm.
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  What we'd like to bring in here is, is a very familiar, uh, prayer.
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  I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
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  I love you to the other person that you, as you were saying, is that you're grieving is still alive.
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  Uh, it- it's more of can you see them in their light?
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  Can you see them in love?
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  I love you.
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  I am sorry.
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  This meaning towards the person that you are grieving, and we put that in quotes, and that is still alive, but you are missing.
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  I am sorry There is personal, again, personal accountability here.
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  I love you.
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  I am sorry.
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  Please forgive me.
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  Thank you And then as I'm channeling, I'm kind of getting tripped up on it'cause I'm like,'cause I'm fighting with the channel actually.
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  I'm like, yeah, but they...
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  I don't always wanna take accountability for it.
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  I want them to hold their own, um, part of the pie, and it's-- I wanna be petty, actually.
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  I want, I want them to see how bad they hurt me because there's a, there's a right and a wrong, and what the guides are saying here is what you damn to the darkness is going to pull you to the darkness too as well.
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  What you call to the light will call you to the light as well.
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  We are not interested in guiding others into petty squabbles.
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  The bigger thing here as teachers, as guides, is to guide you towards the light, to guide you towards higher frequencies of possibilities, not only for yourself, but for humanity.
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  When we get bound, when you get bound to lower vibrational squabbles, such as,"Yes, but you did this to me," and,"Yes, and I did that to you," and,"Yes, we have to part ways," and,"You are ba-" When we name-call, what is actually happening is this is how we get stuck in the karmic loop, and this is what you are so desiring to escape from and to feel relief from.
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  And we are here to tell you that the only way to free yourself from such karmics loops is through love, love and forgiveness, forgiveness of the other person, forgiveness for yourself, and your intention to rise towards more love, loving possibilities Can you turn grief into celebration?
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  I can celebrate what we had.
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  I can celebrate what was.
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  I can celebrate what we experienced together.
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  I can celebrate you as a teacher for me and I for you The third question is how do I let go of needing them to understand what they did to me, apologize, or finally take accountability?
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  I think we kinda answered that, but let's see They know what they did Every soul knows what they have done But to this channel, we would like to say they know what they have done And can you sit In that knowing, they know.
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  They know what they have done The fourth question is can you forgive someone and still choose not to have a relationship with them?
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  Hmm.
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  Again, we would like to bring this back to celebrate.
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  I love you and, and I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
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  I love you.
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  I am sorry.
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  I am sorry for not seeing you as the role that you showed up to play for me.
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  Thank you for showing up in a way that's teaching me, forcing me to be in my own soul's lessons I love you.
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  You're playing a huge part in my soul development Please forgive me for not seeing that and forgetting that.
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  I love you.
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  I'm sorry.
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  Please forgive me.
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  Thank you And then celebration.
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  Once you can really see how another soul has showed up in your life, the bigger and harder they show up in your life, more than likely it is because they are committed on a soul level.
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  They love you so much.
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  They are committed to supporting you as you remember what you are here to learn from it.
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  Again, for this channel, it's understanding how to dance in between lower frequencies and higher frequencies.
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  For this channel, even though she doesn't wanna hear it, she will play the victim very well.
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  It serves her.
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  It serves her story So she is here to rise above that, to see her power and her power to be the creator of her own life Once you can celebrate and thank the other soul for playing their role for you then you will see and feel the excitement that comes with moving into a higher level of being, feeling, and experiencing love I mean, am I really gonna post this?
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  'Cause I am getting c- c- called out.
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  And I'm saying that, and, and I have done my own shadow work, so this feels very familiar to the shadowy work that I have done, which was r- I mean, the shadow work was like, oh my gosh, I really had to I was really shown where I was playing the part, um, and I was being h- need- needing to be held accountable for my role that I played in the estrangement of, you know, b- especially between my sister and I, and family, and where I was feeling things, and so this feels very much like that.
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  But I am happy to be channeling the information once again to remind myself of these lessons.
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  Again, it's easier to, to teach them and read about them, but when you're experiencing them, it feels quite, um Actually, that's where the transformation can happen.
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  So anyway, we're going into the fifth question is, how do I stop carrying my family's story for the rest of my life?
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  I I don't want what happened to me to keep deciding who I am, how I love, or how safe I feel.
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  Okay.
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  So there's concepts of justice, karma, accountability, anger, acceptance.
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  How do I let go of the f- of my family's stuff?
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  We are very happy that this is the last question because we're starting the last question the same way that we started the first question, which is we are bringing this back to a reframe.
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  We want you to reframe acceptance into accountability.
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  This is hard.
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  Soul accountability is hard because it is forcing you to remember on a soul level what it is that you came here to learn, be, experience, teach, create How fun is that to remember your own power?
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  How fun is that to remember who you are?
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  How fun is that to remember that you are the co-creator of your life?
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  And we can get trapped in the loops of lower vibrations and frequencies and stories and, and, and, and, and.
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  The goal here is to see when you are swimming in the mud and remind yourself that you are no longer the lotus flower making itself from the mud through the water, but you are the bloom on the water.
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  You do not have to keep going back to the mud that you came from That's just what helped shaped you.
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  That's just what has given you the structure and the framework to become the most beautiful flower supported by the water.
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  Infinite love, infinite creation, infinite joy Remember who you are Remember your light And it is the mud that you had to get through in that long journey towards the sun And now you are in bloom, the lotus in bloom Everything is a choice.
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  When you consciously choose to sit in the vibration of sadness, there you will be.
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  When you consciously choose to sit in the vibration of joy, there you will be.
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  When you consciously choose to sit in the vibration of vitality and health and abundance, that is where you will find your seat.
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  You have that much power, and you have that much choice And finally, we would like to remind each and every one of you that you are not alone Between the space of your reality and the space of your desires, we sit here helping you as your guides Your teachers you are all students of life, and you are all equipped with the teachers that you need to experience what it is that your individual soul came here to experience.
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  Our desire for you though is to create your life from the blueprint of the frequency of love, creativity, joy, possibilities, compassion, forgiveness You are more powerful than you will ever know It is our pleasure to assist in today's questions, and we want to remind each and every one of you that all is well Okay.
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  Well, I'm gonna breathe into that.
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  And if you have any other questions, just leave them in the comments.
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  And yeah