Latest / Takin’ A Walk Nashville / Nashville Songwriter and Podcast Host Tony Mantor discusses His Music History, Creative Journey, Collaboration and Making A Difference
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Taking a Walk Nashville.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Hi, this is Sarah Harrelson, your host of Tick and
- 0:05Speaker 2: Walk Nashville, and today I am back in the Russell
- 0:09Speaker 2: Hotels podcast studio in East Nashville, and here with me
- 0:13Speaker 2: is Tony Mantour. Tony is an established singer, songwriter, pianist,
- 0:19Speaker 2: podcast host, and record charting music producer who is celebrating
- 0:23Speaker 2: working in Nashville for more than thirty years. The Madison
- 0:27Speaker 2: main native first arrived in Nashville as a touring sideman
- 0:30Speaker 2: for country music sensation Ronnie McDowell in nineteen seventy six.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Since that time, Mantor has progressed into an award winning
- 0:39Speaker 2: music producer, recording and placing thirty three songs into the
- 0:43Speaker 2: top forty sixteen songs into the top ten of various
- 0:47Speaker 2: US major music charts. He's worked with the likes of
- 0:51Speaker 2: Debbie Campbell, the daughter of Glenn Campbell, Bobby Brooks Wilson,
- 0:55Speaker 2: son of Jackie Wilson, Happy Day Star, and singer Donny Moet,
- 1:00Speaker 2: and many other country artists inspire to have his music
- 1:04Speaker 2: make a difference in the lives of people. His recent
- 1:07Speaker 2: song why Not Me has become the inspiration for launching
- 1:11Speaker 2: a new podcast in twenty twenty three, also called Why
- 1:15Speaker 2: Not Me, which focuses on autism awareness, acceptance, and understanding
- 1:21Speaker 2: and features one on one interviews with those who have
- 1:24Speaker 2: been touched by autism. Since its launch, the Why Not
- 1:28Speaker 2: Me podcast has been downloaded more than nine million times worldwide.
- 1:33Speaker 2: In twenty twenty four, Mantor debuted his second self produced podcast,
- 1:38Speaker 2: Almost Live Nashville. It's currently number two on the Apple
- 1:42Speaker 2: Podcast Music category chart and turning his attention back to
- 1:47Speaker 2: the world of entertainment, music, and TV. Mantor also host
- 1:52Speaker 2: the thought provoking stories with celebrity guests on this podcast,
- 1:56Speaker 2: who share how they've achieved their own success.
- 2:01Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more of the Taking a
- 2:03Speaker 1: Walk Nashville podcast. Welcome to Taking a Walk Nashville with
- 2:13Speaker 1: your hosts, singer songwriter Sarah Harrelson.
- 2:16Speaker 2: So, Tony, you are a man of many talents and
- 2:19Speaker 2: I'm so glad you're here on Taking a Walk Nashville today.
- 2:21Speaker 2: How are you all.
- 2:22Speaker 3: I'm doing good. Thanks for having me.
- 2:24Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for being here. So I want to start
- 2:26Speaker 2: by talking about the beginning of your career. How did
- 2:30Speaker 2: you make the move from the Northeast down to Nashville
- 2:35Speaker 2: free music. I had to look up where Madison, Maine.
- 2:40Speaker 1: Wise.
- 2:40Speaker 2: I've been to Bar Harbor, but not in that town before.
- 2:44Speaker 3: Yeah, bar Harbor was about an hour and a half
- 2:46Speaker 3: from where I grew up. It's an interesting story. I
- 2:51Speaker 3: started out just performing like anyone does, where we join
- 2:57Speaker 3: the band, we go out and perform. We have our dreams,
- 3:00Speaker 3: we hope that we can make it. I was a
- 3:03Speaker 3: rock singer. I did more Eagles, you know, that type
- 3:07Speaker 3: of music. I wasn't a country singer. And I had
- 3:11Speaker 3: some friends of mine that were country songwriters. They didn't
- 3:15Speaker 3: have the transportation. They wanted me to take them to Nashville.
- 3:18Speaker 3: And because I didn't know what Nashville was other than country,
- 3:21Speaker 3: I thought George Jones that type of thing, which I
- 3:25Speaker 3: really appreciated, all the Johnny Cashes of the world and
- 3:28Speaker 3: everything for what they did and how they got there.
- 3:31Speaker 3: I just wasn't a country fan at that time. And
- 3:34Speaker 3: I looked at him, I said, why would I want
- 3:36Speaker 3: to go to Nashville as a country Sydney. I'm more
- 3:41Speaker 3: on the pop and the rock side. They talked me
- 3:44Speaker 3: into it. I wound up coming down and they pitched
- 3:47Speaker 3: their songs around and how it all kind of fell
- 3:51Speaker 3: together was we went in the studio, they got a
- 3:54Speaker 3: publishing deal. We went in the studio and the piano
- 3:59Speaker 3: player didn't show up. And back then you didn't have
- 4:01Speaker 3: a cell phone where you could just say where are you?
- 4:04Speaker 3: You know, they didn't show up, you just moved on
- 4:07Speaker 3: or found someone else real quick. Because I was a
- 4:11Speaker 3: piano player and they the producers found out about it,
- 4:15Speaker 3: they asked me to play on it, and I'm and
- 4:17Speaker 3: here I am playing in a demos situation with some
- 4:22Speaker 3: of the best musicians in Nashville. So, long story short.
- 4:27Speaker 3: A guy walks in and he's an independent record label.
- 4:32Speaker 3: He knows everybody in the room except for me. He
- 4:35Speaker 3: comes over, introduces himself to we talk, and then he says, well,
- 4:38Speaker 3: what are you doing this summer? I said, well, I'm
- 4:40Speaker 3: just kind of taking a few months so ought to
- 4:42Speaker 3: find out what I'm gonna do. And then he's good
- 4:46Speaker 3: friends with Ronnie McDowell's manager, and he goes, how would
- 4:49Speaker 3: you like to go out and perform with Ronnie mcdioell.
- 4:51Speaker 3: I said, who's that? And that was kind of before
- 4:54Speaker 3: he became Ronnie McDowell, you know, So I wound up
- 4:58Speaker 3: doing a short tour with him and then just kept
- 5:02Speaker 3: my contacts growing in Nashville. And to be honest, walking
- 5:07Speaker 3: into a Nashville studio with the players, the atmosphere is
- 5:11Speaker 3: just so much different than New York and LA, you know,
- 5:13Speaker 3: so it was worth the trip.
- 5:16Speaker 2: And a little bit warmer winters here than that main.
- 5:20Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean it. But actually it's as warm
- 5:24Speaker 3: in Maine today as it is down here.
- 5:26Speaker 2: Yeah, which is wild. That never happens, it really is,
- 5:29Speaker 2: it really is. So you've been in Nashville for a
- 5:32Speaker 2: long time and you've seen how Nashville has evolved over
- 5:37Speaker 2: the decades. What's your opinion of the new Nashville now?
- 5:41Speaker 3: Well, you know, a lot of the people that I
- 5:45Speaker 3: know say they are so glad that they grew up
- 5:49Speaker 3: and worked through the transition of what old Nashville is
- 5:53Speaker 3: to New Nashville because we changed from two inch twenty
- 5:56Speaker 3: four track tape to digital, so all that transition and
- 6:01Speaker 3: then cuss the changing of the music styles to where
- 6:06Speaker 3: country isn't the country that they once knew. So with
- 6:11Speaker 3: that said, it's different, you know, in the fact that
- 6:13Speaker 3: the dynamics have changed, but everybody still has the same
- 6:17Speaker 3: dream they still have the same process. They just have
- 6:20Speaker 3: to figure out how they're going to do it right.
- 6:22Speaker 3: So as much as a lot of people want the
- 6:26Speaker 3: old country back, it's never going to come back, you know.
- 6:30Speaker 3: It's always evolving. So the only thing I don't like
- 6:34Speaker 3: is that some of the iconic studios have been torn
- 6:37Speaker 3: down become hotels and condos that I don't like. I mean,
- 6:43Speaker 3: one of the most famous studios that Paul McCartney recorded in,
- 6:47Speaker 3: it's been torn down and now you've got condos in there,
- 6:50Speaker 3: you know, that I don't like. But everything else as
- 6:53Speaker 3: far as the way that the transition of the music
- 6:55Speaker 3: has evolved, it's just an evolution of of everything keeps
- 7:01Speaker 3: turning around. And now there's a lot of nineties country
- 7:04Speaker 3: that's starting to come back again. So the circle always
- 7:08Speaker 3: keeps evolving. It's just a matter of you being able
- 7:12Speaker 3: to accept it and grow and build and work and adapt.
- 7:16Speaker 3: And that's kind of what I've tried to do.
- 7:18Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's important, being able to adapt. And
- 7:21Speaker 2: with the evolvement of technology, more people are producing and
- 7:25Speaker 2: recording at home studios or their own homes now, which
- 7:29Speaker 2: has led to the closing of some major studios in
- 7:32Speaker 2: Nashville and on music Row, which is sad to see.
- 7:36Speaker 2: I personally love being able to get together in a
- 7:39Speaker 2: studio with other people because it kind of brings out
- 7:43Speaker 2: the creative side of everyone, and there's something to be
- 7:46Speaker 2: said about the community aspect of recording on a studio
- 7:49Speaker 2: together with other people.
- 7:51Speaker 3: It does.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Yeah, So how has it evolved for you as a producer.
- 7:57Speaker 2: I know you said you're have adapted and accepted change
- 8:01Speaker 2: with technology, but has it changed how you have been
- 8:05Speaker 2: a producer for other artists?
- 8:09Speaker 3: No, because I still stay true to my roots. I
- 8:13Speaker 3: like the interaction between the players because when you have
- 8:17Speaker 3: great players, you bring them into a studio to do
- 8:22Speaker 3: what they do best. If you can just have a
- 8:24Speaker 3: whip out there and say do what I say, then
- 8:27Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. You can put them in five different
- 8:30Speaker 3: places at different times and let them overdub and it's
- 8:33Speaker 3: be fine. But if you give them the creative ability
- 8:37Speaker 3: to work and do what they do, then you can
- 8:41Speaker 3: always say, you know, I love what you're doing, but
- 8:42Speaker 3: I need you to tone it back, or I need
- 8:44Speaker 3: you to change this, or sometimes you just get the
- 8:47Speaker 3: magic where they make a mistake, but the mistake is
- 8:51Speaker 3: so damn good. Yeah that you go. You know what, No,
- 8:54Speaker 3: don't change that. Let's leave it exactly the way it is.
- 8:57Speaker 3: So the ability for the players to sit in that
- 9:00Speaker 3: studio and talk back and forth and work out their
- 9:02Speaker 3: parts and then do it is still the very best way. Then.
- 9:07Speaker 3: The only thing that's changed is now I can do overdubs.
- 9:12Speaker 3: I can do those type of things virtually because then
- 9:16Speaker 3: I'm just telling them, Okay, this is what I want
- 9:18Speaker 3: you to do to the track that's already there. And
- 9:21Speaker 3: then because vocally, I have them come into my studio,
- 9:24Speaker 3: we lay down the vocals, and then I bring in
- 9:26Speaker 3: the background vocals. I guide them the way I want
- 9:29Speaker 3: it to go there. So everything still stays the same,
- 9:32Speaker 3: but we'd have adapted to bring in some of the
- 9:37Speaker 3: new ways of doing things so that it can quicken
- 9:39Speaker 3: up the process slightly.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Right, And I think sometimes, especially with vocal sessions, it
- 9:45Speaker 2: makes it quicker being in person instead of back and
- 9:48Speaker 2: forth cutting vocals over the internet.
- 9:53Speaker 3: Yeah, and it allows me as a producer to tell them, no,
- 9:58Speaker 3: this is what I'm thinking that I need you to do.
- 10:00Speaker 3: Because as much as I hate to say it, you know,
- 10:03Speaker 3: because it seems like I'm throwing dars at some of
- 10:05Speaker 3: the singers, but they don't know what they're doing. Sometimes,
- 10:08Speaker 3: you know, they they're putting all their attention on one
- 10:12Speaker 3: word in the line and it's the wrong word, you know.
- 10:15Speaker 3: So you have to take and know exactly what you
- 10:19Speaker 3: want this singer to sing and the emotions that you
- 10:23Speaker 3: want them to put on a particular phrase or word,
- 10:27Speaker 3: so that when the listener hears it, it draws them in.
- 10:30Speaker 3: And sometimes when you do it virtually, you can't. You
- 10:33Speaker 3: can't just do it three or four or five times
- 10:36Speaker 3: in a row. I mean, I've spent an hour and
- 10:38Speaker 3: a half on one word before, just getting it where
- 10:41Speaker 3: it needed to be, and then after the singer heard it,
- 10:44Speaker 3: they're going, you know, you put me through the grinder.
- 10:46Speaker 3: But I really do like that, you know, and that's
- 10:48Speaker 3: something you can't get virtually.
- 10:50Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree. In addition to being a producer
- 10:54Speaker 2: and musician, you're also an artist and songwriter. I know
- 10:58Speaker 2: you mentioned you're working with Debbie Campbell right now and
- 11:02Speaker 2: you have a song now with her. Correct.
- 11:04Speaker 3: Yeah, actually I have a song out with her and
- 11:07Speaker 3: Bobby Wilson, Jackie Wilson's son. It's the old song that
- 11:10Speaker 3: Glenn Campbell did Shoulder or Shoulder with Tanya Tucker Wow,
- 11:14Speaker 3: And so we were trying to figure out what would
- 11:18Speaker 3: be a good singer to put with her because he
- 11:22Speaker 3: had to have a male singer and they had to
- 11:24Speaker 3: cover Glenn. But I didn't want to go country because
- 11:27Speaker 3: that would seem like we're just reproducing something that's already
- 11:30Speaker 3: been done. So I brought in an R and B
- 11:32Speaker 3: singer in Jackie Wilson's son, Bobby, and he was able
- 11:35Speaker 3: to bring his texture in there so that we still
- 11:38Speaker 3: paid tribute to the original song, but we still allowed
- 11:42Speaker 3: it to be their song and it turned out really good,
- 11:47Speaker 3: very cool.
- 11:48Speaker 2: Yeah, and you also have another song, why Not Me,
- 11:51Speaker 2: which inspired you to start your podcast with your first podcast,
- 11:57Speaker 2: why Not Me? And it's such a beautiful music video.
- 12:01Speaker 2: I watched it and it has to do with awareness
- 12:04Speaker 2: of autism. Do you have a personal experience with autism
- 12:09Speaker 2: that made you want to write the song and start
- 12:13Speaker 2: this podcast?
- 12:14Speaker 3: Well, actually I didn't write it. A friend of mine
- 12:16Speaker 3: wrote it. It started out the story of how this
- 12:21Speaker 3: whole thing came together is one Saturday morning, about nine o'clock,
- 12:25Speaker 3: I woke up and turned out and I went into
- 12:27Speaker 3: my email and there's a song sitting there and I
- 12:31Speaker 3: had recorded one of his songs with another artist I
- 12:33Speaker 3: worked with a few years prior. I heard the song
- 12:36Speaker 3: and I called him up. I said, man, you wrote
- 12:38Speaker 3: this song for me, didn't you, Because it's about never
- 12:40Speaker 3: giving up on your dreams. It doesn't matter when you
- 12:43Speaker 3: do it, as long as you do it. And that's
- 12:44Speaker 3: what I post on my Facebook all the time. Never
- 12:47Speaker 3: give up and you'll keep working do it. So I
- 12:50Speaker 3: told him, I said, you know, I'm I'm working on
- 12:52Speaker 3: a and this is during COVID, so I was working
- 12:54Speaker 3: on a personal project just to do for the fun
- 12:57Speaker 3: of it. So I told him, I said, I'm gonna
- 12:59Speaker 3: cut this song. I cut it, and I cut it
- 13:03Speaker 3: with a pot flair, but I added a steel in
- 13:08Speaker 3: it to give it a texture like the Eagles used
- 13:10Speaker 3: to do. And then all of a sudden, I'm getting
- 13:14Speaker 3: I'm getting people that want to hear something I'm doing.
- 13:16Speaker 3: So I send it out to them as, oh, man,
- 13:18Speaker 3: you recorded a country song. I'm going it's not country,
- 13:22Speaker 3: you know, but perception is reality. So if they want
- 13:25Speaker 3: to call it a country then fine. Because it was
- 13:28Speaker 3: a positive song. My promoters in New York, Nashville, LA
- 13:33Speaker 3: in London wanted me to release it, and I'm going, now,
- 13:36Speaker 3: I'm not getting back out on the road. I'm just
- 13:37Speaker 3: doing this for the fun of it. It's just enjoyment.
- 13:40Speaker 3: It's something to kill time. So they talked to me
- 13:43Speaker 3: in the release and it I did, and it did well.
- 13:46Speaker 3: I mean, it went number two in the in the
- 13:48Speaker 3: secondary charts. And I felt like, if I'm going to
- 13:52Speaker 3: put it out there, I need to pay tribute to someone.
- 13:56Speaker 3: So I chose to pay tribute to our first responders.
- 14:00Speaker 3: So I had done a couple of years before that,
- 14:04Speaker 3: I had done a charity event for a fallen officer
- 14:08Speaker 3: and I just call up a couple of people, I say, hey,
- 14:10Speaker 3: can you get me some pictures of police and bironmen
- 14:14Speaker 3: and all that, And then before too long, it got
- 14:17Speaker 3: out here and I had people wanting to be part
- 14:19Speaker 3: of that video from all over the country. So I
- 14:22Speaker 3: wound up putting it together. It did well. And then
- 14:26Speaker 3: how the autism came about is a lady heard the
- 14:30Speaker 3: song and she really liked it, and she called me
- 14:34Speaker 3: up and well, she sent me an email she goes,
- 14:37Speaker 3: is there any way that you could do this for us?
- 14:40Speaker 3: And she was a speech therapist for autistic children. I
- 14:44Speaker 3: told us I really don't know anything about autism other
- 14:46Speaker 3: than I've got a couple of friends that have relatives,
- 14:50Speaker 3: but they don't talk about it. So I decided to
- 14:55Speaker 3: re record the song in a more contemporary pot version
- 15:00Speaker 3: and create a video with autistic and special needs here
- 15:05Speaker 3: in Nashville. So I call it why Not Me Nashville
- 15:08Speaker 3: so that people could differentiate between why Not Me, the
- 15:11Speaker 3: so called country song and why Not Me Nashville for
- 15:15Speaker 3: the autism and special needs and it just blew up.
- 15:18Speaker 3: It just started blowing up. And at that time, I
- 15:20Speaker 3: was co hosting a podcast out of New York on
- 15:23Speaker 3: Business and we were talking about the music business on
- 15:26Speaker 3: my part of it, and I told my some you
- 15:29Speaker 3: got to take in and at least the last five minutes,
- 15:31Speaker 3: we need to talk about the video I just did
- 15:35Speaker 3: for autism and special needs. So they agreed to it,
- 15:39Speaker 3: and then they wanted to extend the contract, and I
- 15:42Speaker 3: felt that in order to do what I wanted to do,
- 15:44Speaker 3: I needed to start my.
- 15:45Speaker 1: Own We'll be right back with more of the Taking
- 15:48Speaker 1: a Walk Nashville podcast. Welcome back to Taking a Walk.
- 15:56Speaker 3: Nashville so I started my own podcast at that time
- 15:59Speaker 3: was why Not Me the World because it was about
- 16:03Speaker 3: a worldwide autism podcast, and it grew and eventually I
- 16:09Speaker 3: changed it and rebranded this year to why Not Me
- 16:12Speaker 3: Embracing Autism and Mental Health Worldwide. So that's kind of
- 16:16Speaker 3: how it all evolved and how it all happened, and
- 16:18Speaker 3: it just seemed to happen all byself.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it's amazing. You just hit nine million downloads on
- 16:26Speaker 2: the podcast, and I think it's great because you're giving
- 16:30Speaker 2: awareness to these voices of autism and mental health throughout
- 16:35Speaker 2: the whole world.
- 16:37Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy. I mean, I mean it's shown up
- 16:40Speaker 3: in podcast charts, Apple and Spotify in all kinds of
- 16:46Speaker 3: countries all around the world. So it's not just the US.
- 16:49Speaker 3: It's been in Canada, as men in Brazil, as men
- 16:52Speaker 3: in Argentina, South Africa, I mean all several countries in
- 16:56Speaker 3: Europe and because of the UK. I mean, it's just crazy.
- 16:59Speaker 2: Yeah. And if listeners on taking a Walk Nashville I
- 17:03Speaker 2: have not heard the podcast, you can check it out
- 17:05Speaker 2: on iHeartMedia, Apple Podcasts, wherever you get your podcasts. But
- 17:09Speaker 2: in addition to that, you also have your other podcast
- 17:13Speaker 2: almost Live Nashville. How do you have a time to
- 17:16Speaker 2: do two podcasts at once.
- 17:18Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's really interesting because when I told
- 17:21Speaker 3: everyone that I was going to be doing a podcast,
- 17:24Speaker 3: everyone just naturally assumed that because I'm in music, I've
- 17:28Speaker 3: been here for the long length of time that I've
- 17:31Speaker 3: been here, that it was going to be an entertainment
- 17:34Speaker 3: music podcast. Yeah, So when I did why Not Me
- 17:37Speaker 3: and it was about autism, it caught everybody off guard.
- 17:40Speaker 3: It's like, what's this a Well, you know, I can't
- 17:43Speaker 3: do another one because I don't know that much about
- 17:46Speaker 3: podcasting yet. I was just actually just learning myself. This
- 17:50Speaker 3: was a little over two years ago. So once I
- 17:54Speaker 3: had about a year year and a half under my belt,
- 17:57Speaker 3: I decided to create almost Live Nashville and have it
- 18:01Speaker 3: focused on different artists that I've known or different people
- 18:05Speaker 3: I've come in contact with over the years, and just
- 18:09Speaker 3: build it that way. But I decided to make it
- 18:12Speaker 3: an every other week podcast rather than every week, and
- 18:17Speaker 3: it just I didn't know what to expect, but it
- 18:20Speaker 3: just kind of blew up on me the same way.
- 18:22Speaker 3: I mean, I just reached to I haven't put it
- 18:24Speaker 3: out there yet, but I just reased three million downloads
- 18:27Speaker 3: on that you Know and it's you Know hitting. It's
- 18:31Speaker 3: in twenty twenty different countries around the world in the
- 18:34Speaker 3: top charts. I mean, it just just caught me off guard.
- 18:37Speaker 3: I didn't expect it. But I've had some great, great
- 18:40Speaker 3: people come on, and I've got great people lined up
- 18:42Speaker 3: to come on, and it's really amazing. I have people
- 18:47Speaker 3: that email me every single day wanting to be on
- 18:51Speaker 3: one of the other podcasts of both. I mean, it's
- 18:54Speaker 3: just I'm overwhelmed with the amount of people that want
- 18:56Speaker 3: to be on it.
- 18:57Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wonderful. Congratulations you have. You have two podcasts,
- 19:02Speaker 2: you have artists, you're working with, songs that you're releasing yourself.
- 19:07Speaker 2: You're doing it all right now. So what's next for you?
- 19:11Speaker 2: Is it? Is it releasing more music as an artist,
- 19:15Speaker 2: working with more artist as a producer.
- 19:18Speaker 3: Well, I've got I've got a few songs that I've
- 19:23Speaker 3: that I've worked on that I could release through some
- 19:26Speaker 3: of the other artists. I've got another song that I
- 19:30Speaker 3: recorded last year that I haven't put out yet that
- 19:33Speaker 3: I'm thinking about putting out with a video for because
- 19:36Speaker 3: I did. Why not me for autism? Now? I'm thinking
- 19:40Speaker 3: about doing this one for the mental health side, and
- 19:45Speaker 3: I have, I've I've just started working. I've been on
- 19:49Speaker 3: three three chapters away from finishing a book.
- 19:52Speaker 2: Wow, you know.
- 19:53Speaker 3: And and the book is going to be about autism
- 19:55Speaker 3: and mental health and what I've and it's basically what
- 19:58Speaker 3: I've learned through the podcast, asked bring up different little
- 20:01Speaker 3: stories that people have told, and it's I'm hoping that
- 20:07Speaker 3: that my main focus. The music one is it's fun
- 20:10Speaker 3: to do because I deal with people that I know
- 20:13Speaker 3: and we talk musically, get to lap and have fun
- 20:16Speaker 3: with it. But the autism and the mental health one
- 20:19Speaker 3: is one that needs to be heard because people do
- 20:25Speaker 3: not realize that they could be seeing a child having
- 20:29Speaker 3: a meltdown in a store and they think that the
- 20:32Speaker 3: parenting is bad when it's really not. It's the child
- 20:36Speaker 3: having a meltdown. The parent is doing what they're trying
- 20:38Speaker 3: to do, and in ten or fifteen minutes it'll subside
- 20:41Speaker 3: and they'll be okay, you know. And until we learn
- 20:46Speaker 3: to recognize that the difference between a meltdown and somebody
- 20:50Speaker 3: just being you know, a brat, so to speak, because
- 20:53Speaker 3: that's what they think they are, you know. Oh, they're
- 20:55Speaker 3: being a brat and they're not. So until we learn
- 20:57Speaker 3: the difference between a meltdown and just an undisciplined child,
- 21:03Speaker 3: we need to have a little empathy and we need
- 21:05Speaker 3: to learn. And then when you get into the mental
- 21:07Speaker 3: health side, you've got ADHD, you've got bipole, you've got anxiety, schizophrenia,
- 21:13Speaker 3: you've got so many different things that people walking around
- 21:18Speaker 3: you don't realize what they're going through. And it's not
- 21:22Speaker 3: like cerehl palsy or MS or some things like that,
- 21:25Speaker 3: because you can see that, but with autism and serious
- 21:29Speaker 3: mental illness and those type of situations, you can't see it,
- 21:36Speaker 3: you know. So if you can't see it, then you
- 21:38Speaker 3: automatically think that it's not real. So we have to
- 21:42Speaker 3: learn more about it as a society so that we
- 21:46Speaker 3: can take and tone it down a little bit and
- 21:49Speaker 3: help the people that need the help. So that's my
- 21:52Speaker 3: goal with the podcast, is because people open up their
- 21:56Speaker 3: lives to me and tell me things that they probably
- 21:59Speaker 3: wouldn't tell them any and they tell things that they've
- 22:02Speaker 3: never told told others before because they're bearing their souls
- 22:05Speaker 3: to the listener. And so it's educational and informative and
- 22:11Speaker 3: heartwarming and you can laugh, you can cry right along
- 22:15Speaker 3: with them, but hopefully you're learning from them. And then
- 22:19Speaker 3: this book once it gets out, if it gets out,
- 22:22Speaker 3: because I'm not going to self published, I'm going to
- 22:24Speaker 3: take and try and get somebody to handle it. So
- 22:28Speaker 3: once I get that taken care of, then I'm hoping
- 22:31Speaker 3: people reading it can learn from the different things that's
- 22:35Speaker 3: been told to me, so that if one or two
- 22:37Speaker 3: people learn something from it, then it's a win.
- 22:40Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it's great that you are bringing awareness
- 22:44Speaker 2: to this topic through your podcast and also a book,
- 22:47Speaker 2: and I'm definitely looking forward to that when it does
- 22:50Speaker 2: come out. Tony, thanks again for being here with me.
- 22:54Speaker 2: On taking a walk Nashville today. This is something I
- 22:57Speaker 2: always ask my guests. Do you have a favorite place
- 23:02Speaker 2: you like to take a walk in Nashville.
- 23:04Speaker 3: I've always liked the Parthenon, you know, you know, going
- 23:07Speaker 3: down the air Centennial Park, Yeah, Centennial Park Yeah. And
- 23:13Speaker 3: cuse Music Row, you know, because you asked me earlier,
- 23:20Speaker 3: what change? What changes? I haven't liked. That's one thing
- 23:24Speaker 3: that's lost because Music Row used to be you could
- 23:29Speaker 3: walk down sixteenth and seventeenth and you could walk into
- 23:32Speaker 3: these old buildings and you'd you'd walk in to an
- 23:35Speaker 3: independent label or an independent publisher, or a producer or
- 23:39Speaker 3: a public you know anything. And because of everything being
- 23:44Speaker 3: online now, that has kind of died, but still sixteenth
- 23:49Speaker 3: and seventeenth is still nice to walk down and just
- 23:51Speaker 3: look at the you know what's still left there and
- 23:54Speaker 3: realize that this is the path that Elvis took, This
- 23:58Speaker 3: is the path that that because if you go down
- 24:01Speaker 3: in the old RCA building, you know that Elvis has
- 24:04Speaker 3: signed his concrete there. You know, you can you can
- 24:07Speaker 3: look at places where some of the icons of country
- 24:10Speaker 3: music have been and that hopefully never goes away.
- 24:14Speaker 2: Yeah, it is said that a lot of studios and
- 24:17Speaker 2: iconic places on music Row have closed, and you know,
- 24:20Speaker 2: corporate buildings and condos have been built there, but there
- 24:25Speaker 2: are still some great things like RCA there. One of
- 24:29Speaker 2: my first internships that in college was at Nashville Songwriters Association,
- 24:34Speaker 2: and yeah, that was the time where it was easier
- 24:37Speaker 2: for people to go into the buildings to drop their
- 24:40Speaker 2: demo into a publisher or label, and of course they
- 24:43Speaker 2: would just send them all down to NSAI to get
- 24:47Speaker 2: affiliated with.
- 24:49Speaker 3: Uh.
- 24:49Speaker 2: So, I think that's something that's still a little bit
- 24:52Speaker 2: lost from music row, so it's a little bit bittersweet.
- 24:56Speaker 2: But there's been a lot of good change too.
- 24:59Speaker 3: Oh yeah, absolutely.
- 25:00Speaker 2: You know.
- 25:00Speaker 3: It's you just have to adapt, You have to have
- 25:04Speaker 3: to keep changing with it, because if you don't change,
- 25:07Speaker 3: then you die, right, you know. So I've got a
- 25:10Speaker 3: lot of friends of mine that have moved away from
- 25:12Speaker 3: Nashville because they get tired of the change, and they said, well,
- 25:16Speaker 3: they're getting ready to retire anyway, so they did, and
- 25:19Speaker 3: I'm just not there, you know. It's like, yeah, I
- 25:21Speaker 3: love doing music, I love doing working with people and
- 25:25Speaker 3: telling stories and just going through the whole thing. So
- 25:28Speaker 3: you just keep evolving, just keep working. And now it's
- 25:32Speaker 3: just a little more selective, that's all.
- 25:34Speaker 2: Absolutely yeah, And there's still so many creative projects to
- 25:38Speaker 2: work on. I hope our listeners will trickle over to
- 25:41Speaker 2: your podcast if they haven't already tuned in, listen to
- 25:45Speaker 2: your music and check out the other artists that you've
- 25:49Speaker 2: been producing as well.
- 25:50Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that'd be great, and they can find me
- 25:53Speaker 3: at Tonymantou dot com.
- 25:55Speaker 2: Perfect. Yeah, we look forward to that. Tony. Thank you
- 25:58Speaker 2: so much for being on Taking a Walk to Nashville.
- 26:00Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks, I appreciate it's been great.
- 26:03Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to Taking a Walk Nashville with singer
- 26:06Speaker 1: songwriter Sarah Harrelson, and check out our other podcasts, Music,
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