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Has this bride overreacted? · Toni, Jase & Sam - Breakfast Catchup

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  Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist Their Policy
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  Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Sharp podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Today on the show, we talked about the new thing
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  Speaker 1: experts are doing to make you stick to your appointments.
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  Speaker 3: They are literally spin feeding us and I don't know
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  Speaker 3: why I'm okay with it if your audacity.
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  Speaker 4: Also, there's a woman who has left her marriage the
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  Speaker 4: very next day after the wedding because she asked for
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  Speaker 4: one specific thing not to happen on the wedding day
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  Speaker 4: and it did and a new husband didn't listen. And
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  Speaker 4: we're on his side, her side, we're on her side.
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  Speaker 4: Whose side are you on? He listen?
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  Speaker 1: A friend of mine, Katie Wesney, friend of the show,
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  Speaker 1: has just text and said.
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  Speaker 3: I have to get out of the car to go
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  Speaker 3: to IF forty.
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  Speaker 1: Five and I'm really intrigued as to what you're going
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  Speaker 1: to say about this perfect form of exercise.
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  Speaker 4: Okatie, I'm with you. I'd be almost I'll be in
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  Speaker 4: the car like aety forty five right now if I
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  Speaker 4: wasn't here myself. I get it. I you be fair.
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  Speaker 1: I could be too, because I'm a big IF forty
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  Speaker 1: five fan, and I know that people get different things
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  Speaker 1: from exercise.
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  Speaker 3: And we have this tobait with Sam. God bless him,
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  Speaker 3: he's not.
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  Speaker 1: Here all the time, because Sam's idea of exercise is
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  Speaker 1: you lift heavy weights and that's what everyone should be
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  Speaker 1: doing and if you're not doing that.
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  Speaker 3: You're a half wit.
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  Speaker 4: Basically, what you're doing it wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And so we have this debate all the time
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  Speaker 1: and we discuss the fact that not everyone is just
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  Speaker 1: exercising to get the perfect physique.
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  Speaker 3: Look, I'm sure that's part of it.
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  Speaker 1: We all, most of us are always trying to lose
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  Speaker 1: a bit of weight, gain a bit of muscle. But
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  Speaker 1: there are other reasons why you exercise, right, and those
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  Speaker 1: other reasons might be I particularly, I think if you're
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  Speaker 1: a stressed out mum and you have one window of
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  Speaker 1: the day, it might be a one time to go
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  Speaker 1: see some mates.
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  Speaker 4: Right. It's a really nice social part of it. You
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  Speaker 4: meet a couple of people at those classes, especially you
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  Speaker 4: say you're forty five, which I only got into because
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  Speaker 4: of you. You know, you meet those people there and
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  Speaker 4: as a real family, like a real community.
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  Speaker 3: It really is a buzz and it gives you.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes it can be like the best part of your day,
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  Speaker 1: like eat to see a couple of people, and for me,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of my girlfriends would be there, and if
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  Speaker 1: they turned up on the same class as me, it
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  Speaker 1: was just such a buzz.
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  Speaker 3: You also might be.
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  Speaker 1: Going for your men health, right, So a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people get anxiety or depression and exercise has been prescribed
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  Speaker 1: by them by their doctor in a lot of cases
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  Speaker 1: to this is your best medicine.
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  Speaker 4: Dolphins flying.
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  Speaker 1: But I've always have wondered, you know, if you've got
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  Speaker 1: limited time, what should you actually be doing if there's
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  Speaker 1: only a small window and you have to do the
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  Speaker 1: very best thing for you to take all the millions
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  Speaker 1: of boxes and I think we've stumbled across it all.
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  Speaker 1: This is the new research that has just come out.
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  Speaker 1: So this particular form of exercise, I'm going to not
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  Speaker 1: reveal it to the end.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you all the benefits.
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  Speaker 2: For es.
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  Speaker 1: You have up to four times greater weight loss than
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  Speaker 1: if you do an indoor activity. It reduces your heart disease,
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  Speaker 1: potential development of cancer. It improves your longevity, it can
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  Speaker 1: reduce type two diabetes. It's good for your cardiovascular muscular, skeletal,
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  Speaker 1: lung tissue.
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  Speaker 3: What else I got here?
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  Speaker 1: It improves your cholesterol levels, It's good for your balance,
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  Speaker 1: your coordination, your mental health. It is less dangerous most
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  Speaker 1: other forms of exercise.
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  Speaker 4: And you sink, it's full time. You got me at
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  Speaker 4: four times faster to losing weight, and.
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  Speaker 1: I'll get you at this particular stat which got me.
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  Speaker 1: It's the best three to one activity they think. There
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  Speaker 1: is where it balances cardio, balance and weightlifting all in
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  Speaker 1: one exercise.
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  Speaker 3: And what is it?
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  Speaker 1: Sixty million people do this in the US, and I
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  Speaker 1: know a lot of people will do this in New Zealand.
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  Speaker 3: And it is hiking or tramping.
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  Speaker 4: Is that right?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: So if you so saying it an average tramp, you
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  Speaker 1: should be able to lose forty or four hundred to
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  Speaker 1: six hundred calories. And it's just ticks all the boxes.
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  Speaker 1: But it has to be outdoor. So walking on the treadmill,
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  Speaker 1: they say, doesn't give you the same benefits. It's got
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  Speaker 1: to be out in nature for the mental benefits as well.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're someone that goes for a big long walk,
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  Speaker 1: particularly if you're in hilly Ish, apparently that's where it's at.
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  Speaker 1: And we should all be doing more of it. And
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  Speaker 1: do you know what, It instantly made me think of
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  Speaker 1: those Hollywood stars that you see in the hills, Jennifer
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  Speaker 1: Annison and going for a heart why they doing it?
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  Speaker 4: When Tom Cruise was here filming in the last summer
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  Speaker 4: in Tartanucky, one of the favorite things he said, there's
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  Speaker 4: so many great hiking trails around Tartanucky and even locals
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  Speaker 4: like do we the Tom Cruise found you got to
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  Speaker 4: go for a.
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  Speaker 1: Hike, Like, where else would you want to hike other
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  Speaker 1: than New Zealand when you look at our scenery, I
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  Speaker 1: think we need to start a group Jays.
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  Speaker 4: That's a great idea. This is one of the most
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  Speaker 4: horrific stories. Or it happened right here in New Zealand. Honestly,
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  Speaker 4: I thought of you when I heard it this Tony Street.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I very quickly shared this to the group
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  Speaker 1: chat because I suffer from claustrophobia, so and it's such
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  Speaker 1: an irrational fear, and I don't feel like I'm typically
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  Speaker 1: someone that's a fearful person, like I will go and
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  Speaker 1: bungee jump. I'm not scared of heights, but you put
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  Speaker 1: me in a closed space and I panic.
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  Speaker 3: And once I got Once I got locked in an
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  Speaker 3: E forty five toilet, the lock.
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  Speaker 1: Broke and it was one of those toilets that had
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  Speaker 1: no windows or ventilation, and I panicked and started trying
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  Speaker 1: to break the door down. And I'm not proud of
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  Speaker 1: but that is what happens. And when you have an
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  Speaker 1: irrational fear, it's very very hard to overcome it. So
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  Speaker 1: when I heard about this, I just just felt so
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  Speaker 1: sorry for these people. So they just arrived from Sri Lanka,
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  Speaker 1: this family, mom and dad and the kids, and they
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  Speaker 1: decided where do you go first in New Zealand.
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  Speaker 3: Well you go up the Skytower, don't you.
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  Speaker 1: So they're going up the Skytower and they get to
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  Speaker 1: floor thirty five and it stops dead right, one of
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  Speaker 1: those those in betweeny floors where you're not looking out,
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  Speaker 1: you're just seeing the black And so they were very
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  Speaker 1: calmly pushed the button, got someone and said hey, we
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  Speaker 1: are here to be stopped. And they were very very
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  Speaker 1: unhappy with the way things were dealt with. They basically said, yet,
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  Speaker 1: someone will be there in ten minutes. Ten minutes ticked by,
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  Speaker 1: they called back, Oh, sorry, the security person's off site.
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  Speaker 3: They'll be here soon and twenty minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, forty five minutes later, the lift then started going
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  Speaker 1: a bit a well up and down with no warning,
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  Speaker 1: and they're all traumatized. The kids are having nightmares now.
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  Speaker 1: They were having breathing difficulties, worst nightmare. And I just
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  Speaker 1: think if that can happen there at like a lift
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  Speaker 1: like that that you'd think would be Man twenty four
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  Speaker 1: to seven, it can happen anywhere.
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  Speaker 4: So the question this morning is where have you been trapped?
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  Speaker 4: Where did you get stuck? We'd love to heal, sorry
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  Speaker 4: because it almost happened to Tony again and a little elevator
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  Speaker 4: and Krasher, Oh.
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  Speaker 3: We're not talking about that incident, are we.
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  Speaker 1: Oh? I don't even think we were anywhere near stuck
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  Speaker 1: that time.
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  Speaker 3: I just reacted like a caged bit.
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  Speaker 4: It was it was it a.
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  Speaker 1: Bird get stuck inside and it starts flying at the windows.
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  Speaker 3: That's basically one day did it.
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  Speaker 4: It was miserizing to watch. So what about you? Where
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  Speaker 4: have you been stuck? It's top story is eight hundred
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  Speaker 4: double four Coast South phone number or ficause it text
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  Speaker 4: to two six nine nine. There's a family that's out
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  Speaker 4: there on holiday in New Zealand decided to got the
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  Speaker 4: skytwer and got stuck in the lift and got stuck
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  Speaker 4: like forty five minutes waiting for you technician. But it's
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  Speaker 4: one of those horrible places, like between the windows so
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  Speaker 4: that you couldn't see anything outside.
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  Speaker 1: Now and I've just arrived from sril Anka, not the
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  Speaker 1: best tourism and for us.
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  Speaker 4: Either, we haven't seen a postcard.
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  Speaker 3: So the question is where did you get stuck?
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  Speaker 1: And I just shared that I once got stuck in
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  Speaker 1: any forty five toilet as a severe claustrophobic, and it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't good. And that led to me being fearful of
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  Speaker 1: just any small spaces even more. And Jace, you and
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  Speaker 1: I were in an elevator at a christ Church hotel
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  Speaker 1: last year and the moment I think that it's even
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  Speaker 1: remotely not going to open, I'm not proud of this.
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  Speaker 3: I start to panic and I panicked with you, jas,
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  Speaker 3: what Tony.
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  Speaker 4: Did Its peton fisture were in there, and it was
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  Speaker 4: it was it was a relatively new elevator, but it
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  Speaker 4: sort of creaked a little bit, and it creaked, it stopped,
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  Speaker 4: the it like shuttered and the door didn't opened fast
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  Speaker 4: enough of Tony. So she ran forward, ran past me
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  Speaker 4: and started clawing the doors open.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't think that's going to drive them open
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  Speaker 3: like the whole and I would do that again.
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  Speaker 4: So where have you been stuck on the text on
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  Speaker 4: two six ninety nine? The honest is, I was stuck
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  Speaker 4: on a water slide in Topal once or another one here.
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  Speaker 4: I remember Lady in the Night. I remember this too.
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  Speaker 4: I think I remember hearing this. I remember Lady in
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  Speaker 4: the nine. He's got stuck in the lift in Victoria
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  Speaker 4: car Park for a whole weekend. Peoples in their cell phones.
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  Speaker 1: Oh not, because there's this text has pointed out you
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  Speaker 1: need to go to the bathroom and things like that,
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  Speaker 1: and how do you do that?
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  Speaker 3: What about you, Doug? Where did you get stuck?
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  Speaker 4: I was.
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  Speaker 5: Primate caving?
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  Speaker 4: No, my gosh, see that's why was I watched things
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  Speaker 4: on TV like that, like you know, the black Water caving,
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  Speaker 4: the White Water caving and things, and that's my biggest nightmare.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever done it?
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  Speaker 4: Chase caving years ago? Yes, I've been through the White
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  Speaker 4: Tormal caves, the large ones.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I had to do caving for seventh form Pe and
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  Speaker 1: it was it took all of my strength. So how
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  Speaker 1: did you get stuck, Doug? Were you in between a
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  Speaker 1: tight space?
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  Speaker 7: Yes? The group.
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  Speaker 8: In charge of the carrying the rope backpacks a lot
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  Speaker 8: in the mud.
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  Speaker 9: And I went up a hill and jammed.
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  Speaker 3: And how long were you jammed?
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  Speaker 1: There? Aut innutes, I'm going to take your caving story
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to give you another one. So a
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  Speaker 1: friend of mine in seventh form pe so year thirteen
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  Speaker 1: at New Plymouth Girls High School, and it was for
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  Speaker 1: our PE credits, so we had to do it. And
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  Speaker 1: we were up around the Awakenaor area which is just
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  Speaker 1: north of Tartanaki. And my friend is six foot three
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  Speaker 1: slash six foot four. She's a big, tall netballer, and
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  Speaker 1: you can imagine her trying to get through the small
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  Speaker 1: little cracks in the caves and she got stuck halfway,
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  Speaker 1: like half body through, half body out, and it's pitch
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  Speaker 1: black with water laughing underneath you.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, that's just one more real cook and Colin,
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  Speaker 4: when did you get stuck.
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  Speaker 10: Underneath a messy fig and grade blade would know?
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  Speaker 3: Would yes?
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  Speaker 10: A greater blader.
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  Speaker 3: I want to know how you got there though?
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  Speaker 10: Well, I was working late at night. I had a
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  Speaker 10: Brandy stable, and it was late at night because finished
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  Speaker 10: where and I was there during all the yards, late
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  Speaker 10: at night, and I got undeered because it wouldn't adjust
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  Speaker 10: to get a different angle. And as I was there,
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  Speaker 10: it came down. Oh my god, it's about what I
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  Speaker 10: know about a thousand thousand pounds or something CAGs. I
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  Speaker 10: couldn't move it. So on there. It wasn't in stress,
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  Speaker 10: but it was getting late. My phone was going. My
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  Speaker 10: wife was ringing me because it wasn't at our place.
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  Speaker 10: It was a building, a new one, and I'm just
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  Speaker 10: lying there four hours. My wife started to wonder at
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  Speaker 10: twelve o'clock where's Colin? So she sent her father across
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  Speaker 10: the road where it's from the stables. And here I
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  Speaker 10: was still under the tractor. The track hadn't run out
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  Speaker 10: of diesel because it was still going.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my lord.
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  Speaker 10: Eventually I tried to dig my way out, but it's
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  Speaker 10: hard digging through gravel, so I just laid until someone came.
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  Speaker 10: It was because well it was just going to be
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  Speaker 10: the next morning, wasn't it. Oh my god?
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  Speaker 1: So can you just tell me where your cell phone was?
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  Speaker 1: When your wife was trying to ring you? Could you
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  Speaker 1: not reach.
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  Speaker 10: It in my pocket.
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  Speaker 3: And you couldn't even give me your pocket. That's how
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  Speaker 3: stuck you were.
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  Speaker 10: It's across it's across my my waist. Michelle phones in
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  Speaker 10: my pocket. You can't get.
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  Speaker 4: Colin. Thank you very much. Do you remember this Hello?
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  Speaker 4: Exciting the Pacific princess making his way from hought to
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  Speaker 4: court and people falling in love and falling out of
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  Speaker 4: love and refinding the romance on board you got the captain,
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  Speaker 4: you got Julie, captain's daughter. That's right. I was lucky
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  Speaker 4: enough to meet him in real life.
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  Speaker 3: Actually on a on a boat, isn't he in Italy?
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  Speaker 3: Are that's like a love boat?
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  Speaker 4: Maybe so? Twenty two year old producer has watched this
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  Speaker 4: for the first time with these fresh eyes. Rosie, what's
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  Speaker 4: your review on the Love Boat?
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  Speaker 6: Well, the first thing I have to say is this song.
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  Speaker 6: I had no idea it was from the series. I
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  Speaker 6: thought it was just a song on its own. You
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  Speaker 6: guys come in here all the time going no, it
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  Speaker 6: was from I'm part.
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  Speaker 3: Of embarrassed for us set. We've been hubbing The Love
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  Speaker 3: Boat just because.
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  Speaker 6: Don't judge us, And so I've written down my live
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  Speaker 6: thoughts again. As I was watching it. I was actually
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  Speaker 6: watching it at the gym on the treadmill, and I
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  Speaker 6: was thinking, if anyone saw me watching this, they were
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  Speaker 6: wonder on earth.
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  Speaker 1: I was watching two years old watching the love Boats
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  Speaker 1: so desperate to squeeze it.
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  Speaker 6: So the first thing I put down here is the
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  Speaker 6: intro is so long, and all the credits run at
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  Speaker 6: the start.
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  Speaker 3: Which is barely ever done.
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  Speaker 6: Now you never have the intro, like all the credits
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  Speaker 6: and who's I don't want that though?
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  Speaker 4: It's because a lot of the big stars of the
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  Speaker 4: eighties on the love Boat as a cameo appearance. So
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  Speaker 4: if you love that star, like Michael Knight was on
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  Speaker 4: the Ones, Michael Knights on the Love Boat today, would
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  Speaker 4: have watch this line.
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  Speaker 6: I read that and I thought, I know none of
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  Speaker 6: these characters. I know none of the actors on there,
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  Speaker 6: so I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Know how famous they really were.
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  Speaker 1: Also, they did that because they knew you were going
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  Speaker 1: to sit through them, because you had to, whereas no
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  Speaker 1: respecting twenty two year old is going to sit through
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  Speaker 1: credits anymore because they don't sit through anything that's true.
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  Speaker 6: So I've also put down here the fake laughter is
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  Speaker 6: so overused like that is it can after can laughter.
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  Speaker 3: Is that like when they add laughter in the background. Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't even know if it is a comedy.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like TV shows are very specific genres nowadays,
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  Speaker 6: whereas this is kind of a comedy, even though I
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  Speaker 6: don't get half of the jokes, A drama, a romance
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  Speaker 6: mixed together.
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  Speaker 3: But I actually kind of love it.
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  Speaker 6: It means your whole family can sit down and watch
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  Speaker 6: the same TV series but actually enjoy it together.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that was a big thing in the eighties,
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  Speaker 1: where you could all watch the same show. I struggle
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  Speaker 1: now with my kids because everything's really sweary and violent.
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  Speaker 6: But very set to a certain certain demographic. Right, But
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  Speaker 6: is that just because we have so much option now,
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  Speaker 6: I think, so.
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  Speaker 1: That can sit down and everyone's watching it on their own, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you don't creepy individual?
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  Speaker 4: What do you think about some of the characters? Isaac
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  Speaker 4: the barman, he was always cool.
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  Speaker 3: They were, to be honest, I didn't.
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  Speaker 6: I only watched the first episode, okay, so I was
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  Speaker 6: just getting introduced to all of the different characters. But
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  Speaker 6: some of their takes on things were very interesting. They
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  Speaker 6: had some rated magazines and they were reading them.
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  Speaker 3: Openly and chatting about them would never happened. I don't
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  Speaker 3: remember that either.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like we just took those things for
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  Speaker 1: granted now because everything is so PC these days.
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  Speaker 3: That's right exactly.
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  Speaker 4: Vicky the captain's daughter, Julie who was the cruise to that,
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  Speaker 4: she was lovely. Gopher was cool. But Doc Doc, in
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  Speaker 4: my opinion, was a bit of which one was.
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  Speaker 3: Have you meet him yet?
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  Speaker 4: Glass?
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: He was the doctor on the book on the Doc
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: Doc Doctor. Yeah, and he was the one with the magazines,
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: you know, Yeah, there you go. It does not Doctor
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: can't be going around with Porno's. It's not okay.
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: This is kind of guy. Doc was, in my opinion,
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: like he'd see something, your sore throats stipp into my cabin.
• 15:07
  Speaker 4: Let's chick you out thin that dock was. He was dodgy,
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 15:11
  Speaker 6: And Jace you said just before that this would be
• 15:14
  Speaker 6: a great series for a remake, and it literally something
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: clicked in my brain. Sweet Life of Zack and Cody,
• 15:19
  Speaker 6: Sweet Life on Deck. I don't know if you guys
• 15:21
  Speaker 6: have seen that show. It was a Disney Channel show
• 15:23
  Speaker 6: that I used to watch when I was younger.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: And on Cruiser and it's like a remake of not
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: really but it was people on a boat.
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: But do you know what? This has come full circle
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: because below.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: The deck is now that it's reality shows are exciting.
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: So five what do you reckon?
• 15:43
  Speaker 11: Oh?
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Like a three out of five? It could be better.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: You get it to do.
• 15:51
  Speaker 8: Everywhere?
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: A creepy one.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Your daily feel good breakfast catch up podcast with cos
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam.
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: The reasons why people change jobs are being revealed. Life
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: balance like opportunities for growth and promotion and redundancies top
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: the list. There's also another big reason kiwis are giving
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: and I was surprised to see this.
• 16:19
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: So people are leaving their jobs for a number of reasons,
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: and a lot of it is because of the work environment.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: So whether that's someone that's been nasty to you, it's
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: a colleague, or maybe it's someone that's your boss.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: And you just don't want to deal with it anymore.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: And I love that people are taking action, actually leaving
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: their jobs because of that.
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Same. Actually a lot of texts on two six
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: nine nine say the same thing. Boss was a bully,
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: too old for that sort of behavior.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, get it.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: I left my job at Christmas after eight years as
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: the boss played mind games.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: He would constantly talk.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: About other staff to you, bagging them and then would
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: play you off against each other. It was terrible and
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: expected you to be a mind reader as things would happen,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: but he wouldn't tell you about it and then told
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: you off for not doing it, although you were never
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: told him the first place. I've since left so much
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: happier not having to deal with all the stuff. And
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I think that's a good message this morning. You don't
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: need to tolerate that.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: That's right. You're not a tree. You can move exactly. Carol.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: What about you? What did you leave your job for.
• 17:11
  Speaker 11: I'm an EC teacher, so that job stressful enough, but yeah,
• 17:15
  Speaker 11: I was just bullying as well a person, not being
• 17:18
  Speaker 11: very kind to myself and our other colleagues that work.
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's got too much.
• 17:22
  Speaker 11: It made me question my judgment as a teacher and
• 17:25
  Speaker 11: stuff like that, and I thought, oh, no, I'm better
• 17:27
  Speaker 11: than this, So I just left. And now I'm in
• 17:29
  Speaker 11: a place that is amazing stuff and they look after
• 17:33
  Speaker 11: their teachers.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: And you know what, that whole making you question what
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: you're doing and is of your and the wrong that's
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: called gas lighting, and that is a classic out of
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: the Bully playbook. So good on you for recognizing that
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: and not, you know, hating on yourself and thinking, am
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I the problem?
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: Because it was you are enough? Exactly, that's right. And
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: another one here from Cindy. I moved because we moved
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: house and suddenly it took over an hour get to work.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: That was one of the big things that came through.
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: The commute. People are over the commute and so they're
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: quitting their jobs because of this.
• 18:02
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I've got another text here from Sally who says it
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: was all about the flexibility. My last boss wouldn't let
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: me pick up the kids occasionally, my new boss does
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: because he knows I'll get the work done.
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: See that's you've got to trust people too, right Exactly.
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: I love that. Thank you very much for being honest
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: about That's a nice little holiday. So basically what's happened
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: is his his mum and dad word all their lives
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: and stuff. But then his grandparents passed away and because
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: of an inheritance, mom and dad want to do this
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: big family trip and so then here are cool.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: With Sam, his three children, his sister Amy, her husband
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: and their two kids, and Barry and Judy his parents.
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: Now unfortunately as keenelvan hopping on.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Holidays, especially when you're you know, you've been a bit,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: you've been working very hard, like Sam has, particularly on
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: those abs he's got over there and he's got a
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: wee little medical issue.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: He's got some conjunctive fires.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: I'm not laughing.
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: He's getting it sorts.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: Gidio's thoughted. But where is it? He's just checked them
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: from Italy on the boats. Well, hello, guys, how are
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: you going?
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: I am heading from a city called Mrano to a
• 19:02
  Speaker 7: city called Burano, which are basically two little islands off
• 19:06
  Speaker 7: Venice one Mrano known for its glass blowing and Barano
• 19:11
  Speaker 7: someone for its colorful houses. I want to tell you
• 19:13
  Speaker 7: a story about in Morana, the glass blowing, because these
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: guys make the best glass blown things in the entire world.
• 19:20
  Speaker 7: I have made a purchase at what it was expensive,
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: It was two hundred and forty euros. And to describe it,
• 19:27
  Speaker 7: and it probably sounds horrible to describe it, like your
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: grandfather clock. It will have a little swinging piece of
• 19:31
  Speaker 7: glass at the bottom, and it's like a starfish sunflower,
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: and every leaf on that starfish sunflower is a different
• 19:38
  Speaker 7: color from blues, greens, reds, like very very bright glass.
• 19:42
  Speaker 7: And I when and I saw the clock, I said,
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: that's the piece that will forever live in my house,
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: will remind me of Morano. And I paid my two
• 19:49
  Speaker 7: hundred and forty euros, which is about I know, I
• 19:52
  Speaker 7: guess four hundred dollars, and I walked out of the store.
• 19:55
  Speaker 7: I walked one hundred meters down of the road and
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: I saw it at another store four hundred euros. So
• 20:00
  Speaker 7: I'm living that tourist life. So yes, I'm four hundred
• 20:04
  Speaker 7: dollars poorer, but I have a glass cloth in multiple colors.
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: Bessy guys Seyah.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: What I love about Sam is every time he buys
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: a nice and for his house, it always sounds so classy,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: and it sounds like it works with everything else in
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: his house, because why wouldn't he have a random sun
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: in his house, a random glass clock that'll go really well.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: With the electric fire, don't you, Regod.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I just want to put my hand out first and
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: foremost and say I am I'm an offender. I am
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: the person that buys the dentist package where you get
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: what is it called when they clean your teeth? Hi genus,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: So you get to Hygienis a year and you get
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: a couple of checkups, and if you pay at the
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: beginning and commit to that yearly package, it's way way cheaper.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Like I think you get about three or four hundred
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: dollars off.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, yep, I am that person,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: and then I forget about it, and you know, it's
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: too months until the package runs out, and I haven't
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: had any of the appointments, right, so I have to
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: be chased via email to say, hey, you've still got
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: some of your package to use. You better use it
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: before December thirty first or it's going to expire. And
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I appreciate that email hurry up, But what I don't
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: understand is how now.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: And I don't know if this is just dentist surgeries
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: or what.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: But they go they go about making the appointment for you,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: and they email and say you've got an appointment on
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: this day, and then if you miss that email, you
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: get a text saying please confirm you're eleven thirty appointment tomorrow.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: We will give this to someone else if you don't reply.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: And then I start to panic because I look at
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: my calendar and I was like, I didn't poll write
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: this in as an eleven thirty appointment for the dentist tomorrow.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: They've got this wrong.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: And then I text back and say, sorry, I didn't
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: make an appointment, and now it's no, we've made it
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: for you. Oh when do people start making appointments for
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: you when it's not even a specialist.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: I get it if it's a specialist, heart to appoint.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Mentor I don't know, sure, something really specialized, but shouldn't
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: you be part of the decision making process. I mean,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: they could have made my appointment at eight am in
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: the middle of the show, and there's no way I'm
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: going exactly.
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: They're taking some liberties there, especially when they give it
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: a hurry up email or the hurry up TEXTA and
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: please confimil I didn't make this in the first place.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: No I got. I got a miss call. I've watched
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: my phone must have been on silent.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: And then I got quite an aggressive text you yes
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I did, and I said, please cancel the appointment that
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't even make in the first place.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: You know who DST day.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: This is DST and look, I want to be chased
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: to tell me that my my subscriptions expiring. But when
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: did we go about just saying this is your appointment,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: deal with it.
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: It's weird either, very very brave, and I've always admired you,
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Tourney Street, but you're very brave. Bring this up because
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: this is not just any specialist. This is a dentist.
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: This is someone who's now going to poke and prode
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: your mouth.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Looks.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Luckily, I've had no feelings, but suddenly they might find
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: one next time I'm there.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: I didn't say who my dentist was. It turns out
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: might have the shift.
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: The chasers on Coast for.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: A rough masking. Just make me part of the process
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: of my own life.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: Okay, let me pull my diary.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: I'm not live this out to get my act like
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: a child.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: All right, here we go, Let's roll the nice, shall
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: we Now? Every lands on the pears for Sam? We
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: played papers?
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: Is wrong?
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Oh I want a shame. It's landed on the j
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: dizzle dazzle.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: We don't anyway today I can't Jase.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: Turns out he is a five year old and he
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: can't do papers.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Always going a timing wrong?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Anyway, Get that video that on our Coast page because
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: Sam will be horrified all the way from Italy.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: I'm horrified. All right, cool Now I'll wait hundred double
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: O four Coast. If you call it in, I gotta
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: face you in a general knowledge battle, and if I
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: can't match your score, you will win six hundred dollars
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: on coast the chasers on.
• 23:50
  Speaker 12: Coast, Hi's Leanne, I'm from New Commerce. I'm taking on
• 23:56
  Speaker 12: Jase today. If I win, the money is going and
• 23:59
  Speaker 12: the kiddy for our Christmas lunch for work.
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: Oh very nice?
• 24:04
  Speaker 8: Nice?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Are you representing a workplace like? Are you coming from
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: work this morning?
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Leanne?
• 24:10
  Speaker 12: Yes?
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Whereabouts a new poet. I have a sneaking suspicion. I
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: know where and I'm excited. I love tataducky girl winning
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: this quiz. Now, I'm going to tell you I just
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: did it myself and I got a three out of five.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I didn't know the fourth question, but I've got flustered
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: and blurted out a wrong answer.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: I think this could be one that trips someone up.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: And let's hope for you it's Jay.
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: Good luck.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Okay, we'll send the dad out of studio today.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Highly gettable quiz, I think, and six hundred dollars on
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: the line as well, so that would go quite away
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: to your work Christmas funds.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: So I'd love to see you guys get it. I'll
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: be down in Tadahuki for Christmas this year too, so
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: I might pop long now, all right, are you ready
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: to go?
• 24:55
  Speaker 12: Yeah?
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, Leanne for six hundred dollars your time arts now,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Kermit the Muppet was?
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: What animal?
• 25:04
  Speaker 10: Frog?
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: Yes? What three colors is the Jamaican flag?
• 25:10
  Speaker 12: Gold, black and green?
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Yes? Who played Donna in the original mumamea?
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: What British Music festival has been canceled for twenty twenty six?
• 25:20
  Speaker 7: Pa?
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: What are the prongs of a fork called.
• 25:26
  Speaker 7: Tom?
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Who played Donna? And Mama mea Meryl Street?
• 25:29
  Speaker 8: Yes?
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: It was a solemn three. Well done.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: It was a no to the prongs, but I just
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: moved on because it wasn't right, and I wanted to
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: get that Meryl Street question, and because.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: I knew you'd get it. So well done.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: That's a good three. We'll bring Jase Beck in, thank you? Okay, Jase,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: you're chasing a three out of five? Question three was
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: snuck in just before the buzzer. Okay, ah right, I
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: think you will probably get a three today, but you
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: just know I'm going to reverse the order of the question.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: All right, Jace defending six hundred dollars, Your time starts.
• 26:04
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: What are the prongs of a four called pass?
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: What British music festival has been canceled for twenty twenty six?
• 26:13
  Speaker 7: Yes?
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: Who played Donna in the original Mamma.
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: Mia Real Street?
• 26:17
  Speaker 10: Yes?
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: What three colors is the Jamaican flag?
• 26:21
  Speaker 8: Green?
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: Red, and yellow?
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: No, Kermit the Muppet was an animal? What sort of animal?
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: Frot?
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: She almost said.
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: Animal was one animal? I nearly said Kermit the fro Lucky.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: The reason I hesitated there is it's a lot of
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: colors to check off. You said red, which was incorrect,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: so you got a solid three.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: Well done. I also have a hard day for the reader.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say I feel sad pain because Leanne
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: also said black, gold, and green, and I decided yes
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: to give gold.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: It would have accepted yellow or gold.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, the three colors you said, reader, which color didn't
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: you say?
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: I didn't say golden, I don't say black. Oh did
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: I say black?
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: I can't remember if I forget black on the flag?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Anyway, frog was correct, black, yellow, and green, as the
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Jamaican flag was the prongs called on a four. Yeah,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: no one got this. They are called times.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: I almost said prong with it, it's too obvious.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: So you caught the end with the three out of five.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: Sorry I got lucky though.
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: Girls. Thank you very much for playing tomorrow Now we
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: play for seven hundred dollars.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Feel Good Breakfast catch Up
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: podcast with Coast Tony Street, Jace Reeves, and Sam Wallas.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: This is woman and she wanted to get married, and
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: so her boyfriend finally proposes to her. She goes, Yay,
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  Speaker 4: my dreams about to come true. Let's do this, and
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: so what's happened is the winning win ahead. But the
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: very next day she has ended her marriage. She wants
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: to get it a nulled.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: So for it, can you just tell me how long
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: do we know how long they've been together?
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they've been together for a few years. Yeah, so
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: actually he proposed back in twenty twenty. There's been a
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: long engagement and so this so, she says, I never
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: really cared too much about it. We all talk about
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: half the responsibility for organizing the wedding, so so far
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: he's taking on half the responsibility for the winning. A
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: lot of grooms don't do that. So far, I like
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: the guy, right, so pretty reason about the compromise. When
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: he really wanted something, he compromised that I compromised. It
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: was so so far. The partnership's working. The been here
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: for a while. But a take that's cool, Okay. The
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: next day of the relationship was over because the one
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: thing she did not want she did not want. You
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: know how everyone does it down again, a little cute
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: to you to cut the cake, and like they're pushing
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: each other's face, like, oh, you know, you go to
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: bite the cake and he pushes in her face.
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: Usually that's just like a little but just above.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: The last half of the photo, smooth devising on the
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: nose and that's about it, right, So she said, I
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: don't want that. Please just don't put any cake on
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: my face. I don't wantny cake on my face.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: I think it usually started with the groom or the
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: bride actually feeding a piece of cake to them right hand,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: first bite.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: That's it. Yeah. Yeah, So anyway, not only did he
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: not listen to her, what he's gone and done is
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: he grabbed it by the back of the head and
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: smashed her face into the cake in front of everyone,
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: and everyone was like, oh, we don't even laugh or
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: clap or do what. You know, she stood up wiped
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: the thing off, and he was obviously not just a
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: spur of the moment because what he did as he
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: organized cupcakes as the backup cake. So he ruined the
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  Speaker 4: first cake with her face and then brought out the cupcakes. Everybody,
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  Speaker 4: here you go, here you go.
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  Speaker 1: I have so many emotions about this. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: don't ruin my makeup on my big wedding day, she said. Secondly,
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  Speaker 1: you've ruined the cake that probably cost half a mortgage,
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  Speaker 1: so good one, buddy.
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  Speaker 3: Thirdly, she specifically asked for you not to do it.
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  Speaker 4: But that's where I had my problem. She asked him,
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  Speaker 4: and he still did it. So the next day she goes,
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  Speaker 4: I can't be with this guy.
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  Speaker 1: Do I think it's worth divorcing someone over because I
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: don't think this guy.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think this is a one off of this guy.
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  Speaker 3: I think this guy's a prankster.
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  Speaker 1: And I think she knew that he was like that,
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  Speaker 1: least not pretend he's just randomly gone rogue, because I
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  Speaker 1: can tell you categorically right now, Jason Rees, you would
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  Speaker 1: never have done that to your bride on the wedding date.
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  Speaker 3: My husband would never have done that to me.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: You can't usually know the type of person they are,
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  Speaker 1: unleast he's gone fully rogue, which I doubt it.
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  Speaker 3: I just speak she should have.
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  Speaker 1: Ended this long before the wedding up day, is what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I think he was bad news. Why do
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: it long before he slammed her face into a cake.
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  Speaker 4: I think she's done the right thing. People are now
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  Speaker 4: saying she's ever reacted though, so she's coughing a bit
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  Speaker 4: of feedback from this bit of backlash.
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  Speaker 10: Skin.
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  Speaker 4: Come on, it's a bit of a joke. No one
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  Speaker 4: got hurt.
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  Speaker 1: What if it's the straw that broke the camel's back?
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: What if he was on his last like, I'll give
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: him one more shots.
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  Speaker 4: I just think it's it's the straw because she asked
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  Speaker 4: him specifically. She made it clear, I don't want this
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  Speaker 4: to happen, Please don't let it happen, and he went.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: He didn't just push it in the face, He pushed
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: her face into the cave.
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  Speaker 1: But what if he was an amazing What if he
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: was Jason Reeves up until that point, and Jason Reves
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: has had a brain explosion. No, you're not divorcing him,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: are yet giving him another shot?
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: Jason Reave doesn't give another shot with that in my parma,
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: know whose side are you on? What do you reckon?
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Has she ever reacted or is this fair enough? Eight
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: hundred double O forecast. I flick it's it's to two
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: six nine nine. This, by the way, is going right
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: through the media in Australia. A lot of your sides
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: in this right now. This is the husband and bride
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: were talking about. If you just turned your radio on.
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  Speaker 4: A couple of minutes ago we talked met this bride
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  Speaker 4: who leading up to the wedding, her fiance, her groom
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: to be said I'll take care of half the wedding.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: She's like, what an amazing man. Sure, so they shared
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: the operational duties, right, But she had one request on
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: the day, please don't push any cake into my face.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: It's kind of been there, done that. I don't want
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: any cake on my face on the big day. So
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: you think, cool, it's the one wish. Just do that.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: As he grabbed the back of her head and pushed
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: her into the cake like.
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  Speaker 3: That, I just feel like this guy.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: The fact that she even had to say that to
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  Speaker 1: her groom. I mean, I just know that my husband
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: would never have done that, because.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: He's not a twit.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I just feel like this guy, she should have ditched
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: long before the big don Look. I'm glad she has now,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: but I feel like the story is kind of slightly
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: skewed because everyone's going, oh my gosh, she got rid
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: of him just for that.
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: I don't think so.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: I think this was the last and a long line
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: of dumb behavior from this guy.
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so she said at that moment, at that very moment,
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: she knew she couldn't spend the rest of her life
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: with this man. But she went through with the ceremony.
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: She went through the rest of the night, you know,
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: the reception, everyone chinking their glasses, doing speech and things.
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: But the next morning she work up sick and she goes,
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: you know what, No, this is over. I can't do this.
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: So the very next day she tried to get the wedding,
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: and the.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: Old well will he ruined, he a big day, didn't he?
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: I agree not to mention her makeup.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: And there's probably cake on the dress to hear, how
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: could you? So I'm with you, I'm with the bride
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: on this, Corey, what do your take? What's your take?
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  Speaker 8: I think in any relationship demands with some reason respect
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  Speaker 8: on both sides. And I mean to divorce over a cake,
• 32:30
  Speaker 8: but then for her not to respect her wishes even
• 32:35
  Speaker 8: when she used the word please. You know it's at
• 32:38
  Speaker 8: the start of the relationship, these alarm bells already. Then
• 32:41
  Speaker 8: they can't work through that. Then obviously it's a good
• 32:43
  Speaker 8: decision probably not to move for both of them.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, he totally didn't respect it. He should
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: have known that this was not going to go well
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: for him, and it's like he purposely sabotaged to well.
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: The thing with me is so premeditated. He had the
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: backup cupcakes that she didn't know about, do you know
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: what I mean?
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: He's just like heard of it. She deserves better. Why
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: are these women sticking with these douches?
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: She's not What are your thoughts?
• 33:10
  Speaker 9: Basically retired wedding photographers forty years of weddings in Australia
• 33:15
  Speaker 9: around the Pacific New Zealand. I've seen some pretty crazy stuff.
• 33:22
  Speaker 13: The fact that, as Tony said, a bit of a
• 33:25
  Speaker 13: douche was premeditated. But I think for listeners here I've
• 33:31
  Speaker 13: seen that alcohol do some crazy crazy I can.
• 33:35
  Speaker 9: Issue you from brides and grooms, So yeah, I think
• 33:43
  Speaker 9: one of the most disturbing things is when you do
• 33:45
  Speaker 9: a wedding and the groom's actually got a roving line
• 33:48
  Speaker 9: and then yeah, pretty much we're right in your assumption
• 33:53
  Speaker 9: that they're no longer together. So that's probably for me,
• 33:56
  Speaker 9: probably a lot worse than you know, our face play,
• 34:00
  Speaker 9: but yeah, there we go.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: You writing this down for the new TV and Z
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: series Confessions of a Wedding Photographer, I'd watch watch. How
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: sad is that? Like, hold your alcohol in a roving
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: iron your weddings?
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: Disgusting?
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Oh my god?
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Well, just I just don't know how these people don't
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: understand that that's what they were like before the wedding
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: and then they're still going through with it.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: If the photographer sees that everyone's.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Everyone said, but you know what it's like, love can
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: be blind sometimes that's what.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: You get told.
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: One more, Julie, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
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  Speaker 14: Yeah, I kind of agree. I think there was probably
• 34:37
  Speaker 14: red flags before the wedding, but you get caught up
• 34:41
  Speaker 14: in the moment and you think, you know, you always
• 34:44
  Speaker 14: see the better and the honeymoon phase. And yeah, I
• 34:49
  Speaker 14: totally agree with her. It's the trust thing. She specifically
• 34:52
  Speaker 14: asked them. If she hadn't asked them, well then yeah,
• 34:55
  Speaker 14: but she specifically said, no.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that do you think
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: that you know he had too much to drink?
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: Is an acceptable excuse?
• 35:06
  Speaker 14: Well depends how far through Na.
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I'm with you because he had the backup cupcakes.
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: He wasn't drunk. When you organize this and every single
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: bar two texts, every other text has come from on
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: two six nine nine saying the same thing. She did
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: the right thing to run yep, good and Kate Bullock.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Can we just say cakeface is not a cool thing
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: at a wedding. I don't even think i'd want my
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: husband to have done that at my fortieth let alone
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  Speaker 5: Good morning?
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