Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Kendrick had to kick his bestie's booty out
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- 0:00Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich Good morning, Kendrick, thanks.
- 0:01Speaker 2: For holding Hey, thanks for having me.
- 0:04Speaker 1: What's up?
- 0:05Speaker 2: Me and my best friend of fifteen years were roommates
- 0:08Speaker 2: and I just found out that he's been comforting my
- 0:13Speaker 2: ex girlfriend behind my back for like the last three weeks.
- 0:18Speaker 2: And like this is even worse this entire time, Like
- 0:23Speaker 2: he just had a deafinite family and lost his job.
- 0:26Speaker 2: So I've been trying to cheer him up, but he
- 0:30Speaker 2: has been lying to my face, like he's been staying
- 0:33Speaker 2: at the house when I go to work, and he's like, oh,
- 0:35Speaker 2: I'm trying, I'm trying to get a new job. I'm
- 0:37Speaker 2: trying to get a new job. But I find out
- 0:39Speaker 2: that he's been going to her place and I don't
- 0:43Speaker 2: even know what they's been doing, right, But you can't.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Figure that out?
- 0:48Speaker 2: But do you do?
- 0:48Speaker 1: You get the vibe that he's trying to move in.
- 0:51Speaker 3: See, I don't know if he's trying to move in
- 0:52Speaker 3: with her, but I will tell you this, I can't.
- 0:55Speaker 3: I can't believe that he's gonna like betray me that way.
- 0:58Speaker 3: You know, he's out here spending time with my ex
- 1:02Speaker 3: girlfriend and look, yes, I know what they're doing, Okay, And.
- 1:07Speaker 2: So eventually I just got so mad. I finally I
- 1:09Speaker 2: just went to the house. I even left work early.
- 1:11Speaker 2: I went to the house when I knew he was
- 1:13Speaker 2: gonna be there, and I told him I know what
- 1:15Speaker 2: you're doing. And turns out she was there too. Oh no,
- 1:19Speaker 2: he's been bringing her to our place.
- 1:21Speaker 4: Oh man, awkward. Well she's probably using him to get
- 1:27Speaker 4: to you, right, to mess you up.
- 1:30Speaker 1: That's happening, he said.
- 1:31Speaker 2: Well, I just wouldn't understand their deep connection.
- 1:35Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you're was it a bad breakup between you
- 1:39Speaker 4: and your ex?
- 1:40Speaker 1: Who broke up with who?
- 1:41Speaker 2: I broke up with her, But it's because she was
- 1:45Speaker 2: like becoming super controlling, wanted to know everything I was doing,
- 1:49Speaker 2: and I never caught her. But it felt like one
- 1:52Speaker 2: of those things where somebody changes, like maybe she cheated
- 1:56Speaker 2: and so she started to who's on your phone? Who's
- 2:00Speaker 2: that Ryan? So, But when he said that I wouldn't
- 2:05Speaker 2: understand it connection, I was like, you know what, that's it.
- 2:09Speaker 2: I'm done being the bigger person. I'm done being the
- 2:12Speaker 2: person that's like, well, this is my friend. And so
- 2:15Speaker 2: I told him, I said, dude, I gave him aviction. Notice,
- 2:18Speaker 2: I said, you got thirty days to get out of
- 2:19Speaker 2: my apartment.
- 2:21Speaker 1: You know, can I can?
- 2:21Speaker 5: I present a couple of things your way, And they
- 2:23Speaker 5: asked you a couple of questions. You said, You're trying
- 2:25Speaker 5: to do everything you can to comfort him because there
- 2:28Speaker 5: was there's a death who died in his family.
- 2:31Speaker 2: I think it was it was like a cousin or
- 2:34Speaker 2: a cousin. They were really close.
- 2:36Speaker 1: Okay, there was a cousin emotions. You are doing everything you.
- 2:44Speaker 5: Can to comfort him. She's obviously doing a better job
- 2:48Speaker 5: comforting him through this tragedy. But why don't you look
- 2:51Speaker 5: at it like you're you like, that's your ex and
- 2:54Speaker 5: you're kind of letting it happen, Like you're kind of
- 2:57Speaker 5: like that's your way of like you continuing to keep
- 3:01Speaker 5: the friendship. You're like, I'm letting I'm comforting him by
- 3:04Speaker 5: letting him do this, like you know, and then maybe
- 3:07Speaker 5: at some point a couple of months, we do, what's
- 3:08Speaker 5: the deal with you be with Francine, dude?
- 3:10Speaker 1: Because your cousin died. I was like, I was like,
- 3:13Speaker 1: letting it chill.
- 3:13Speaker 5: But now that a couple of times months have gone by,
- 3:15Speaker 5: you can be like if they form a great relationship
- 3:18Speaker 5: with their boyfriend, and girlfriend then it was meant to be.
- 3:19Speaker 5: If they're not, you can then then approach him and say,
- 3:22Speaker 5: you know, what's what gifts?
- 3:24Speaker 2: I mean that makes sense, but I mean I just can't.
- 3:28Speaker 6: I wouldn't want to too like that in my life,
- 3:30Speaker 6: Like no, yeah, I'm my friend.
- 3:33Speaker 4: You don't understand our deep connection is probably him giving
- 3:36Speaker 4: himself permission to do what he's doing.
- 3:39Speaker 6: Right, He's choosing her over you, which I mean, everyone
- 3:42Speaker 6: makes their own decisions, but I think you're absolutely right
- 3:44Speaker 6: by giving him that eviction you know nos, and say hey,
- 3:47Speaker 6: get your stuff and get ready to be done with
- 3:49Speaker 6: that friendship and that relationship.
- 3:51Speaker 4: It's a messy.
- 3:51Speaker 6: Yeah, that sucks.
- 3:53Speaker 2: I'm stuck living with this guy for like thirty more days,
- 3:57Speaker 2: but it's worth the awkwardness to so that I don't
- 4:00Speaker 2: have to live with a backstabber.
- 4:03Speaker 4: Yeah ahead, all right, man, Well thanks for sharing that
- 4:08Speaker 4: with us, Kendrick.
- 4:09Speaker 1: What a great story.
- 4:10Speaker 4: Was great?
- 4:11Speaker 1: Now it was great? Thanks all right? Not for Kendrick. Now,
- 4:17Speaker 1: I'm glad you came to us. Have a great day
- 4:20Speaker 1: you too.