Latest / Arroe Collins Like It's Live / Vocal De Frag Episode 203 Why You Need To Record Your Voice Facing Storms
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- 0:27Speaker 2: Het zero and this is vocal dfrag. Vocal defragging is
- 0:30Speaker 2: taking the chance and the opportunity to spend some time
- 0:35Speaker 2: with your true self. You're fake enough, No I said it.
- 0:38Speaker 2: You're fake. You know you are. I know I am.
- 0:41Speaker 2: We all are. We live in a world where social
- 0:44Speaker 2: media puts on this this little picture of who we
- 0:47Speaker 2: think we want to be, who we think we are,
- 0:49Speaker 2: who we think, and that's where it should end. Who
- 0:52Speaker 2: we think dot dot dot. We don't spend a lot
- 0:56Speaker 2: of time with ourselves. And I think it's because we're
- 0:58Speaker 2: afraid of ourselves. Think we're afraid of our failures. I
- 1:02Speaker 2: think we're afraid of taking chances because you don't know
- 1:05Speaker 2: where it's going to go, and you're not going to
- 1:06Speaker 2: get that money back yet, We'll get on Amazon and
- 1:08Speaker 2: buy a bunch of CRAF I don't get it. I
- 1:10Speaker 2: really don't. Speaking to yourself, asking yourself the questions and
- 1:15Speaker 2: then questioning the answers it does amazing things for your
- 1:20Speaker 2: professionalism as well as your humanism. This is local defragging today.
- 1:25Speaker 2: I want to introduce something that I think is a
- 1:27Speaker 2: powerful tool, and a lot of people will not do
- 1:30Speaker 2: it because I can't stand the sound of their voice.
- 1:32Speaker 2: You know, just get over it, and I do mean
- 1:34Speaker 2: get over it in the way of understanding the process
- 1:38Speaker 2: of how it is that you materialize the real world.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Many of us, you know, how we do it. We
- 1:44Speaker 2: throw it to the side, we delegate it, we give
- 1:46Speaker 2: it to somebody else. We put ourselves in positions where
- 1:50Speaker 2: it's like I don't have to think about that, I
- 1:52Speaker 2: don't have to deal with that. Do something about it,
- 1:55Speaker 2: and then here's how we deal with that. The people
- 1:58Speaker 2: that can do something about it aren't acting, reacting and
- 2:02Speaker 2: trying to fix a solution. What they're doing is they're
- 2:04Speaker 2: just kind of doing the same thing you're doing. You're
- 2:06Speaker 2: just mosing on down the highway, ignoring reality. There's something
- 2:10Speaker 2: that we do inside the ranks of radio terrestrial radio,
- 2:13Speaker 2: or we did during my days of growing through it
- 2:15Speaker 2: way back in the seventies, eighties, nineties and New millennium,
- 2:18Speaker 2: and that is air checks. Juno. An aircheck is and
- 2:22Speaker 2: aircheck is an opportunity to step back a week, two weeks,
- 2:26Speaker 2: a month, a year and listen to how you performed
- 2:29Speaker 2: on the air that particular day. You're usually sitting with
- 2:32Speaker 2: a program director, you're sitting with yourself, or you could
- 2:34Speaker 2: be with a radio station consultant, and they are air
- 2:37Speaker 2: checking you. They're finding out if your pitch, volume, tone
- 2:40Speaker 2: is in tune, they're listening to your subjects. They're really
- 2:43Speaker 2: trying to make sure that you are doing what they need.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Most Remember, when you work in radio, it's not your
- 2:49Speaker 2: place of business, it's theirs. You are nothing more than
- 2:53Speaker 2: a puppet to that company, and they need you to
- 2:55Speaker 2: sound one way, and it's not always going to be
- 2:57Speaker 2: your way. And that's one of the reasons why people
- 2:59Speaker 2: leave the industry disgruntled and feeling like that they were
- 3:03Speaker 2: ripped off because they just wanted to do whatever they
- 3:05Speaker 2: want to do. So and I have to laugh about
- 3:07Speaker 2: that because nowadays with podcasting, where you don't need a
- 3:12Speaker 2: major corporation behind you. You can do whatever you want.
- 3:16Speaker 2: And what do people do. They don't podcast, but they'll
- 3:20Speaker 2: bitch about it in radio terrestrial radio. I didn't get
- 3:22Speaker 2: to do this. I didn't get to do this. We'll
- 3:24Speaker 2: go do this over here. Oh no, I'm cool, I'm cool. Yeah, yeah,
- 3:28Speaker 2: that thing is behind me. Okay. So the real question
- 3:30Speaker 2: here is is that do you aircheck your normal business.
- 3:35Speaker 2: I don't care if you're a circle k, if you're
- 3:37Speaker 2: a movie theater, if you're a banker, a grocery store,
- 3:42Speaker 2: if you are a mother of three kids and your
- 3:44Speaker 2: only job is to get them to soccer practice on time,
- 3:47Speaker 2: you need to create an air check. An aircheck meaning
- 3:51Speaker 2: that you get a digital device and you record your questions,
- 3:54Speaker 2: things that come up, record the current experiences and how
- 3:58Speaker 2: you handle them, and then you come back later on
- 4:01Speaker 2: Oh oh wait a second, I'm talking about defragging. Oh
- 4:05Speaker 2: you've got to be kidding me. Another way to look
- 4:06Speaker 2: at defragging. Yes, it is because what happens is when
- 4:10Speaker 2: you can go back and listen to your pitch, volume
- 4:13Speaker 2: and tone, and you can hear what you were going through.
- 4:17Speaker 2: Sometimes there is a lot of stress and anxiety or
- 4:20Speaker 2: sickness to your stomach, or maybe you think you've got
- 4:23Speaker 2: the answer and twenty five minutes later it was the
- 4:25Speaker 2: worst decision you ever made. It all happens. But if
- 4:28Speaker 2: you make a digital imprint, because I'm not going to
- 4:30Speaker 2: get you to write about it, because people don't want
- 4:32Speaker 2: to waste paper, they don't want to waste ink on
- 4:35Speaker 2: a page, they don't want to get ink on their
- 4:36Speaker 2: handsy list. And I've heard every single freaking excuse, Oh
- 4:39Speaker 2: I've got writer's block. First of all, let me tell
- 4:41Speaker 2: you something. Writer's block does not. It does not exist.
- 4:44Speaker 2: It doesn't that's an excuse, and we are the masters
- 4:48Speaker 2: of excuses. But if you were to do a digital
- 4:51Speaker 2: recording of your upside downs, to twist the spins, the INDs,
- 4:54Speaker 2: the outs, the questions, the almost answers, the victories, the losses,
- 4:59Speaker 2: everything that you're moving through, you're going to become a
- 5:02Speaker 2: much stronger person on the other side. Because awareness is
- 5:06Speaker 2: the secret. It is the needle in the haystack. Awareness.
- 5:10Speaker 2: People don't like that about you being aware, and the
- 5:13Speaker 2: reason why they don't like it is because they aren't aware.
- 5:18Speaker 2: I did a show today with Alexa from Amazon, where
- 5:21Speaker 2: I stumped her four times, and then she came back
- 5:24Speaker 2: and said, I am not digitally prepared for questions like this,
- 5:28Speaker 2: because it seems you are more informed than I am.
- 5:31Speaker 2: What I don't want to have happen here is to
- 5:33Speaker 2: create a know it all. My father hated know it alls.
- 5:37Speaker 2: I mean that in a very serious way. If you
- 5:40Speaker 2: were a know it all around my father, he's getting
- 5:42Speaker 2: knocky on your ass. That's just the way my father was,
- 5:45Speaker 2: and I think it was because he was a sergeant
- 5:46Speaker 2: in World War Two in Germany, where they didn't have
- 5:49Speaker 2: time for bullshit. And it seems like that's what we've
- 5:51Speaker 2: got a lot of time for these days, is that
- 5:54Speaker 2: in our own little plastic candy coat of plastic bathroom
- 5:56Speaker 2: mirror smiles. What happens is we have a lot of
- 5:59Speaker 2: time for bullshit. And so if you were to take
- 6:02Speaker 2: the time to record your ups and the downs of twist,
- 6:04Speaker 2: we've already been through this, and you sit there and
- 6:06Speaker 2: you listen to them, and you study them, and you
- 6:08Speaker 2: find out how you create a solution, or better yet,
- 6:11Speaker 2: where you fail the solution. But there's no such thing
- 6:13Speaker 2: as failure, because it's just growth. It's awareness, you're going
- 6:16Speaker 2: to grow as a human being. But no, we don't
- 6:19Speaker 2: like it that way. We want to be that perfect
- 6:21Speaker 2: picture on social media. We want to show up to
- 6:24Speaker 2: church looking good, smelling good, the hair looks just like
- 6:27Speaker 2: the preacher man. You know what, quit being a follower, don't.
- 6:31Speaker 2: We don't need followers anymore. We need leaders. We need
- 6:33Speaker 2: somebody to get out there on that freaking desert and
- 6:36Speaker 2: lead people through the tough times, those moments where you
- 6:40Speaker 2: look up with this guy and say, there's no rain,
- 6:42Speaker 2: what are we gonna do? Yeah, what are you going
- 6:44Speaker 2: to do? If you would have recorded your freaking voice
- 6:47Speaker 2: and you would have asked yourself the questions and done
- 6:49Speaker 2: things in a way of seeking solutions, you wouldn't be
- 6:51Speaker 2: going what are we gonna do? You knew the rain
- 6:53Speaker 2: wasn't gonna come, You knew the irs needed money, you
- 6:56Speaker 2: knew that your energy build was going to triple and double,
- 6:59Speaker 2: and what the hell's this fiber optic thing charging this
- 7:01Speaker 2: kind of money for? See what I'm saying. You are
- 7:04Speaker 2: weighed down by everything, and then you choose to write
- 7:09Speaker 2: a bullshit list saying but I'm gonna do this instead, Well,
- 7:13Speaker 2: what about that over there. The problem, the one that
- 7:16Speaker 2: gave you some anxiety and fear, doubt, shame, kept you
- 7:19Speaker 2: awake at two three o'clock in the morning. Well, I
- 7:22Speaker 2: fixed the problem. I went to the doctor. He gave
- 7:24Speaker 2: me a pill. Oh all right, whatever, record your voice,
- 7:32Speaker 2: create your own personal aircheck. I'm telling you, through forty
- 7:36Speaker 2: six years of broadcasting, it's going to change you. And
- 7:40Speaker 2: that might be the issue right there. Maybe you really
- 7:43Speaker 2: don't want to change. Ask yourself the questions, question the answers.
- 7:47Speaker 2: I call it defragging now in this device because it's
- 7:51Speaker 2: recording my voice. That's vocal defragging. My name is Ero,