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We ask YOU about YOUR BAD DATES · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Hey, Jerry, good morning, good morning, good morning. What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: I went on my first thirty second date?
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  Speaker 3: Thirty second?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I met her on Tinder and then we were
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  Speaker 2: going to meet at a restaurant. And then she walked
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  Speaker 2: into the restaurant, looked at me and said no.
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: And then.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, she recognized you from the Tinder profile. So you
• 0:25
  Speaker 3: must not look that different from your Tinder profile.
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  Speaker 2: No, my all my photos are really are really recent.
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: I try to I try to keep it. I try
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  Speaker 2: to keep it fresh.
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  Speaker 1: Is this your first Tinder date?
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  Speaker 4: Uh?
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean I've been another Tinder date, but it
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: had been a while.
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  Speaker 3: Wonder what you were doing? Were you like in a
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  Speaker 3: couple your tonails at the bar?
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  Speaker 5: Maybe it wasn't what you looked like.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, did you not like my outfit was?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't start eating, so it's not like I had
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: food in my teeth.
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  Speaker 6: Were you wearing some sort of sports memorabilia like, you know,
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  Speaker 6: like some people are die hard about their team, and
• 1:01
  Speaker 6: if you were wearing like a rival jersey, she might
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  Speaker 6: be like nope, or just a jersey yeah or ah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, or.
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  Speaker 2: Jeans I was wearing like a nice turtle mac Oh,
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: maybe that was it with no turtle neck, no leaves,
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: oh man sandals.
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  Speaker 6: No, I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You got a real life swipe left real life in person.
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  Speaker 3: She just go like nope and no explanation, Like so
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  Speaker 3: it sounds like it's faster than thirty seconds. Actually, if
• 1:30
  Speaker 3: she walks in, sees you and says no and then leaves,
• 1:34
  Speaker 3: that's not even thirty seconds. That was five seconds. But
• 1:37
  Speaker 3: did she like I.
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  Speaker 2: Would have thought she would have at least had a
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  Speaker 2: drink with me. But no, nothing, nothing, you know.
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  Speaker 7: I saw this interview with a guy the other day
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  Speaker 7: and I don't know the guy. I see him all
• 1:49
  Speaker 7: over Instagram and I follow him and I don't know
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  Speaker 7: his name, but he's awesome. He's got a podcast. You
• 1:53
  Speaker 7: always talk about how much money he makes on the podcast.
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  Speaker 7: Sounds like a great He makes like thirty million. He goes,
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  Speaker 7: there's a reason I tell people how much I make
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  Speaker 7: And he has this explanation for it. But he was
• 2:01
  Speaker 7: talking about it because I'm after, you know, and he said,
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  Speaker 7: I don't think he's a douche.
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  Speaker 1: I think he's really really smart.
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  Speaker 7: But he talks about people nowadays, don't go out and
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  Speaker 7: do stuff. They rely strictly on that. We're raising a
• 2:12
  Speaker 7: generation of men, he says. He specifically said men that
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  Speaker 7: don't go out, that don't just expect everything to happen
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  Speaker 7: online and live these lives online.
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  Speaker 1: So and and sometimes the women too.
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  Speaker 7: So when you do go out, there's an awkwardness and
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  Speaker 7: you don't know how to interact with people.
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  Speaker 3: I believe that's probably right.
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  Speaker 7: And maybe you walked out, maybe she walked out and
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  Speaker 7: you had your shirt tucked into tight or maybe you
• 2:35
  Speaker 7: look down at her, you know, there's no eye contact.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe you look down and go, oh, hi, yeah, I'm Jerry,
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  Speaker 7: and she's like, I don't think so someone walked out.
• 2:43
  Speaker 1: Man, You know there's something like that.
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  Speaker 7: But I mean, you sound like you have a good
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  Speaker 7: personality and that you can handle yourself in public, right.
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  Speaker 2: I like to think that I do. I did pretty
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  Speaker 2: well at friends parties and gathering. Uh yeah, I don't
• 3:00
  Speaker 2: spend all my time at home. So this was definitely
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  Speaker 2: uh unexpected.
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  Speaker 3: Did you message her as at all? It is like
• 3:06
  Speaker 3: a follow up like, well that was quick? Are you
• 3:09
  Speaker 3: like you okay? You sound Jerry? There had to be something.
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  Speaker 3: But I feel like we have like a whole phone
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  Speaker 3: thing for Jerry. Now, like who's had the shortest date
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  Speaker 3: and why Jerry, nobody's going to be thirty seconds, are they? Well, yeah, people,
• 3:29
  Speaker 3: someone doesn't show up. I guess that's I guess that's true.
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  Speaker 2: Now would definitely be this.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Jerry, thanks for calling in.
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  Speaker 7: Man tried try bumble, Okay, I'll back try Plenty of Fish.
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  Speaker 1: That one's a big topic on our show. Yeah, there's
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  Speaker 1: an app for that. I don't know. I heard. I
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  Speaker 1: heard people. We brought it up one time and it's
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  Speaker 1: still we still get text messages on it.
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  Speaker 2: Especially the same thing as like Facebook dating at this point,
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  Speaker 2: Plenty of Fish.
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  Speaker 7: Well, thanks for calling in, though, Good luck to you.
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  Speaker 7: Thanks for telling that story.
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  Speaker 1: I love it.
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  Speaker 7: Thank you.
• 4:00
  Speaker 1: Seven nine seven four seven.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, we can do like Date's gone wrong, tender Date's
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  Speaker 7: gone wrong, and a bat dating abs gone wrong eight
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  Speaker 7: seven seven ninety three seven four seven.
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  Speaker 1: It's John, Jay and Rich. So we're talking to Jerry.
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  Speaker 7: He went on what he calls the shortest tender date
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  Speaker 7: in the history of tender thirty seconds.
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  Speaker 1: He walked in. She said, no, I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: You're not my type.
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  Speaker 7: So we wanted to hear about bad dates, something that
• 4:24
  Speaker 7: went wrong, one thing that went wrong, or something that
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  Speaker 7: happened eight seven seven nine three seven four seven. Good morning, Bernadette.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 1: What happened to you on a date? So?
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  Speaker 8: I had gone out with this guy a couple of
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  Speaker 8: times and lur on our third date and my mom
• 4:42
  Speaker 8: called in the middle of the date and she was
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  Speaker 8: babysitting my daughter, and so I said, hey, I got
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  Speaker 8: to take this call real quick. And I picked up
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  Speaker 8: the phone, and you know, my mom's like, is everything
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  Speaker 8: going okay?
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  Speaker 7: Whatever?
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  Speaker 8: Whatever, And then he grabbed the phone out of my
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  Speaker 8: hand and then put it is here and said, hey, mom, this.
• 5:02
  Speaker 4: Is so and so and how's it going and what
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  Speaker 4: are you guys doing, and just having like this random
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  Speaker 4: conversation with my mom and calling her mom. And I
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  Speaker 4: just was like, no, I.
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  Speaker 7: Could see his intent. It sounds kind of cute. It
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  Speaker 7: was kind of cute, but he's not that in yet.
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  Speaker 7: I could see what he was doing, and.
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  Speaker 1: He already wasn't feeling us, because if she was.
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  Speaker 4: She'd be like, oh my god, it's like crazy, Like
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  Speaker 4: our family is really weird. When it comes to like
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  Speaker 4: introducing people to the family. There's like a way about
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  Speaker 4: it really, and so that just like threw me out.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, no, we don't force ourselves in. You
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  Speaker 4: get let in.
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  Speaker 3: That's my mom. That's like your mom.
• 5:43
  Speaker 1: You said, this is your third third date with the guy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and now had you been intimate with him before we had?
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  Speaker 7: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Oh see, so I could see wy he would feel
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  Speaker 1: comfortable enough to pick up.
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  Speaker 3: The phone like I better marry your daughter. Now he's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I put up the things we did about better get married.
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  Speaker 7: That's that's why that you slept with him? But how
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  Speaker 7: dare you talk to my mom on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: No, I feel that she didn't let him in.
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  Speaker 9: Weird this.
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  Speaker 4: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's good. I'm glad you shared. Bernadette, Thanks for.
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  Speaker 3: Listening, No problem.
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  Speaker 6: That reminds me so much of something that happened to
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  Speaker 6: me when I was in college. There was this guy
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  Speaker 6: that he I had met him. He was like on
• 6:31
  Speaker 6: a visit to our school, and so I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: like whatever. We texted and then a month later he
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  Speaker 6: came back to go on his official visit and we
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  Speaker 6: were at my apartment and he was like on FaceTime
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  Speaker 6: with his mom and I was just like laying there
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  Speaker 6: and I was like, okay, this is kind of weird
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  Speaker 6: in general, like I don't really like you in my
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  Speaker 6: space anyway. I wasn't vibing with him, and he turned
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  Speaker 6: the phone around and made me talk on the phone
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  Speaker 6: with his mom. His mom knew everything about me, knew
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  Speaker 6: what I was going to school.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, this is oh, that's cute.
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  Speaker 6: No like him.
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  Speaker 1: It was in your house.
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  Speaker 3: He was in your house yeah, and I yeah.
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  Speaker 6: And then it actually fell on like a Halloween weekend
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  Speaker 6: and we were all going out and he got super
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  Speaker 6: sick and I was like, well, I'll go get you
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  Speaker 6: like a gatorad and suit, but like I'm going out, did.
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  Speaker 1: You also get intimate with him?
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  Speaker 9: No?
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  Speaker 10: Okay, but it's the same because both of them said
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  Speaker 10: they weren't really into that, but it totally affected the
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  Speaker 10: way that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, otherwise, that kind of awesome. He was talking to
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  Speaker 3: his mom about you. That'd be awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Wendy, good morning.
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  Speaker 1: So what happened to you on a date?
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  Speaker 5: I got set up on a blind date and this
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  Speaker 5: guy was.
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  Speaker 9: Like, I had a lot of money, his dad was
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  Speaker 9: a judge.
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  Speaker 5: I felt very intimidated, like this is way out of
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  Speaker 5: my league, and so we go out. We have go
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  Speaker 5: to a bar, have one drink and it comes back
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  Speaker 5: with like pint size jack and cokes like they were
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  Speaker 5: half jack half coke.
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  Speaker 7: We have.
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  Speaker 5: Hees back and gets another one. We go next door
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  Speaker 5: to this fancy dinner with like six or eight other people.
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  Speaker 5: At the end, everybody's like, who's going to pay the bill?
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  Speaker 5: Everybody's fighting. They want to pay the bill. They want
• 8:02
  Speaker 5: to be a big shot. And I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: I am so out of my league. I can't do this. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: So we just leave the restaurant and he walks me
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  Speaker 5: to the car, opens the door, and I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: so nice. He's a gentleman. Puts me in the car,
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  Speaker 5: closes the door, and I'm waiting for him to come
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  Speaker 5: around to the driver's side and he doesn't come and
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  Speaker 5: I look back and he was peeing on the tire.
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  Speaker 3: And you guys have been married for twenty three years now,
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  Speaker 3: is that what you're going to say?
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  Speaker 5: Oh? No way. I realized at that moment I was
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  Speaker 5: not out of my league and money does not buy
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  Speaker 5: you class.
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  Speaker 1: Did you drink the pipe jack and coke?
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  Speaker 5: I sipped on that. I think he may have had.
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  Speaker 10: Three tire he had to pay on the tire except
• 8:55
  Speaker 10: for I don't know if you know this, but they
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  Speaker 10: have bathrooms in restaurants.
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  Speaker 1: Wendy, thanks for sharing that start with us. Have a
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  Speaker 1: great day.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks you too.
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  Speaker 7: Eight seven seven ninety seven four seven. I want to
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  Speaker 7: hear about something bad that happened on a date. More
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  Speaker 7: of your calls. Next with John Jay and Rich, John
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  Speaker 7: Jay and Rich, we want to hear about something terrible.
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  Speaker 7: It happened on a date. Carla, what happened to you?
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  Speaker 6: Hi?
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  Speaker 9: Good morning?
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  Speaker 7: Hi you guys? Hi?
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  Speaker 1: Good? What happened?
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  Speaker 9: All right? Well, so this is setting the stage. This
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  Speaker 9: is during COVID. This is like what late twenty twenty
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  Speaker 9: early twenty twenty one, where people are starting to get
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  Speaker 9: you know, set up with everything. I had been talking
• 9:39
  Speaker 9: to a guy on a dating app, and you know,
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  Speaker 9: he's pretty cute and all that, and I walk in
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  Speaker 9: the first thing I see when he walks in to
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  Speaker 9: the bar that we're meeting at, he's got that gross
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  Speaker 9: COVID beard, you know what I'm talking about, Like scraggly,
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  Speaker 9: it's not moisturized. And I'm not a purpose to begin with.
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  Speaker 9: So that just gave me the nicks.
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  Speaker 3: That's just a stayed inside for too long with zero.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, And but that wasn't the worst of it. Then,
• 10:07
  Speaker 9: you know, he was clearly nervous. But his his laugh
• 10:11
  Speaker 9: was the Mickey Mouse laugh. It was, you know, he
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  Speaker 9: he'd like Disney person. I'm like a huge Disney person.
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  Speaker 9: So that like ruined it. That killed it for me.
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  Speaker 9: And and then the final straw was so we were
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  Speaker 9: we were sitting at the bar, and he could tell
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  Speaker 9: I was, you know, a little uncofortable, litt nervous because
• 10:35
  Speaker 9: of everything that's going on. But he like completely misread
• 10:37
  Speaker 9: the cues and was like, oh my gosh, she looks
• 10:39
  Speaker 9: so stressed. Would you like to have a massage? And
• 10:43
  Speaker 9: I was like, you know, I just outright told him
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  Speaker 9: we're at a bar, Dude, like, that's not this is
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  Speaker 9: not a place where I want a massage. And he's like, well,
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  Speaker 9: you know, why don't why don't ask the bartender. I'm
• 10:54
  Speaker 9: sure it's okay. And so he, you know, turns to
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  Speaker 9: the bartender and asked the question. And I gotta say this,
• 11:01
  Speaker 9: I can give the bartender credit because as this guy
• 11:04
  Speaker 9: was asking the bartender the question, I like lean back
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  Speaker 9: in my barstool as far back as I can, so
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  Speaker 9: then I'm out of the peripheral vision of the guy
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  Speaker 9: I'm on a date with, and the guy asked the question.
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  Speaker 9: The bartender immediately looks at me for a split second.
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  Speaker 9: He've me shaking my head being like no, absolutely not,
• 11:20
  Speaker 9: looks back at the guy and was like, nah, dude,
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  Speaker 9: that's weird.
• 11:24
  Speaker 3: Oh we got your back, he got my back.
• 11:26
  Speaker 9: He got my back.
• 11:28
  Speaker 3: So yeah, right, so yep, that was all of that data.
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  Speaker 9: I was like, absolutely not. This will We're not doing
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  Speaker 9: this again.
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  Speaker 3: We just call this segment. Guys are weird.
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  Speaker 9: They really are.
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  Speaker 7: They really are.
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  Speaker 9: Don't get me wrong. I'm happily married now and my
• 11:46
  Speaker 9: husband's amazing, but you know, he's got a couple of
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  Speaker 9: weird things, and I'm like, why why?
• 11:51
  Speaker 7: All right, Carla, thanks for sharing that story with us.
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  Speaker 7: All right, thank you, missy.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. What happened to you on a date?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, similar?
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  Speaker 7: So.
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  Speaker 11: I I was out with this guy.
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  Speaker 8: It was our first date.
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  Speaker 11: Won't say his name because he's pretty well known. And
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  Speaker 11: we were at this nice little Italian restaurant and we
• 12:08
  Speaker 11: were having dinner and I had gotten up to go
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  Speaker 11: use the lady's room and while I was in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 11: One of my friends called my cell phone, and I
• 12:15
  Speaker 11: was supposed to go to a party later that night,
• 12:17
  Speaker 11: and he called and was like, hey, can you.
• 12:19
  Speaker 9: Give me a ride?
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  Speaker 11: I said, yeah, sure, when I was down, I'll pick
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  Speaker 11: you up either at this time.
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  Speaker 5: So I walked out of the bathroom.
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  Speaker 11: I go and I sit down back at the table.
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  Speaker 11: But the guy that I was with wasn't at the table,
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  Speaker 11: and I'm looking around this restaurant, smaller Italian restaurant, and
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  Speaker 11: I see him over like hunt at this table talking
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  Speaker 11: to these guys. I can only describe it as like
• 12:38
  Speaker 11: looks like straight out of a mob boss movie. And
• 12:41
  Speaker 11: they're all looking at me and talking. And then he
• 12:43
  Speaker 11: comes over and he sits down and he reaches across
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  Speaker 11: and he kind of aggressively grabbed my hand and he said,
• 12:49
  Speaker 11: don't ever do that again. And I said, do what
• 12:52
  Speaker 11: he said, don't ever take a call from another guy
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  Speaker 11: when you're on a date with me. And I was like,
• 12:57
  Speaker 11: oh my gosh, how the heck did you know he's
• 12:58
  Speaker 11: on the phone with another guy. Was in the bathroom
• 13:00
  Speaker 11: as a lady's room anyway, So shortly after we wrap
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  Speaker 11: up dinner, we walk out to my car. I put
• 13:06
  Speaker 11: my purse on the seat and I turn around and
• 13:08
  Speaker 11: he grabs me to kiss me. I pushed him back.
• 13:11
  Speaker 11: I was like, what are you doing? And he said,
• 13:13
  Speaker 11: I bought you dinner. I reached in, I grabbed the
• 13:15
  Speaker 11: wallet out of my purse. I pulled it twenty out.
• 13:18
  Speaker 11: I want it up. I throw it at him. I'm like, well,
• 13:20
  Speaker 11: now you didn't. I get in the car and I
• 13:22
  Speaker 11: drive away.
• 13:25
  Speaker 8: Later.
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  Speaker 11: This guy was married, he had kids. What scared the
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  Speaker 11: call and asked for another date.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, dying to know who this guy is.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Well, Missy, I don't want to put my business out
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  Speaker 3: on the radio like that ever again. And wasn't that
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: Z good? Big ZD was delicious? Am I wrong? Am
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: I wrong? You did?
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  Speaker 11: I mean, you're You're in the right being, You're we're
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  Speaker 11: talking Italians, we're.
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  Speaker 5: Talking, you know, Missy.
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  Speaker 7: When you said he's well known, can you like what
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  Speaker 7: what line of work? Like?
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  Speaker 1: How is he a news anchor?
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  Speaker 3: Or?
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  Speaker 1: Is he an athlete? Is he how would we know him?
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  Speaker 11: No, let's just say I had a real fascination with
• 14:06
  Speaker 11: the Italian mafia in my twenties. So he's his family
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  Speaker 11: is one of the original crime families.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was a bad boy everybody, but no.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, I was really into that and then I married
• 14:17
  Speaker 11: a nice, nice guy.
• 14:20
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 14:21
  Speaker 11: No, if I said his name, he is. He's one
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  Speaker 11: of the family. Is one of the original crime families York.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, don't say his name please. I thought I
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: thought you meant I thought.
• 14:29
  Speaker 7: You meant public eye, like a celebrity, like as far
• 14:32
  Speaker 7: as an athlete or something like that.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: When you say, I think in his mind he was no, And.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
• 14:37
  Speaker 7: I don't want you to say his name because, uh,
• 14:39
  Speaker 7: I don't want them to kill rich Okay.
• 14:43
  Speaker 11: I gotcha.
• 14:44
  Speaker 10: Okay, keep it to myself.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Thanks for calling in, Missy. Thank you so much for usening.
• 14:50
  Speaker 7: Do you have any other ones to choose a call
• 14:52
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• 14:54
  Speaker 1: DM John Jay Vanis