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Can Abby convince Scotty to read her favorite sp!cy novel?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is.
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  Speaker 2: Magia nine and Welcome back to Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 3: There's a lot of updates to get to.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, earlier this week talked about a couple of
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  Speaker 2: the hard conversations I needed to have with friends. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I do have updates about those, and I also want
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  Speaker 2: to get the updates on where you're at, Abby with Irishman,
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  Speaker 2: the Irish Goodbye, the oh sales, hoping it wasn't gonna
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  Speaker 2: be an Irish Goodbye because I keep asking in the studio.
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  Speaker 2: Because I literally thought about this yesterday. I was like, man,
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  Speaker 2: because here's the thing I'm gonna bring you all behind
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  Speaker 2: the scenes. I texted Abby and our girl Alexi. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, y'all, and this is going to tie into
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  Speaker 2: my friend conversation. Later, I was like we should start
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  Speaker 2: doing happy hours. I was like, we should do them
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  Speaker 2: once a week. I got crickets, not even like somebody
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  Speaker 2: harded the message or thumbed up in it all.
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  Speaker 1: I think Alexi and I were both like, yeah, we
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  Speaker 1: like to stay home.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you're just the only way I made it made
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  Speaker 3: sense in my head. I was like, well, maybe Abby's
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  Speaker 3: on a date. I was like, maybe she's already.
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  Speaker 2: At a happy hour god, and she's busy, So like,
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  Speaker 2: we'll just talk about it in the morning. And then
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  Speaker 2: I get here and I'm like, so, what's the date.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, there's there's an update. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if it's a good update. It just like it makes
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  Speaker 1: me wonder was I in the wrong? Like did did
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  Speaker 1: my crazy switch actually flip? Or was he in the wrong.
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  Speaker 2: I'm down to talk about it because I did think
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  Speaker 2: about it a lot to try to see it from
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  Speaker 2: his eyes.
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  Speaker 1: You talk to people about it, because I talked to it.
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  Speaker 1: I beat this dead horse into the ground this There's
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  Speaker 1: never been a more dead horse.
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  Speaker 3: That horse is not Inaan anymore.
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  Speaker 1: That horse has no sign of resurrecting. So quick recap
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  Speaker 1: redownloaded hinge match with this guy on Saturday, very casual convo.
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  Speaker 1: He sends me a voice memo. He's like, let's go
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  Speaker 1: on a date later this week. I can't do anything
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  Speaker 1: this week because I'm in Nashville. I was like, holy geez,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like in Nashville as well. What a crazy coincidence.
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  Speaker 1: Turns out, according to him, we're on the same flight.
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  Speaker 1: He's chatting me up. He's like, oh my god, we
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  Speaker 1: got to sit together. I'm gonna send you snacks all
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  Speaker 1: the things. My oh my god, Like this man's long
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  Speaker 1: story short. Don't see him at the airport, don't see
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  Speaker 1: him on the plane. Granted, like did I see every
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  Speaker 1: person that walked on the plane. No, But I thought
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  Speaker 1: it was very weird that he went a little mia
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  Speaker 1: at the at the airport. Like when I texted him
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  Speaker 1: on the airplane, he texted back, But when I got
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  Speaker 1: off the plane, I thought like I would get a response,
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  Speaker 1: he'd be like, oh my god, that was such a
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  Speaker 1: long tip. I don't know. So he goes a mi
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  Speaker 1: ia that night, and I'm like, he definitely lied about
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  Speaker 1: being on a plane. Like I think he feels weird
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  Speaker 1: about having lied to me anything.
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  Speaker 2: In your defense, that's a weird time to just drop off,
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  Speaker 2: Like why would you all of a sudden go twenty
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  Speaker 2: four hours no contact. You literally just told me you
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  Speaker 2: sent me snacks, yes, and then you don't want to respond.
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  Speaker 1: That's where Yeah, it was giving weird. It was giving
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  Speaker 1: sus But listen, I'm not someone who's big on like
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  Speaker 1: texting communication either. So when he texted me the next day,
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  Speaker 1: literally like twenty four hours later he I guess not
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  Speaker 1: twenty four hours maybe twenty hours later.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: He basically just said, how is did you get home?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: All the things? And I said, yeah, but like, did
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  Speaker 1: you like it just seems a little weird. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: see you on the plane all the things, and he goes, well,
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  Speaker 1: we were all just like feeling really sick. And I
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  Speaker 1: thought that was bullshit because he sent me a voice
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  Speaker 1: memo that day and he sounded fine, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. I'm not saying you couldn't have been hungover,
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  Speaker 1: But to me, someone that's so deathly sick that they
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  Speaker 1: don't want to see you is not going to send
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  Speaker 1: you a voice memo.
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  Speaker 2: And the fact that he was playing the game so
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  Speaker 2: well and then just to drop off like that's to me,
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  Speaker 2: like I don't again, like we're going yeah. As this
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  Speaker 2: saga continues, it's the part to me, and if I
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  Speaker 2: was to talk to him, I say, sir, you literally
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  Speaker 2: flirted so hard and then you're acting like, oh, why
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  Speaker 2: would I say something to you? Like you literally said
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  Speaker 2: we could sit next to each other. I'm gonna send
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  Speaker 2: you snacks. We're like we have that kind of flirt,
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  Speaker 2: And then.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: If I was that flirty, I'd be like, well, I'm
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  Speaker 2: at least gonna try to see you. We're in the
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  Speaker 2: same plane. Like that's it's actually weird not to see
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  Speaker 2: each other.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I mean, is like, you can't just be like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, lion, say that you're not on the
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  Speaker 1: same plane, you know what I mean? Like, or go
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  Speaker 1: m I A like, don't say anything, or don't ask
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  Speaker 1: me what plane I'm on. Don't ask me what flight
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  Speaker 1: I'm on, Like if you have no intention of seeing
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  Speaker 1: me on the flight. That's what I thought. It was
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  Speaker 1: just weird. It was a little suspicious, but I liked him.
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  Speaker 1: I was interested enough to be like, Okay, whatever. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to like cut somebody off just because things
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  Speaker 1: are a little weird. You have no idea. So he
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  Speaker 1: texted me the next day and he said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: how is the journey? I was asking him if he
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  Speaker 1: was on the plane, and I went back and forth,
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  Speaker 1: and I was being very lighthearted about it, but I
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  Speaker 1: was like, something's not adding up, Like let me just
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  Speaker 1: be very clear, something's not auding up. And then he
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  Speaker 1: said something that made me think maybe he was on
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  Speaker 1: the plane. He messaged back and said, hang on one second,
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  Speaker 1: so sorry, I just got a very like disconcerting text.
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  Speaker 1: So now, Mike my anyway, he sent when you when
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  Speaker 1: you're sending me all these texts saying that you're interested,
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  Speaker 1: and then like you send me a voice memo that
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  Speaker 1: said I thought I saw you, but I saw you
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  Speaker 1: with three other all right. He said, I saw three girls.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know if you were in that group or
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  Speaker 1: something like that. And I was like, well, there were
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  Speaker 1: three girls in my row including me. I'm like, maybe
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  Speaker 1: he got on the plane before I did. And he
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  Speaker 1: saw those girls sitting in row fourteen and thought like
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  Speaker 1: maybe that's her. I don't know. So I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's a little bit of evidence. So let me just
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  Speaker 1: like give him another chance. So I basically just kind
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  Speaker 1: of like lobbied a response that's basically said just asked
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  Speaker 1: me out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It said something along the lines of let me just
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  Speaker 1: read it. So we seemed totally fine. He sent me
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  Speaker 1: another voicemail. I told him like, it's it's it's all good.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I almost added you to my list of
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  Speaker 1: hinge horror stories for real, and he said, time will tell.
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  Speaker 1: With the little imoji and then I said the next
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  Speaker 1: day we had like a full like twelve hours. I said,
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  Speaker 1: there might be a little time to turn things around.
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  Speaker 3: I think, yeah, it was just flirty.
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  Speaker 1: That's like, yeah, basically just saying like you got time,
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  Speaker 1: clock's taken, ask me out or don't ask me.
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  Speaker 2: Out, correct as everyone's mentality should be, Like whenever I
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  Speaker 2: talk to friends that are on the apps, that's everyone,
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  Speaker 2: like especially women, Like that's all the mentality is. We
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  Speaker 2: get chat for a day or two, Yeah, like let's go.
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  Speaker 2: We're not sitting here to be pen pals pecause you
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  Speaker 2: want to go on a date.
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  Speaker 1: The vibe is so different in person. You have no
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  Speaker 1: idea who you're getting in person, And it doesn't even
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  Speaker 1: mean like even if you meet them, if you just
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  Speaker 1: don't vibe with them, it doesn't mean they're a bad
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  Speaker 1: person or they're like not attractive. It's just kind of like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know that you're my person, and you can
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  Speaker 1: only tell that by sitting across somebody over coffee or
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  Speaker 1: a meal or a drink or what It takes five minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I do think that like his understanding of
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  Speaker 2: just like who are the people that he's talking to,
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  Speaker 2: Like that would go a long way, and I'm not Again,
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  Speaker 2: who knows, maybe he listens to this.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not pointing directly at you, sir. I'm saying
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  Speaker 2: men in general, like have a little thought, like our
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  Speaker 2: brains work different than you are.
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  Speaker 3: Yeahs you have to consider who you're.
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  Speaker 2: Messaging and what the things that they have gone through
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  Speaker 2: that are having the response back one.
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  Speaker 1: And so I guess I can understand from his point
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  Speaker 1: of view, he'd be like, well, how would I know
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  Speaker 1: that she was in Nashville? Why would I lie about that?
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  Speaker 1: To which I would say, I have a public Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: Even if I didn't have thirty thousand followers, my Instagram's
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  Speaker 1: still public. You could still see like if I was granted,
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  Speaker 1: he sent the boys memo before I had posted anything.
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  Speaker 1: But I do talk about my life on the podcast
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  Speaker 1: that I am on a radio show, like it's not
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  Speaker 1: the odds are low, but never zero.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's interesting, And this is since you're in
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  Speaker 2: the podcast spam just to kind of bring you behind
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  Speaker 2: the scenes. Whenever we expect something's not like that, it
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  Speaker 2: always is like whenever I'm like, there's no way someone's
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  Speaker 2: going to recognize me.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it happens one as soon as your guard
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  Speaker 3: is down. Something like this.
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  Speaker 2: And this is a perfect example a dating app, a
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  Speaker 2: new person that in your head, you're like, there's no
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  Speaker 2: way they would know who I am. They're going to
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  Speaker 2: be the one that knows who you are one percent.
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  Speaker 1: And I've tried to do that to where I just
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  Speaker 1: kind of like exist in this world where I don't
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  Speaker 1: really think about my job, and that always comes to
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  Speaker 1: bite me in the ass for several different reasons, to
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  Speaker 1: where it's like it doesn't matter if I was living
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  Speaker 1: in Paducah on q Q forty four five or what ever.
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  Speaker 1: I would still operate as if everybody was a listener
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  Speaker 1: and everybody tuned into the show and knew everything about me.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I would operate.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I want to get you know, it's like
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  Speaker 2: we said in the last couple, like, you don't want
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  Speaker 2: to get bamboozled.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to get boozled.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody want to get boozed.
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  Speaker 1: No boozling.
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  Speaker 3: He've been boozled enough.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, I send that text yesterday around nine am
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  Speaker 1: after I right before we went into our weekly meeting,
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  Speaker 1: and he didn't text all day and I was like, so,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be honestly, I was really bummed because I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: did I mess it up?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Did I go crazy? Do you know what I mean? Like,
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  Speaker 1: is this guy now like this girl's loony Tunes? Because
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  Speaker 1: the other thing is is he has those thoughtful signals
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  Speaker 1: on his hinge, like the thing that says like this
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  Speaker 1: guy's on the up all the time, slut. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: that's the other part of me that I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: wonder if he's just the kind of guy that just
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  Speaker 1: really enjoys attention for women.
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  Speaker 2: I think both could be the same conversation. I think,
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  Speaker 2: do you think you're crazy? I don't because I think
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  Speaker 2: it's like we've said in the past, like the right
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  Speaker 2: person will understand and be able to navigate those things. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: because if this is the thing that makes you run, well,
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  Speaker 2: then sir, like you're not gonna be able to understand
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  Speaker 2: life because there are so many complexities that will happen
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  Speaker 2: in the next years that you need to be able
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  Speaker 2: to handle this and be more understanding and thoughtful. Because
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  Speaker 2: what you did was very understandable, especially if you just
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  Speaker 2: give you the chance to have a conversation.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I feel you.
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  Speaker 3: I'll have a drink at night.
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  Speaker 2: And actually he could hear your perspective, that would be
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  Speaker 2: so easy for him and would say, ooh, I got it,
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  Speaker 2: uh huh.
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  Speaker 3: And also likes what you did. Was not that just
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  Speaker 3: simply checking if he was on the plane.
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  Speaker 1: Let's read it. Let's beat this horse again. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think the horse is dead enough. Let's go, let's go
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  Speaker 1: through what I said again. So he said, of course,
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  Speaker 1: hope you were recovering from Nashville. And I said, ha ha,
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  Speaker 1: probably doing a bit better than you are. Did you
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  Speaker 1: miss the flight yesterday? Ha ha? We were on the
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  Speaker 1: flight all feeling a bit rough, and I said, damn
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  Speaker 1: you guys must had invisibility cloaks on the whole flight.
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  Speaker 1: Ha ha. He said, I think everyone was trying not
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  Speaker 1: to be sick. I think I saw you, but wasn't sure.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, I fear you made you redeem yourself
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  Speaker 1: after this one. And then he said, ha ha, why so?
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  Speaker 1: And I said, I don't know. I'm not saying I'll
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  Speaker 1: believe you, but it's deaf giving sus And he had
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  Speaker 1: said something about like, oh I was sending my avoiding pass.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I saw you. There were three girls. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't know if it was you or not, which it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't me, it was those other three girls. And then
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  Speaker 1: I immediately sent a boys memo back and was like listen,
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  Speaker 1: like I was, it's just kind of a weird coincidence.
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  Speaker 1: We're both in Nashville on the same flight. And then
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  Speaker 1: I don't see you. It's just giving sus And then
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  Speaker 1: I said something like, well we do. We just missed
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  Speaker 1: the whole meet. Cute, Like I thought. I was being
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  Speaker 1: like nice at the end.
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  Speaker 2: Let me give you credit where credit is due at
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  Speaker 2: this moment, as a man, this is a moment for
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  Speaker 2: him to step up. Yeah, like when you get challenged
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  Speaker 2: like that, Like that's a moment for him to say
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  Speaker 2: most I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Again, well, how would you have handled this?
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  Speaker 2: I would have said I was challenged, and I would
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  Speaker 2: have rose my like my standard for myself. I was Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you think I wasn't there, I will prove I was there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like just in a playful way, because that's usually how
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  Speaker 2: like again I like to use these terms, but like
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  Speaker 2: that's how a masculine energy usually reacts.
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  Speaker 3: You like to be challenged.
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  Speaker 1: You're calling me Scott Woosy.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest, Yes, I think it's a wos move.
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  Speaker 1: Just kind of how they are in the UK.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just it seems like, sir, you back down from
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  Speaker 2: the challenge like a woman is talking to you and
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  Speaker 2: questioning you in a way that's like you have an
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  Speaker 2: opportunity to just truly swoon her over, prove it to me,
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  Speaker 2: and then not only prove it to me, like take
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  Speaker 2: the opportunity to say it, like you have an opportunity.
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  Speaker 3: What'd you say? You said, uh, you could still make.
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  Speaker 1: Up for it or something, redeem yourself. I thought that
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  Speaker 1: was me being played for. It's not like I sent
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  Speaker 1: him seven paragraphs being like I can't believe you would
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  Speaker 1: do this to me. I'm so embarrassed.
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  Speaker 3: How dare you correct?
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  Speaker 2: You said you could literally redeem and I think most
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  Speaker 2: men hear that and say challenge accept it.
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  Speaker 1: So then maybe that convinces me more correct that he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't on the flight, because it would have been so
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  Speaker 1: easy to be like, dude, this is my boarding pass,
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  Speaker 1: like the hell.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like here I am getting on the flight, or
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  Speaker 2: like fine, let's go over drinks and talk about I'll
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  Speaker 2: show you pictures of the Nashville.
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  Speaker 1: That would have been the perfect response. So maybe he's
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  Speaker 1: totally ghosting because he knows. I'm like, I don't. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna put up with bullshit. You're not gonna boozle
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  Speaker 1: me for the next three months.
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  Speaker 2: And even like, let's just say hypothetically he was on
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  Speaker 2: the plane, it's very well he could have been, but sir, again.
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  Speaker 3: Step up, Just simply step up. You're being questioned, answer like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, you shouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: That shouldn't be the thing that makes you go, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, she's quote unquote crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what, which I can understand if you're on the flight,
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  Speaker 1: you think it's like you think it is crazy. He's like,
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  Speaker 1: I thought I saw you. Like, I'm literally in twenty
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  Speaker 1: two two. Why would you think I'm not on the plane.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm also acknowledging the elephant in the room that
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  Speaker 1: it's really freaking weird that we've matched on this app
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  Speaker 1: We've acknowledged that we're both on the plane and we're
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  Speaker 1: just gonna like ignore each other.
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  Speaker 2: That's the weird part too, because I'm like, again, I
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  Speaker 2: think you get to a certain age where're like, yes,
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  Speaker 2: it's a little uncomfortable, but we should meet, Like, let's
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  Speaker 2: not waste time, let's meet, Let's have a meet.
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  Speaker 1: Cue this man wasn't on the plane.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah there is no plane. What is that lost?
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  Speaker 2: Or like you're just actually, oh gosh, never mind. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna go down.
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  Speaker 3: That rabbit hole.
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  Speaker 1: But final destination is what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, something in that route, like maybe this's all made
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  Speaker 3: up in.
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: Keanjesus guy's final destination.
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: I just I can't believe that that's the way he reacts.
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: And honestly, you could be just dodging a bullet, which
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: is annoying because it's like, how many bullets do you
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: need to dodge?
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: I've been dodged. I'm like, I'm on the front lines.
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: I'm the matrix, you know what I mean.
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: Like I got a purple heart at this point, Like,
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: give me out of here. I'm so over this. Like
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: these super villains they walk amongst us. There was no
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: reason for you to lie about being I was gonna
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: go out with you. So then it just makes me
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: want It makes me think that his endgame is just
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: to like get off on flirting with women on the internet.
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and again, like I said, he could be on
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: the plane. Yeah, but like cirt, you had a perfect
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: opportunity to make up for it.
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: It's giving in cell m. It is the opportunity between
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: seeing a real life woman and just flirting with someone
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: on the internet.
• 13:59
  Speaker 3: It's crazy.
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's never read sex. I'm just saying
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: I I think I just think his hand has had
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: a lot of work these days, both on on his
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: phone toppy tapping.
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: Here's what's so bad. I don't know if you guys
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: will like have you unmatched him yet? Like, oh, okay, so.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: I'll give you the update. So well, there's no update.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: Here's where I'm at.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I send that message, he doesn't respond, and
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: so I'm thinking, I'm like, how long do I give
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: him to respond before I make a point that I
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: because he's clearly on the Apple lot. Yeah, you're a
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: thoughtful user, he's a thoughtful user. How long do I
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: give him before I prove a point that I'm unmatching him?
• 14:38
  Speaker 3: I would say twenty four hours.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: That's how I feel.
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: I think that's fair.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: And it's not like you've been there's a weird thing
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: like when you're dating of like Oh, I wonder if
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: they're into me. It's obvious that a date could be
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: set up. You have been given the softball if you
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: can't land this plane when it's been literally said that
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: you could redeem. We could make up for it. You
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: know where I go for coffee. Like you could either
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: say what I said on the last podcast and just
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: be like, man, okay, like redeem yourself, like ask me out,
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: like literally just make it as clear as.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: Day, or you on match.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it sounds more in your line.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: But so here's what I did. I started soft launching
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: the fact that I'm mad at him.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: It sounds like Miranda.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: I know, I really I'm a very cause I'm kind
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: of just like the cut them off and like no drama,
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Like that's my thing. It's like just like cut them off,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: move on with your life. Because I'm very much in
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: the in the camp of like if you're confused, if
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: you're stressed, like it's not right, Like it just shouldn't
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: be that.
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: It should be the easiest part of it.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: It should be the most fun part of it. Like
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: when we were texting on Saturday or on Sunday, it
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: was like I was on drugs. I was like, this
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: is the greatest ever. This is so fun. Life is
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: worth living. My therapist was right, I do need to
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: go do more fun things. And then it just turns
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: out to be a lie. Like everything in this life,
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: everything is pain and suffering. Oh no, So I decided
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: to change my profile picture from my profile picture to
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: a new photo. I decided to upload a new photo
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: so that when he sees my name in the app,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: he'll see the photo change so he knows that. I'm like, Okay,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: if you're not messaging me, I'm gonna put on an
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: even hotter photo in.
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: Oh okay that to see I will be honest a guy.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe he does think this way. I
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: wouldn't have thought that way when I'm like, oh, nice photo.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: N Well, here's the thing. He's either going to see
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: the photo be like she looks hot and the message me,
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: or he's going to realize that he's fumbled and this
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: really hot photo is going to attract other suitors.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: You know what that's actually really it's like.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: A respectably hot photo. It's not like a bikini photo
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: or anything. It's just a hot photo. Me and my
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: friend in Nashville.
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, and it's you in Nashville.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Hill.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I was actually in Nashville.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, where's your photo evidence? Irishmen?
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: Were you at Morgan Wallins bar? Don't think so?
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Don't think so, my guy.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: That's so annoying.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: I know. So it's been I mean, at this point,
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: it's been probably what twenty four hours since the last response.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: It's been twenty three hours? Ye I might I think
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: what would you.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: Say though, to like make a point, like be mad
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: at him?
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I see. That's the thing is though, when you when
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: you go to make a point, you've already lost. Yeah,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: he's on the app. He knows where to find me.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: If he wants to say something, he will. The problem
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: is I'm annoyed that if he's not responding because of
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: this little tiff and he was on the plane, I
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: hate that. I leave the situation looking like the crazy one.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think you should put that blame on you.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I don't, because again, you're crazy.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: It was not that crazy.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I don't really even think I went that crazy. I
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: think I just got like suspicious, as.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: You should in this world with as weird of guys
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: that are out there. It's okay, to be suspicious, and
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: a strong, masculine, confident man will understand that. And not
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: only will he understand it, he will then go above
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: and beyond to make you feel more secure in the conversation.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to get this guy deported. I have
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: to call it back to Ice Ice on this guy, which,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: by the way, he's an irishman. Okay, this is not
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: like a he's also white. Okay, this is not like
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: a racism thing.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: God, that's so funny. The podcast Fame gets it.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: That is what you hope that you but sometimes things
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: get clipped. You just never know.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: Oh Lord, have mercy.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: He's an irishman. Okay, Yeah, get out here, I would say,
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: is there. Okay, so you're not going to message him
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: back or you will.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I'm for sure not messaging him back unless he messages me.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Then I will message him back.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Okay, So just keep it, keep it open, I would say.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I don't.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Think keep it. Just keep him in my hinge.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, keep him in your hands.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I hate that he thinks that I am just keeping
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: him there though, Like I would like to make a
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: point that I'm like, Okay, if you're going to be
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: weird like this, like, I'm just yeah, no, like well.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: In that case, yeah, I mean, would you let's say, say,
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: right now he messages, You're like, all right, drinks tonight?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: If he yeah, because I got questions you want to
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: go for these? Seems to know where to get him,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Oh jesus, I'd be like
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: sending coordinates out to Hillsborough Charactery, meat market, five panthers.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Oh me, either way, I'm gonna be on a bender
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: this weekend. Oh, he's just helping his he's just helping
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: my case.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: I want answers to I do think he was on
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: the plane.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I want you think he's on the plane.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I think he was on the plane. Why do you
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: think he was on the plane? Just the way you
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: said he saw three other blondes. And he was like, well,
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: he didn't say blondes. He said I saw three other girls.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Oh, he said, and to be fair, there were three
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: of them and they were blonde. But he didn't say
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: that they were blonde. He said, I saw three girls.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: We played the worse metal. I don't I don't like
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: the idea of doxing him.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: No, no, I think I mean, what would be crazy?
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: This is like so far Like, let's just say, hypothetically,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: you go out and get shrinks and it's fantastic, and
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: then he listens to these podcasts.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I think it's reasonable when you
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: hear my explanation, I do too.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Again, I am fully on your side here. Yeah. Do
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: I think he's still on the plane.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: Yes, Just like when he sent me his quote unquote explanations,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, that is somewhat reason because I
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: was sitting next to three other girls. Yeah, he didn't
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: say I saw you sitting with three other girls. He
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: said I saw three girls and I thought maybe you
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: were there. So I mean, like that's still vague, still
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: kind of vague. But to be fair, in my exact road,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: there were three girls, and if he was considering that
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: one of them was me, they all looked like AI
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: versions of me, like tan, blonde, yappie.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: It would just be very like, I know, people do
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: weird things.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I think he's on the on the plane because that
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: would be so weird to lie about it like this
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: is like I don't know, like where your brain's at,
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Like that is such a weird thing to be.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Like I'm on the same plane.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: And I'm gonna play this game and then not come
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: clean about it, Like that would be so weird, that's
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: like psychotic.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Well what's weird? Or him lying about it, or him
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: being on the plane and not saying anything.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Him lying about it would be way weirder because I
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: can understand like maybe you get shy, like Okay, you
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: see me, we're flirting, and you're a little shy to
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: come up and say hi.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: At the airport. Yeah. No, again, I'm not saying that
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: would be that's not the right move.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I think, you know, be a little shy, but also
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: step up, broly, Yeah, you have opportunity.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Well he has to. I think what I'm bothered by
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: is he's got to know that seems weird to me
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: that we're not going to see each other on the plane.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, when we had a whole conversation about being on
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: the same plane.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. If he if he was like
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: weird about it or like very shy about it, then
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I would have been like, Okay, I think this guy
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: just got cold feet. But he's like, risen me up.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: And so I'm like, I'm about to meet my boyfriend
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: on the plane.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that I think that goes to the bigger
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: picture of like, Okay, this you just seeing like one
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: of those guys that's really confident behind the keyboard, but
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: in reality you're not that kind of confidence. Yeah, which
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: worked for some, not for all, not for all, but
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: it would have been the cool move to be like,
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: all right, hang out, I'm gonna come say hello.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: So anyway, I think I'm gonna give him. I'm I'm
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: gonna be generous. I'm gonna give him until tonight.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: Okay, thin, I think that's good nine pm to night.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I think that's enough. That's thirty six hours. And I
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: just feel like if you were going to say something
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: to me, you would have said something by thirty six hours.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: This is like the general rule, like just ask, just
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: put out a feeler, don't waste time, like what the
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: hell are you doing?
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: And shows like you just have no initiative.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: And I don't like that you have no initiative. But
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I also know I mean because he's it literally says,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: man's is active. He's just talking to other girls.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Well, those other girls are gonna be very disappointed, but
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: they've maybe we can't live up to the words that
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: he says, which that's a very young man's game and
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: he's our age.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: So yeah, so I guess Irish man goodbye.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Literally, what am I gonna learn? That men from the
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: UK like are just always going to ruin your life you.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: Think you're destined to be with somebody from the UK.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It's just weird that I do just end up getting
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: bamboozled by men from the UK. And it's not necessarily
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: an accent thing, like I do like an accent, but
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: British accents have been ruined for me ever since London Boy,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: and I've never been a fan of Irish accents except
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: he has a great accent, like he has like the
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: right mix of American and Irish to where it doesn't
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: give leprechauns. I was like, ooh hot. So it's not
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: like I'm actively seeking these guys out because they're British.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: It just they just flock to me.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what it is. I mean, it's like,
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: it's why just the UK.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Have you tried Australia yet?
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: No, I don't really like an Australian.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that was Accents are sweet.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I just watched an Australian show and the whole time
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I thought, I hate these accents, which I've never felt
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: this way, like, I don't know if this is like
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: a new development, but they sound I don't know if
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: maybe they were doing a specific Australian accent. It's called
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: the show is called My Brilliant Career. It's set in
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: like twentieth century Australia. It's a good show. It's like Bridgerton.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: It's kind of like those vibes. It's six EPISODESLIX, you're freaky,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: you'd like it. Yeah, yeah, you're always watching those sex shows,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: so you like it. But yeah, the only accents that
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I like. I'm not like an accent gal. I mean,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I've never been a fan of Irish accents, but I
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: just like the tenor of somebody's voice. Like I think
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: when when a guy has a specific like baritone in
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: his voice, I'm like, yes, that's what I'm into.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, I have like a little out in my head.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: This is a weird word to discribe, but like thick.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, like when when a guy talks and it sounds.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: Like maybe it can't sound like Mickey Mouse.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Mickey Mouse, or if it's like too feminine sounding, I'm
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: like I'm out and voices really can be like a
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: make or break. Like I was talking to this guy
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: in college for like six months and he was a
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: little weird whatever, And I remember we met out. I
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: hadn't I didn't know what his voice sounded like. And
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: we met up at a bar like during winter break
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: or something, and the second he opened his mouth, I
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm out.
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: I've had the same thing happen to me. Yeah, the
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: guys have the same thing.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: What's the girl voice that you don't like?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Well, there's obviously there's a range, there's a pitch, like
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: it needs to be in a nice upper range. Yeah,
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: And honestly, sometimes like a little raspy is very sexific.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I totally know what you mean, because this is the
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: same for girls.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Like you cant a rasp Yeah, Like I said, every
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: now and then, like Brionna like loses her voice and
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: it's like damn yeah.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when it's like if somebody gets sick, Yeah, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: get it.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: But I've had it where you know, and it's ken
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: you were born with what you want with and somebody's
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: gonna love you for it.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: But if the voice is too low, oh yeah, or
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I've talked to people and they just very quiet and
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: the very quiet voice that I can't do.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: It's like, what are you doing?
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't know what it is. I don't
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: know if that's a condition or just like maybe you're shy.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Is there a peptide for this?
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: That's I've gone out and it was the same thing.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: And I went out and I remember like we sat
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: down as soon as you started talking, and it was
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: just it was so low, and it like.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: It scared me. Yeah, I was like, what, Oh my gosh,
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: I can't even hear.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: It is kind of giving serial killer.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: It's giving serial killer.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: And as somebody that wears headphones every day, I'm like
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: constantly leaning in like what what?
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: And I didn't do the right thing.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: But I did end up kind of ghosting because I
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: didn't how do you tell somebody that, hey, we can't
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: go out because I don't like your voice.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: That's what I hate about going on first dates with
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: people from dating apps is the odds are of you
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: going out with somebody that you meant on a dating
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: app that you would have already met in person, Like
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: you you probably not gonna go out with that person.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: That's why I like meeting people in person. So it's
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: already like established that the superficial things were into. Yes,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: because if you ghost me after a first date and
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I'm into it, I'm gonna get in my head. I'm
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: like it must be something dumb, must be something dumb
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: and supervisual.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think again reverse on me. Like I've
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: gone on a days, I'm like, huh what I do
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: have questions like what was it about the conversation or
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: the what was it that said?
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: You know what, I'm never going to talk to this
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: person again. Yeah, I'm curious. I'll never get those answers.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: And honestly, at this point, I'm okay with that.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I do feel like with women sometimes there's like not
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: anything you can put your finger on. Sometimes you just
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: said ye, it's just like yeah, I like this guy,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: but like I don't think he's like my guy, Whereas
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I feel like dudes are like, well, you know, she
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: doesn't have a twelve step skincare routine and her skin
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: doesn't glow like my ex girlfriends, and they're not over
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: their ex girlfriends. So they go home and just jack
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: off to photos of that girl that they dated two
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: years ago that they never got over. It's it not
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: spot on though, like, what's her Instagram again? If we'got
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: know she blocked me.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: Dang, it is crazy how many dudes fall for that
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: crap though, of like just what's online and then like
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: you talk to him and they're like, you know, that's
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: their standard, is like an online version of somebody, and
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: like you're gonna be You're gonna be shook.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: It's so interesting that you say that, because I think
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: I already told you this story off air, and I
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: won't tell you who this is, but on the air obviously.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: But we were talking to one of our mutual friends
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: and he said that he just started dating again and
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: he was so excited about this girl because he was
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: the she was the epitome of his type. And I
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: was so curious because I'm like, he's an objectively attractive guy,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: what's the epitome of his type? Like I'm curious, like
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: what the beauty standard is for him? And he pulls
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: up a photo and it's like the most I don't
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: want to because listen, everybody edits their photos. Not only
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: is she like super face tuned, but like clearly has
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: some work done, which again I'm nobody to talk. I
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: have also gotten work done but it's like the kind
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: of work where you're like, that's work and not something
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: that makes your face look better. Yeah, and I remember
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: thinking like, oh, we're screwed, Like women are screwed.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: We're it unforced. It really is unfair.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: Like if you go and you just scroll, and let's
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: just say, you're a dude that's just been scrolling. You've
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: never actually talked to a woman, and like this is
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: what you look at all day. Holy crap, what you
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: expect is just not even fair. It's not even right.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: And it's honestly, you're putting yourself so far in a
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: whole of the actual reality being able to love your
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: partner in all parts of like getting dressed up and
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: going out and waking up in the morning.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: Like, again, you want to be able to love all versions.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: But if your version is somebody that's like and this
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: is since it's the podcast, but since so many guys
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: look at like adult material, that's your version.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're right, we're screwed.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it's funny because I know women's books always
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: get compared to porn, but I'm like, I think it's
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: just so different. Like when you read a book, there's
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: a story and there's plot and you're learning about yourself
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: as a human, like if you're just turning on porn.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: This isn't like a commentary on porn or not. It's
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: just like you just we all know why you're there.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: And when you're looking at that from such a young age,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I do wonder how it affects dudes, and it makes
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: it very not very hard to compete, I mean, but
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: like you know, it.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Just it sets you up for a lot of failures
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: and a lot of missteps. Because I was even watching
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: because I started the show, gosh again, the Hunting Wives.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: Yes, the freaky lesbian show.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Freaky show, and I'm into it, like it's cool.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: But Scot doesn't even have Netflix. He just has he
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: just has pornhub dot com as a streaming service, and
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: he's like, the Haunting Wives looks different here.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Gosh.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: I was just trying to because I just finished Okay,
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: on the other side of that quick tangent, I finished
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: the show Modern Love, which is so not that it's
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: not freaky, it's just about love. So I was like,
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: I need a new show, and I've heard things about
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: The Honey Wives. I was like, this is interesting. Yeah,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: well anyway, one of the things in the show is
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: like this young guy and you can just tell, like
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: it's such a typical eighteen year old dude where he's
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: rushing the romance, he's really aggressive if he's like really
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: upset if he doesn't get what he wants sexually, and
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: it's like that is a majority of the guys at
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: that age. And the sad thing is is like how
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: long do guys take before they get out of that
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: because all their expectation is on the real world is
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: that oh, we obviously start kissing and then boom, we're
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: doing it right then, right there, aggressive quick, and it's like,
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: oh god, it's.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Like not how it is at all odd, Like how
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: many dudes are just fucking literally all of them literally
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: all of them I.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Know, and I can't say like I didn't know, but
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: obviously it's like you talk to enough women you're like, oh, okay, okay,
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: got it, got it.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: And that's why I watched these love shows, that's why
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: I read about it.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: You you have to get on book talk, Like I know,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I've given you several books to read. You need to
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: read one woman's fiction.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: Novel, okay, and I'm okay.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: Well, then if there's if you're gonna give me one,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: because I will be honest, I tried reading off campus.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Yes I knew you weren't going to get through it.
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: It did not get through it.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: To be fair, that's not necessarily like a good book.
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna try. The show is just so good.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: The show is so good, Like I read the books,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: and even I when I read the books, I'm like, yeah,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: this is good. But like I mean, it's entertaining because
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I'm a girl, Like I think I read it. I'm like, yeah,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: this is like reality TV for women.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Now I want to read one of those that like
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: all women are reading. Yeah, very few men even know
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: about it, but like in the woman's perspective, you're like, yeah,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: that's some good stuff right there.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: So the only book I'll I'll give you right now.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: And I'm only saying this because there's a long we've
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: been waiting for the I don't even know what number
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: book it is. We've been waiting for, like the sixth
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: book in the series for so long, and it'll be
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: what everybody is talking about come October. And I know
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: you like to be with the girlies.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: I am. I'm like almost one of them. But just
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: a very masculine dude.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: I know you like to know what the girlies are into.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, come October, this is what everyone's going
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: to be talking about. So if you want to get
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: ahead start triumph, you can read The Court of Thorns
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: and rosa series. A Court of Thorns and Roses.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Oh man, this is a big one, though not as
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: a big read, but like, yeah, I'm not saying I
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: could read many pages, y'all. Yeah, yeah, I'm saying. Okay,
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: So if I just read that one alone, I'll be good. No,
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: I got to read the whole series. I might get
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: into it. I'm not saying I won't.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I think you might get into it. So a lot
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: of people say they read the first one and they
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: don't really get the hype. I liked the first one.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I thought the first one was enjoyable. I think it
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: takes I think it starts off ridiculously slow, to the
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: point where I may just give you like a starting
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: page halfway through and just tell you what happens in
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: the beginning. I'm just going to give you the rundown
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: and then I'll be like, here's when it gets interesting.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm down for it. What is okay?
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: So if you could give a synopsis as like, what
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: is this book even about?
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: That's a book about a book?
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: Okay, weird.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: So the main character's name is Farah. She lives with
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: her two other sisters and their father. They used to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: be extremely rich and now they're poor and they live
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: in this shack. And so Farah has to.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Like.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I realized, I sound like I'm on crack. Farah has
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: to like hunt for her family. So she ends up
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: killing this wolf, and this wolf ends up and this
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: wolf ends up being like a fairy from another land.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: And I guess there's some kind of hidden fairy contract
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: that if like a human kills a fairy with hate
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: in her heart, she has to repay the debt by
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: going to live in the fairy land. No, so fairy
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: land is called Prithian. So that's name the universe. So
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: the human lands in Printhian are are separated by a wall. So,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: after she kills the wolf, who she didn't realize was
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: a fairy, or maybe she did, I can't remember. Anyway,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: she kills the fairy, a big, hot fairy comes into
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: her house. Oh wow, it's sodridiculous. But these books are
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: actually very well written, comes into her house and it's like,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I have to take you, and she's like what no,
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Like I love being in my starving shack with my
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: sisters and my who's a dead bee, Like we no.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: Why would you take me away from all?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: It's a beauty and the beast retelling essentially, So he
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: takes her away to his castle. He lives in the
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: spring Court. They're all named after like seasons and shit.
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: Oh very nice.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: So she lives in the spring Court with him. There's
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: all these this fairy stuff going on, and there's like
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: a sickness taking over their country, and no one really
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: knows much about the sickness except it's bad. And then
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, the sickness abducts the spring Court
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: and they have to go under a mountain.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: You know what, Okay, I'm committing.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: I will write it's a fairy adventure romance.
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm in.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: I think I did try at one point to listen
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: to the audiobook.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: Version of this one.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: The plot is unclear, but it is a good time.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: But it's romance, like it's.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: What people call a romance. See it is a romance
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: novel series set in a fictional fairyland world. But it's
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: the people get very excited about the second book. And
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I've reread this book a couple of times, Like I
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: remember reading them all through once and going, yeah, they're good,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: like I enjoyed them, like I had a good time.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: And then it's something about the stories, like they sit
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: with you and you're kind of like I miss my
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: friends and you have to like go relive it by
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: like reading them again.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, then I'm in because the one book and I
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: was I'm not a big fiction reader. Yeah, when it
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: comes to fiction, it's like I need something like walk
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: away with like something tangible. That's why I read so
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: many nonfiction because I'm like self help. I could use
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: this right now, bam, life accomplishment. But also it's nice
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: to let your brain go hmm, let me go to
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: another world. And I did that during the pandemic with
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: like Harry Potter. I'm sure very different, Yeah, but it
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: was cool to see, like for the first time ever,
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, my mind was like, Wow, I'm
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: in a whole new universe and it felt like it.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: I would escape for hours reading this.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: So that's how you will feel reading this novel. And
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: I or this series because I will say it does
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: a really great job of taking you there. And I
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: don't feel that way about every book. Like I enjoy reading,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I enjoy the entertainment aspect of it. This is a
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: book where you feel like you're living with the characters.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: And I think that's why people like them so much.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Is not because the plot is some kind of I mean,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: you just heard me try to explain it sound like
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I'm on drugs. Maybe I should do drugs and then
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: read it. I think you should do drugs and read them.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I think, why not add them all in? So I
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: think reading these books will make you feel like you're
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: in this world with these characters that are so lovable
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: and so fun to read about. And I don't think
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: you'll get the hype at first, but I think you'll
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: go you know what. I'm like six hundred pages in
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: and I get it, nose. It does take you a second,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: because like it's sort of like getting to know someone,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Like you know, the first time you hang out with someone,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, that person's fun, and like you hang
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: out with them a little bit and you're like, yeah,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: they're great, and then all of a sudden you have
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: this friendship that lasts six months and you're like, oh
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: my god, like that person's so great. Now I love them.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: And I did obviously see everybody when this book was
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: massive reading it.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: Yes, not, it would not be that popular if it
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: wasn't a good book.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I yeah, it's a really good book. It's really well done.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Read it. You're up to date by the top October
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: comes around, so what.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: Okay? So you said there's six books in the series though.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which I know sounds crazy, But once you get
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: over the hurdle of like the first book, then it's like, oh,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: thank god, there's five other books.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, So once I finish this one, you think
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: I'll be like, all right, let's go number two.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: And one of them's freaky.
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: I love that, So do that as you will.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: You just got to get through it all. So my
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: mom wanted me to tell you that she just bought
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: a hat.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, thank you.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Hey, I just bought a hat from Scott. Tell him
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: he doesn't have to mail it to me. If he's
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the one physically mailing, he can just give it to you.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Well, that is actually so sweet. And if that doesn't
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: make any sense to you on the podcast. I have
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: these hats I'm selling for my Dare to Dream one hundred,
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: which I've even talked about here.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: I'm running one hundred miles to it sounds.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Nuts, totally optional.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have to. So again, a lot of.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: What if you walked one hundred miles? That's not the
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: same where what if you walked? Like, where is one
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: hundred miles from here?
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: So what I'm going to if I walked one hundred
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: miles from here? Oh god, I'd be in Orlando from here.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know what's on your Orlando, Okay, So to
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: take so you would go past.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Orlando Orlando is eighty nine miles.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: It's not even enough.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: Well here, I want to take it through the timeline
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: of why this started. Like when I actually started doing
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: these crazy races. It was right after my mom passed
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: away and I was out on a run and I
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: was just literally trying to.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: Escape the pain, like that was the whole purpose.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: I was sitting in my house and I was dealing
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: with grief, and I was like, I need to get
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: rid of this. I don't know anything else to do
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: except for go run, And so I went on on
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: this run, and I just started listening to all these
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: speakers that I grew up listening to, like Les Brown
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: and Tony Robbins. And as I was listening, there was
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: something that kept getting repeated. It was like find your why,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: like raise your standard. And one of the stories that
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: I remember hearing was a story from Tony Robbins who
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: shared how a big part of what he does now
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: is because of a painful story in this past. And
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: it was one Thanksgiving where his you know, family was
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: struggling and then somebody came by the house and offered
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: to give them food. Story goes that, well, his dad
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: didn't accept the help. But as I heard that story,
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: I realized, Man, it was October, We're getting ready for Thanksgiving.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: And as I was running, I was like the reality
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: of my new life hit and I was like, holy,
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: we're about to go into Thanksgiving.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: This is gonna be the first time.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Like the full table's not filled, like my mom won't
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: be there, We're not gonna have Like there's gonna be
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: an empty chair in the room. How are we even
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: gonna put this meal together? Like what's the point? And
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, I found my why and
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: it was wait a second. If I'm dealing with this
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: and I've been given this platform and I'm have an
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: opportunity to maybe take this pain and turn it into purpose.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: What if I did something crazy and I ran a
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: marathon and in this marathon I raised enough money to
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: feed families so they wouldn't have to deal with the
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: pain that I'm dealing with. Because I hated the idea
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: of going into that Thanksgiving I hate every year, like
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: we've made the most of it, but in that moment,
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: I was like, this is going to be the worst.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: And if I could take that pain away from somebody
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: to make sure a dad or a mom doesn't have
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: to work or they don't have to skip a holiday
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: because they can't afford it, I'm gonna do whatever I can.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: And so I literally within two months, I got on Instagram.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: I was like, I always talk about dreaming big, I'm
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: gonna run a marathon and we're gonna do it, try
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: to raise as much money for families in Tampa Bay
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: as possible. And in December of twenty twenty, went out
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: on some random ass trail in Tampa had no business
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: doing this marathon, but it was my dad on my bike,
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: and I went running beside him, and I came back
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: and I looked at my phone and we raised nearly
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: ten thousand dollars to feed families.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: I was shook, and I was just brought to tears
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: of just how incredible this community is. Because in that
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: time period, I truly wanted to walk away from everything
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: that I was working on radio shows and speaking and
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: all this. What's the point. In that moment, I realized
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: the point. Yeah, And so that's what started the journey.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: So in twenty twenty ran a marathon and then I
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: was like, well, what else is out there? All right, well,
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: let's go ahead and let's raise the bar. So I
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: went out to a conference and in this conference, I
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: saw this Speakerry Lindley. She starts talking about how she
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: became this triathlon champion, and I was so moved by
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: this story. I thought, shit, I have a new dream.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna do an iron Man. And then
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: all of a sudden, my thoughts started talking to me of.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: What do you think you're an iron Man? Are you nuts?
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: You don't even own a bike, You've never really swam
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: in a pool, like you have no business, And I
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: was like that's the point. I have no idea how,
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: but something speaking to me to go after this. And
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: so in twenty twenty three I did an iron Man
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: and we raised a couple thousand dollars to feed families.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: And then in twenty twenty four, I was like, well,
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: let's raise the bar, because every time I do one
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: of these challenges, the goal is that somebody's looking and saying,
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: wait a second, I want to go after something that
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: kind of scares me, that seems impossible, that I don't
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: know how to do it, but I have just enough
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: of a voice.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: In my head telling me to try it. I'm gonna try.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: And so in twenty twenty four I went after the
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: Panelist Trail Challenge that was a forty six mile ultra
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: marathon in the Panelist Trail in the den of summer
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: like this time August, brutal, horrible. And then in twenty
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: twenty five I was like, well, let's raise the bar again.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: Let's do another iron Man, and let's try to get
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: it even faster. I got a two hours faster. But
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: here's the truth. Last year I had the thought of
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: doing a one hundred miler, but I was just too
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: scared to do it. That's why I ended up doing
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: another iron Man. I was like, well, I know I
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: could do an iron Man, and I want to get
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: better at it. I like those races. This year, I said,
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: I can't quiet that voice anymore.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: I have to.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: I have to go ahead and try, and it scares
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: the crap out of me. So I decided, you know what,
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: the first step in any dream is just to say
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: it out loud. Do I have to do a hundred miles? No,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: not necessarily. Nobody gives a damn. But I was like,
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: this voice is never gonna quiet. I'm gonna go after it.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: Run one hundred miles and one day with the purpose
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: of what I started, and that is the feed families
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: in need to put enough meals on the table this
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: upcoming holiday season so families could gather around like I
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: had the gift of experiencing for twenty four years of
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: my life.
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: That's why I'm running to one hundred miles.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Nice and so you're selling hats is a way to
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: like breeze the money get people excited.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: You had to join the team to be part of
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: the movement and also to have that representation of you
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: know when you see it it's there to Dream. It's
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: on my website and I'll put it up on my
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: Instagram in my bio. But when you see it, it's
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: kind of that spark, spark of I'm going to lean
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: into that dream just a little bit. And something I
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: say on stages all the time is like, you have
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: that voice, it's probably like, oh, maybe you should start
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: a new business or ask that person out, or maybe
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: you should move or try this new activity. Just lean
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: in see what it's truly trying to tell you. Because
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: I had no idea why I was running that marathon
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: in twenty twenty. I just knew that I had a
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: purpose of feeding families. And now it's all right, let's
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: go ahead and run one hundred miles. I have no
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: idea how I'm going to do it. I just know why.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: And so that's what there to Dream is. So the hat,
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: every hat, fifty percent of the proceeds is going right
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: to metropolitan ministries. And here's what's so cool is I
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: get to see the orders coming in in every order.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: That's like a whole new section of meals that I
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: get to go over to metropolitan ministries and say, all right,
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: like this week, I get to go and write up
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: a check and be like, by hey boom, families, let's go.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: And this is going to be a long ass process.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: It's like eight months of training. So the goal is
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: at least one hundred families and I would love to
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: be able to do it before the holidays to make
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: sure that we're just going into the holiday season knowing
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: that families gather together because of this crazy ass dream.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I love that. Well, good for you, and I'm glad
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: you're doing that, and I hope you survive so too.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: Give you a good hospital bill. We have good insurance,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: right yeah, I think I guess I still sign up
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: for it.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: So thank you to your mom and thank you because
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: a lot of people were like, listen to the show
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: and they're like, I literally got one today that I
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: was like, Hey, I want to support Where can I
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: buy the hats link in my bio or just message
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: me on Instagram at Scott Tablin and I'll make sure
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: you have the link. But when you do it, you're
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: part of my team. And who knows, I'm trying to
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: put something together. I don't have all the details, but
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: where people can actually join me to do some laps
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: with me as part of the team.
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: There you go. Love it well. They shout out to
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: your mom. I appreciate Carrie. Carrie, you rock. Thank you.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: I'll get you your hat and a special note from
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: you boy. I do have friendship updates. I'm going to
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: save those okay, because I do have some more conversations
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: I have over the next couple of days on whether
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: or not I'm invited to weddings, whether or not certain
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: friendships have a problem with what I've been doing lately
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: in my life. We'll keep those updates coming in the future.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: Podcast.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Thank you for being part of this Rank it, subscribe
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: to it, comment on the episodes so we could read
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: it and also comment back.
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: Thanks fam